James told me he likes me. but to me, he seems like more of the best friend type. sometimes i find myself thinking i REALLY like him and sometimes i feel like i just want him to leave me alone. Like when i know he likes me, i dont really care about it, its just like whatever. but then when he doesnt call me or acts like he doesnt like me, i get really worried and start to think i like him. whats going on? i`m so confused with my feelings right now. please help me figure out what it sounds like i`m feeling <3
lyDia_LoU answered Saturday October 15 2005, 12:22 am: OMG! I literally know exactly what you're going through and I was about to 'ask a question'. Like I don't know if I like him, but then when he walked a girl to her car I was like UhhHH..in a way I think we like the attention, but who could blame us? I like what the person under me said!! lol
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rikatree2375 answered Friday October 14 2005, 10:22 pm: I can't tell you what you're going through exactly, but i'll sure give you my opinion. I think you're scared of the whole relationship thing honestly. You're afraid of hooking up with this guy when you KNOW for a fact he's interested in ya. You also said you dont know what you're feeling. That's probably because you're trying to decide if you actually like this guy or not. If he seems like a friend type, then keep it at that level. Tell him nicely that you're not interested in that way. I'm sure he'll understand. But if you dont know for sure, dont lead the guy on because that'll end up with both of y'all being hurt. So i think you're basically afraid of what could happen. Stop stressing girl because you'll be fine!!! Maybe even talk to him about what you're feeling. Being honest never hurt. Well, i hoped some of that made sense. Good luck!!!
lilnosy1 answered Friday October 14 2005, 10:21 pm: just tell him how you feel. If he is a real friend, he will understand. Maybe wait a while and see if your feelings for him change. If not go ahead, and just maybe, he feels the sam About you. just remember not to fall to hard and to always be yourself!!
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