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kissing
first off i dont have an upper lip. well i have one but it really thin. my boyfriend has told that it is dificult to kiss me because he has some big lips. anything i can do about that? and my second question for soemreally when i kiss my bf i get all nerves and scafred that i will mess it all up since i barely see him and i want to leave him wit a good impression. anything i can do? and is there a way for me to slow myself down when kissing? thanks some much.
and any tips on making out would be apperiated.. where can you or should you put ur hands will making out with a guy?
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theres nothing you can do about that upper lip. but i think your main problem is that your too nervous. if you relax and stop worrying so much about what hes gonna think then maybe you'll be able to concentrate more and stop worrying. good luck.
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Well, as far as plumping your lips up - goodluck. There's nothing you can do about that. The only thing I can think of, would be using a nice clear lip gloss to give the appearance of more lively lips. However, that's just the appearance, and it obviously won't affect your skills, sorrie.. :/
For your second question, I think the problem is your own creation. I say you're simply THINKING TOO MUCH!! Don't think, just give it all you've got. I think that to a certain extent, kissing just "comes naturally". I believe that you have to be into the kiss to feel the passion and have the connection to keep things going. Now, if this guy is your boyfriend, I'd assume (or, at least hope) that you're comfortable with him. Otherwise, why would you two be together, correct?? However, I definitely understand how you might want to improve your game some. ;) And there's no shame in that - whatever works, ya know?? As far as "slowing down", that's something you just have to work on controling. I guess I don't see what the rush is. Why not take it easy and enjoy those precious moments. At any rate, I've found a few websites for you. I suggest taking a look at them:
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Also, you should really just keep your hands where you feel comfortable. If you perfer them to be left on his shoulders, then that's perfectly fine. The important thing to remember is not to let anyone push you around. You shouldn't ever let anyone force you into doing something which makes you uncomfortable. Another suggest would be on his thighs. However, be prepared for the possibility of his arrousal. At such a time as that, just think clearly and believe in your personal morals. [:
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Okay, so I think that you can't really do anything about your upper lip. When you kiss your boyfriend try sucking on his lower lip to draw attention away from your upper lip....guys like that anyway.
Maing out is tough to judge. It depends on where exactly your making out with someone to know where to put your hands. Here's my chart:
Standing:
Guys- arms around lower waist/butt area
Girls- on his face or around his neck
Sitting:
Guys: Arms around her waist or gently caressing her face
Girls: around his torso
Laying On Top Of Eachother:
Well...I think you can figure that out for yourselves.
Hope my advice helped!
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