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Q: Okay here it goes it may be a long one this time..
For starters I'm a 18/f I have been dating this guy he is 22 for 5 1/2 months. On my birthday he asked me to marry him. I said yes. Well that next week when we got home we got into a little argument which is normal and he said u know what i never even fell in love with u. Right when he said that my heart broke. I was totally in love with this guy you know ? Okay so then the next day he loves me again..hes like playing games with me. Well then i get a phone call from this guy i have known since march and had a total crush on well hes looking for a serious relationship and he is like totally falling for me. But i dunno what to do. Should i stay with the guy and fuss and have him play games with me or get to know this other guy ? I so need help !!!!
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O.K.
This guy you say loves you, i don't know about him very much but he seems very.............Idiotic. you either love someone or you don't. you can't just change your feelings about someone every other day.
Tell the guy who called your situation and then tell him you really want to get to know him. Then tell you "boyfriend" that you are just meeting an old friend to study for an exam, have a cup of coffe, hang out....etc.(so that he doesn't think you are cheating on him)
If he finds out admitt you were with another guy. If he seems genuinly upset them maybe he does love you..... I don't know it's kind of hard to tell if you only know so much about someone.
All I know is that a person who loves you would never mess with you head about your relationship with him.
hope I helped
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Q: i love this girl who is in my class at school but i think she fancies me how do i find out?
i rate 5
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well,
Ask her if she conciders you a friend.
If she says yes (which she probably will) Then wait a few days and ask If she wants to hang out with you ( get pizza go 2 the mall, whatever you do for fun) with you or with youa nd your friends.
HOpe I heLpeD
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Q: Okay. I like this guy and his name is Richie. Im 13 female by the way. What if I went over to his house and he wanted to make-out?What could I do to make it special. I am 13, he is 14. I dont know what else to do besides make-out. What should I do when we are making-out? I've never made-out with a guy before. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Stick your tongue in his mouth and just lick his lips and stuff.lol and If he starts kissing you just put your arm around him, and like i don't know im not a big expert or anything but jst like kiss him and guys like it when you just kind of let him do his thing. lol.
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Q: lately i've had this huuuuuge crush on this guy, but i dont think he likes me... its really bugging me becuz he sends me all the signals a boyfriend would to send to his girlfriend at school. i really like him and hes really cute. i'm gonna invite him to my halloween party, but i'm not sure how to tell him about it.
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First, define what type of signals he is sending. it could just be a friendly wave, or a smile. And go ahead and invite him!!! just make sure you dont obsess over him and pay attention 2 other people!! hop i helped!!
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Q: James told me he likes me. but to me, he seems like more of the best friend type. sometimes i find myself thinking i REALLY like him and sometimes i feel like i just want him to leave me alone. Like when i know he likes me, i dont really care about it, its just like whatever. but then when he doesnt call me or acts like he doesnt like me, i get really worried and start to think i like him. whats going on? i`m so confused with my feelings right now. please help me figure out what it sounds like i`m feeling
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just tell him how you feel. If he is a real friend, he will understand. Maybe wait a while and see if your feelings for him change. If not go ahead, and just maybe, he feels the sam About you. just remember not to fall to hard and to always be yourself!!
GoodLuck
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Q: Alright, so like I like this girl, she knows it, she's not sure if she likes me. She showed me her webpage today, and one of the comments says that she had her first kiss. I don't know what to say about that. Like just a few weeks, a month and a half at most, ago. She said her current relationship is almost over, but... I don't know. Honestly. I kept reading the page, and it turns out she had had like 3 boyfriends in the last three or four months. But I don't think they really LOVED her. I absolutely positively love her and I know that she's the one for me. Judging by how she broke up with the others, it looks like they didn't really love her, they were just the guys who look for "is she hot" and all. Like one person said he didn't like it when she acted all weird. Yeah, she's spassy, but I don't give a damn, I love her just the same! I told her that, but hey. We're 13. I don't know if she believes it, or knows what true love is considering the others. But she may love me. I recently asked her to a carnival as *cough* friends, and she didn't say "ok" or "sure" or "yes". She said "I'd love to!" which made me feel that it was right. I don't know why. I just did.
I really don't want her to have others. I want to be the only one. She has no idea how much I love her, it's more than anyone could possibly love anyone else. But she's already had a first kiss... so I don't know... it was someone who she's known her whole life, whereas we only met a year ago, so she may choose him over me. I really don't want anyone else to have her... really....
And then I commented on one of the people who she talked about breaking up with on her web page. I said that he was annoying, but not in those words, if you catch my drift. About two minutes passed. She logged off of AIM. I thought to myself, "Jeez. At least say goodbye." But then I realized that it would have been the perfect time to ask her out, just after dissing her ex (she has exes =( judging by the other stories I've read, the exes will come back to her, I just know it!!!) and so I think she was waiting for me to ask her out, but then thought that I was to shallow for that or something since it took so long. Jeez, I wrote the girl a song, even though I suck at songwriting, I can't be shallow! So now I'm worrying about are our chances over, could she be with the person she kissed, what if her exes come back, maybe she doesn't like me in the first place, what if she's making a hard decision and is going to choose the person who's not me, what if one day we kiss and it's not her first but it is hers, and so now I'm spassing and worrying and I just really want to have her! Sorry it's so insanely long... I'm just going through a hard time.
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wow!
i know how you feel (except my crush is a guy im a girl)
I understant completely you feel like u cant live without her she is your life you cant get 2 sleep because you think about her, your heart is pounding when you see her in the halls....i guess thats more that a crush right?
but if u feel like she is really special just tell her how you feel
its sounds so simple yet itz very complicated
all you do is ask her how she feels about you and stuff then ask her out tell her how much you love her and things like that you just gt 2 fight for her(especially if her ex comes back)
she will like you cause you like her not just 4 good looks but 4 her personality...
i hope i helped and i know tons about relationships so stick 1 in my inbox if something comes up id love to help you.
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Q: im only 13/f and i have had 3 boyfriends but never done anything more than hold hands and hug?? i havent even gotten my first kiss! is there some way i can get it soon or do i just have to wait?? i rate high!
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When It does happen the time will be right and It will be a special moment. You'll know when that moment comes. Good luck!!
>lil'nosy
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Q: okay me and this guy have been together for a while but i found out that he was still talking with his ex g/f of 10 months bc we go to diff. schools and they hang out and messed around and stuff so i got really mad and stopped talking to him then a week later he called me and was like i miss you im stupid i shouldnt of done that me and her are over i like you alot blah blah blah so i took him back then it happened again and i still like him bc its hard to just stop bc i love being with him and around him so should i give him another chance? or enough is enough? but i really wanna be with him..
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um... major loser/player it's written all over, drop the guy and have fun this summer!
Oh and just get in his face andtell him ur not the type to be cheated if that's the case....hope i helped *_*.
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Q: okay so in advance im sorry if this is long but please read and help anyways.
okay me and my boyfriend went out for 10 months and we had a good relationship but last weeekend was my birthday and my party .. it was a campout and well pretty much the whole time he was with one of my best friends, theyre friends too but shes a girl and they were cuddling, and all this stuff, well i guess she kissed him on the cheek and i got mad cuz like it was my bday and he was with her so we fought about it and he said i was jealous .. well then since we were fighting he would barely talk, so i left a message on his AIM away and said that if he wouldnt help and talk with me to work it all out then i was gunna give up cuz i was sick of trying to fix it by myself, well he took it as a breakup .. but i didnt..and i want him back but hes comfused he says and he says that its hard and everything and hes not sure if he wants me back or to be friends but he really cares about me still and loves me alot he said but he said alot more but i cant really type everything it would take a long time but i guess im really wondering is what do you think i should do..?
sorry its long but i cant do it on my own and i really love him.
btw im 15/f
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wow! sounds like you need to have a face 2 face talk with your boi.(and your friend) tell your bf that u don't want to break up and that you were just jelouse (always tell him the truth) and ask if he'll forgive you. (real simple) right?................hope i helped ya out good luck!!
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Q: Ok here it is, my boyfriend hasent called me in like 3 weeks and i called him 3 times in the past week and he hasent returned my calls. When i called him last Sunday to tell him somthing his mom pick up and i asked for him and she said "who is this Brittney" (My name is not Brittney) I have no clue what to do!!!!! Can you help me?
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well if she is calling u brittney, just a guess... another girl...hope i helped.
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Q: Ok There is this boy Zac and I Like him A LOT! And my friend Emmie thinks he likes me. I'm just going to say what happened to me when I hung out with him last( I haven't before this was the first time ). Well I was just standing in a corner at a basketball game and he came up to me and said, " Who are you? " and I simply replied my name and then he said " Oh okay I know you " and he walked away to play his basketball game( it was at half time ). When it was over he came over to me and said "Is your screen name g-o-i-n space.." and I just said yeah. Then he kept like sitting next to me. It was really funny watching him though because he was like kind of dancing lol. But anyways he kept coming over and sitting next to me and I was talking to him and he was looking at me this whole time. And whenever I looked over he didn't look away he just smilied. Well then I went outside and he I guess was talking about me because he pointed to me and said something to one of his friends. Well then he couldn't find me I guess but he came outside and started talking to me. I was acting stupid...for some reason I do that around cute guys lol...Anyways he was making fun of me for being stupid. And then he went inside the gym and so did I and he was just looking at me the whole time. < Thats what happened...he goes to a different school soo I don't know if his personality is just like that or anything. But I talk to him on AOL and stuff soo yeah. Well I asked a few people if he was really flirtish and they all said yeah...but thats A LOT of flirting he did right? Okay Well I need your opinions does he like me? I rate high and give comments! ^_^
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well, if u have been hanging around with him for a while and he still doesn't even know who u r....it may b hard but i would drop him, he's a loser who doesn't notice any 1...hope i helped~goodluck~
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Q: ok there isthis girl i like and she thinks shes to good for me and i want to proove her wrong and show her that im not a mistake wat do i do
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First get up front with her. Tell her that you like her and that you don't understand what she doesn't like about you. Second, don't show off or act immature, she'll think even less of you.
Then ask her out, if she still says no, then maybe she's not the 1 4 u!?
~~goodluck~~
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Q: What should you write in a love letter, and what should you not write?
obviously you don't want it to be corny but still to be sincere... I'm going to write one but I'm unsure of what to say.
is it too corny to put some song lyrics in from a song we both like that makes me think of him? He doesn't know that I like him, i don't think so. Just clearing things up... I don't want to regret it later.
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tell your "secret admiror" that you think that he's is nice, funny, cool to hang out with, and you like them and want to hang out with them you could also talk to them instead of a letter.
~and just a hint if your sending a letter to him, write it in hot pink (it gets their attention) and if u can spray it with vanilla (guys go crazy for it)
~~good luck~~
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Q: My boyfriend is moving and I really really like him, and we have been going out for 3 years and I wont see him anymore should I break up with him or not!
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yes it's definatly time to break up. You can still be friends but hes movin and he will want to go out with new people. And you will probably want to too.
~~good luck~~
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Q: to the ladies, what are some ways in which a guy can approach you and just start a conversation or something without it bein really weird. in the movies for example. hwo could a guy best present himself and possible ask for a sn or phonenumber.
for the guys: same question except what are some stuff that yall have tried
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if u no her then u can start a conversation about her or your interests/hobbies.
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Q: Eh, I was just wondering who knew what the heck courtship was, or what it means, and if they could like explain it, cause its totally screwing with me right now, Thanks!
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courtship means like going out...
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bio
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Hey im maya and i love to give advice. It just comes natrually that i wanna help someone, and so i decided to offer my advice to people other than my friends! they r: hannah chloe karlie jacky hillary jenna hailee micheala(micky) tara and a buncha other people!
and i answere EVERYONE's questions!!
so ask anything!
(((hugs)))
~maya ♥
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: florida Age: 13 AIM: Member Since: June 12, 2005 Answers: 60 Last Update: December 12, 2005 Visitors: 3111
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