well i think im fun and i have lots of bestfriends.
i like to hang out and as long as i know u thats good
i was born in seattle and i moved there when i was 9 and now i live in TX i think i like TX better...i miss my old friends but i think it was a good move!
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Ok soo like.. theres this guy, and hes really dead sexi and everything! In other words, hott. And I think he wants me to come over soo he can ask me out but what should I say. I mean, Ive known him for like.. 4 yrs as just friends. But now, I think hes wanting to get, well bf/gf like. Some of my friends are telling me to say no b/c i have to be hard to get but some are saying yes. I mean, I do like him. I have for a while and people told him that i liked him. Sooo idk what to say.. I wanna say yes but I need someones opinion first.. (link)
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lolz! i kno who this is! pluz i already told you...and now your his gf! be happy!
love you lotz
hopeit works out btween you two!
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okay so there is this guy i like at church and i think he likes me back because he stares at me but i dont talk to him bc our "groups" really dont talk to each other so i cant talk to him and if he does ask me out i dont know what to say because my mom thinks im to young to go out with guys by the way im 14 and i cant talk to her about it because we really dont talk and i really want to but it seems awkward every time i try to talk to her! plz help! (link)
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OMG! thats like the story of my life! but im 13! well...you should ask one of your freinds to go up to him and be like hey so and so likes you and if you like her ask her out...I know its wierd but trust me its betta then like just sitting there knowing he prolly got some1 else! so you might as well try
thankz!
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ok . I know this guy who really really love. We've been going out for sometime now. 3yrs to be exact. Anyway, my church went on a ski trip and so i invited him to go along. My father shaperoned. BAD IDEA!!!!! my dad flipped and said we couldnt see eachother anymore. i was crushed. What do i do? do i stay with my bf, or live hating my father forever? (link)
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Well first ask him why you cant see your boyfriend...if you want to let your dad hate you then go ahead and stay with your boyfriend but...if you would rather have your father not hate you and have no boyfriend then thats wat you should do theres really no answer to this question... but its the question who you love more and know more. hope i helped
lildesidevil143
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okay i like this guyand i dnt koe hoe to get him to like me and he likes somebody and i dn koe who it iz and i really need to find out who he likes and i really like him wut can i do??? (link)
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I think that you should talk to him and let him know how you are and he will like you. I think you shouldn't try really hard to find out who it is because if it's a friend or something then you will fight and you shouldn't. Just try to talk to him so he likes you.
lildesidevil143
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Ok, well ther's this guy who asked me out and I said yes. The onlyproblem is that I'm not allowed to date. But, I am allowed to go out with friends, even a coed group. My question is, what should I do? Should I try talking to myparents about it, or jsut tell them we're going as friends and other ones are going to? I really need advice, none of my friends are helping me!!
If it helps any im 13, hes 14. (link)
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ok you should tell your parents because who knows what will happen if you get caught. If they don't like it that you have a bf then tell them to atleast meet him and see if he's ok. Then if that doesn't work go as friends and probably go to the movies.
lildesidevil143
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Ok, i like this guy, let's call him Jim. I flirt with him CONSTENTLY and i think he likes me too. But then i was talking to his friend and he said that Jim raped someone. I didn't believe him at first and i askeD Jim about it. First he said "i'd never do that!". So i got his friend to come over and he said "Yea you did, remember? On my couch last summer?" And Jim said "O YEA!"
I dont want to like a guy who raped a girl. Plz help me, i dont kno what to do! (link)
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i think that you should stay away from him because you never know if he'll do it to you. I hope i'm not hurting your feelings but you know you should stay away from him even if you like him.
lildesidevil143
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my family is very religious. so when they found out that i had sex with my ex boyfriend a while back they went crazy. i promised that i wouldnt do it again, but now that i am seeing someone else it's getting harder and harder to say no. i'm only 17, i know thats young, but should i wait until i am married for my family? or should i just give in for myself? (link)
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i think that you shouldn't have sex with him because you never know what can happen. I think that you should wait until you are older. But that's my opinion. I think that you should do whatever makes you happy, but think about your parents and if you get caught then you'll probably get into more trouble since you said that you wouldn't.
lildesidevil143
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13/M and i don't get what girls mean when they say he's guy friend material? Does this mean that girls won't like to go out with them? I have a lot of girls friends and some of them even consider me their best friend but no gf for awhile does this mean im a "guy friend" not a boyfriend? (link)
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when girls say that the guy is guy friend material it means that he can be a great friend. and it doesn't mean that girls won't go out with them. When you don't have a gf adn you have a lot og friends that are girls then that means that your a guy friend not boy friend...trust me i kno this stuff!lol
lildesidevil143
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okay i was going out with this guy for about 2 yrs.. and then he broke up with me because i was always lieing to him (which was very bad thing for me to do.. and i regret doing it!!) i tell him all the time how im sorry and i want to get back with him because i love him. and he just says he doesnt want to get hurt again but he still feels a great deal for me. and cares about me and likes me. we are still REALLY good friends and we tell eachother everything and we are always there for eachother. But we also still have sex and do other sexual things.. and im just scared that he could be using me..!! what do u think??? please help!! (link)
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i think that he could be using you. So you need to stop with the sex stuff and just be friends with him. Then if he changes and doesn't liek talking to you or something then he was DEFINEITLY using you but if he's ok with you not having sex with him then no he's not using you.
lildesidevil143
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I'm not sure but I may be a victim of emotional abuse. I've been with my guy since high school, more the half of a decade ago, and we have a child together. Now he doesn't call me names and put me down to my face, though he's come close before, but it's like whenever he's in a bad mood he takes it out on me, he blames EVERYTHING on me that comes to his mind. It makes me feel really low. I think he does it to make himself feel better but then I feel like total crap and I hang my head down and sigh for like hours. Sometimes I get so sick to my stomach over it. It's just this vicious cycle that keeps on going. He acts nice again and I love that person that he is when he is nice so I forget everything and am able to relax again for a little while. But when he changes faces again I'm like, "Oh why do I put myself through this, here we go again." I feel like such trash for putting up with it. I just love him so much, and I know he loves me but wonder if there's a part of him that hates me because he has to blame so much on me. And if I say anything when he is angry, ANYTHING, it makes him angrier and he doesn't listen to anything I have to say. His father treated his mother like this and I think he's following in his footsteps. I don't want my son to think this is how a man is supposed to treat a woman. So I'm just wondering if this is considered emotional abuse. Thanks. (link)
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if it makes you feel sad then it is emotional abuse. So when he's calm and nice then talk to him about it and make him agree to going to get some help because you don't want your child to be like that do you? so for the sake of your child and your family i would talk to someone about him...hope this helps
xoxo aliya
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me and my ex dated for 4months...not a long time i kno but everything was perfect we were totally in love and i realli had faith in our relationship well we broke up in august and i still havent found sum1 that makes me truly happy like chris did. my friend mentioned that i should date her exbf but now she changed her mind and doesnt want me to date him. i respect that because he is her exbf and stuff but she did kind of have my hopes up on finding someone who would treat me right and stuff. i dont kno lately its been goin through my head to just give up on a relationship right now because im only 15 but another part of me wants to keep looking. should i give up for now or keep on looking? i just dont know...~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~ (link)
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you should definetly keep looking. But don't make boys your whole life. I think that you are just trying to find a good realationship so keep looking but don't make boys the center of your life.
hope this helps!
xoxo aliya
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well I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. I feel i am insecure about myself and constantly feel myself feeling and thinking that i am not as pretty as the girls that he sees. I have become controlling because i tell him he cant look at other girls and he can not have girl friends. I feel if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls. I do not like him to work with pretty girls because i am afraid that he will flirt with them and not tell me. I get angry when he stares at other girls. We are constntly fighting. Is this all my fault. How can i stop being so scared that he is going to leave me for someone better. Even though everyday he says he wont i still get scared. And when i even see a pretty girl i say she is ugly so he wontlook . i know we care and love eachother so much . i do not want us to fight we are getting married soon please help my problem stop (link)
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well, what you really need to do is talk to your bf and solve this problem. And if you love him so much then you should know that he loves you back and you should trust him. Then if you start getting signs of him cheating dump him. I think the main reason you are thinking this is because you dont have enough self confidence in yourself
hope this helps!
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I like this guy who is a musician...actually he's in three different bands. So, every weekend he has shows that he plays. Being supportive, I come to see him play, but since he's playing we hardly get to talk, and when we do he's worn out and tired. Our conversations are pretty much meaningless online , and I don't like to call guys- I wait for them to call me.
Lately he's seemed pretty distant. Is this a sign for me to back off, or is he waiting for me to make the first move? (link)
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i would back off for a while!
hope this helps
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and I live with him now. Well, he wants a kid really bad and I told him no because I'm almost 20 and we both work at MAC. And, MAC doesn't really pay us good. And obviously, you need money to have a kid. I'm on BC and have been for like 8 months and somehow I lost my pills. I'm organized, and I dont misplace things hardly ever and I think my boyfriend stole them. I'm getting more pills tomorrow but I just KNOW my boyfriend stole them! He hasint talked to me in two days because I accused him of stealing them. Why does he want a freaking kid so bad!? I dont want to break up with him, its been 3 years and I dont want to throw our relationship away. But what can I say to him to get his mind off kids!!! (link)
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well, if he likes money then i guess you could say that if we dont have children right now we can save enough money and have children later. Also be like I don't wanna go thru the pain right now. If he loves you then he will not want you to go thru the pain.
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OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks (link)
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well u should first of all talk to him in person and if he doesn't listen then he totally isn't worth it
aliya
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what would you do if a 16 year old guy asked you out and you were 13?
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well i would first make sure that he's not the bad type, like drinks and he does bad things to girls. Then u should go on dates but only for movie and a pizza nothing serious like at his house or like somewhere in the car or something.
hope this helps!
~aliya~
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