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i know this is long but i realllllly need advice!! so please help!

okay. so my group of my friends is pretty much my 2 best friends and one of my best friends boyfriends and his friends. its hard not to want to hook up with any guys in the group since were together alot though, but all the guys in the group are pretty much jerks except my friends boyfriend. but theres this one guy in the group i started likeing. after we met the first few times and actually started talking i friend requested him on myspace and we messaged eachother and yeah thats kinda where it started. then one night after we were all hanging out, after everyone went home i was texting with my friend about how i wanted to hook up with him. then like 5 minutes after that randomly at like 12:00 at night he messages me on myspace. we start talking and some how he ends up meeting me up the street from my house at 1:00 a.m and we hook up in his car. i told him ahead of time i had no intentions of doing anything else with him and he said ok but how about a kiss. so that was gunna be the plan. just kissing. like i wanted to. but one thing lead to another and i did end up going further. but not too far. i resisted a few things. so after that we really didnt even talk that much besides when we'd see eachother when all our friends hung out on the weekends. then like 2 or 3 weeks later he has people over at his house one night and while we were both "out of it"..we ended up hooking up again. and one thing again lead to another, and we did more. except i went further this time. i regreted it and i felt soo stupid cause again, we didnt even talk besides when all our friends hung out. so i just tried to forget about him but then once again..2 weeks after that. after a night of being out with all our friends i stayed out alot later then usual and we end up hooking up again and by the end of the night we were doing more stuff again. i feel soo stupid. so after, hes taking me home and i start telling him about how my friends dont want be to get USED like sarah did" like hinting him..cuz he had used my friend sarah in the past but they only hooked up once, not 3 times. and he goes "well this is different" and i go "how?" and he goes "i dont know." wow so okay i dont even get what that means. soo the next day i feel soo dumb for hooking up with him again and i feel dumb cause i like him and i dont even think he likes me and im just regreting it. i thought he might because he does like cute things, like this past time when we hooked up at first we just pecked alot and he'd hold my hand. so i thought that was something. so finally the other night i message him on myspace and i go "does hooking up with me mean anything to you? or am i just your random weekend hook up?" and he goes "i really dont know" and i reply and say "how do you not know" and he reads it and never writes back. also his friends say they've like never seen him with a girl, like a girlfriend. but what do you think? do you think he might actually like me? or do you think hes just using me?? and should i stop hooking up with him??

I know what you mean.
It happened to my before.
They use you,then they move on.
Then you hate yourself.
But at the same time,you want him still.

Personally,Its all your choice.
Its your to stop it.
Or contiue it.

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Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body but the problem is i cant hide my boobs and i dont want people to automatically think im slutty=/... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss

You can get some dickies pants,studed belt and get like a atreyu,or as i lay dying t shirt.

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everything is starting to go wrong today two guys played me without me even noticing i feel so awful and depressed its been a few months since my last boyfriend and i really thought it would work out with the first guy i thought he would never hurt me then there was another girl and all the shit he told me i actually fell for it
then with the other guy i was falling for him hes interested in me and everything but now hes saying he has a gf i dont understand this shit
and when i think about it i have no intentions of going out with the second guy
please help me

Fuck them both up!

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Alright this may seem pathetic.. but I just realized I don't like my boyfriend that much anymore... I just can't dump him because I.. don't know I juust can't do it! So I was going to try to get him to dump me.. the only thing is I don't know how!! The one thing I don't wanna do is cheat on him! So does anyone have any ideas on how I should go about doing this!?

I can unstand what your saying and you wouldn't want to hurt him.But all i can say is watch how to lose a guy in 10 days it might work!

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Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!!

Wow uour brother must be really strong for an 8 year old to choke your boyfriend lol.Give him money to go away it might just work.In a little kids mind two dollars tends to be alot.

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A friend of mine has his girlfriend's birthday all planned out. Well, almost. There is one point where he doesn't know what he's going to do. This is what he has so far:

Wake her up a 7:30 in the morning; give her 30 seconds to grab anything she needs then take her out to breakfast. After breakfast he's going to take her back home so she can get cleaned up, take a shower, and all that good stuff. Breakfast will probably take an hour so she should be ready by 11am. Then, he doesn't know where he's going to take her. But, at 5pm or 6pm he's taking her to an early dinner where he's giving her her gift. After dinner, at 7pm he's taking her to his fav. local band's show who she's gotten pretty interested in. After their show, him and his band are going on stage and sing her 2 fav. songs to her; Vindicated by Dashboard and Hanging by a moment by Life house. All of that should be over at about 10 or 10:30pm. When it's over, he'll take her to her house where all her friends are waiting for her. We’re gonna party it up through the rest of the night and may be a lil into the morning ;).

But anyway, he still needs to figure out what he's going to do with her from 11am to 5 pm. That's about 6 hours lol. I want to tell him to take her to an amusement park but I don't know if 6 hours will be enough for that. Any suggestions?

mmm the mall !

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Ok i kinda like this girl, but the problem is shes moving away in a little over a month. im planning on asking her out, but im wondering what she will expect to happen at the end of the month. she cant stay, i cant go with her, and i dont know if im ready for a long distance relationship. if it matters shes not moving accross the globe or anything, about a 4 hour drive. so, mostly for the girls, what is she gonna expect to happen? im 18/m shes 19/f.

aww how sweet mm QUCK WASTING HER TIME ASK HER OUT before she leaves

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what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do?

tell them to go to hell

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Okay so here's my problem...I have a lot of friends, and i would say 70% of them are guys. youre probably wondering what the problem is right? Well the problem is, i have a tendancy to fall in love with my guy friends because they are so sweet and the perfect boyfriend material type for me. Sometimes i think they like me by how they act around me, but then i find out they only like me as a "friend" I'm sick of being just the friend and i want to show the guys i can be more than a friend...how can i should my guy friends that i can be more then just friends with them? That i want to be seen as girlfriend material?

i have the same issue as you i hang out with 70% of guys ...even at lunch i sit with all guys i'm the only girl ..some girls can piss me off with there fucking attide being all that because they were fucking ambercrombie and shit and they don't like me becausei'm friends with the hott guy i wear like skater stuff so there against me two ......mmmmmmm if i were you flirt with them maybe go to the movies with him get closer to him

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my friend who i told that i liked him asked my friend for my number. she gave him the wrong number. so he asked her for my number? does this mean he is shy?! and if so how do i open him up a bit?

how stupid can your friend be to give the wrong damn number ? .....go up to him and give him your number in stead (not the wrong number like your friend)

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my friends say i should be more affectionate with my cursh because he likes me! what should i do?! how can i be affectionate?!

hug him , tease him , flirt with him .........then if its a reall good moment kiss him

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I've been going out with this guy for 5 months and i love him and everything... but i think my ex is hot and sometimes i even dream about doing stuff with him (i've dreamed at least 4 times in the past month me and my ex either making out, or having sex) and i love talking to my ex even though i don't like him anymore and my boyfriend kind of gets mad when i talk to him.. but i don't want to end things with my boyfriend.. what should i do?

well first off he is ur ex so you can talk to him ...screw your boyfriend ....thats pretty stipid as if your boyfriend doesn't talk to his ex girl friend

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this sounds really but here it goes... how do you kiss someone?

well .thats wat i wanted to know on my first kiss ....but it just happens like ur month knows wat to do .....werid

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Im 14 and i broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago. His best friend likes me alot and we went out before but broke up because i had to move but i moved back here again. An i like him extreamly alot also!! But my x boyfriend likes me sooo much and i dont like him and he knows that... So shuld i go out with his bestfriend even though my x likes me alot.. or shuld i just be single? Please help me =/

i wouldn't.......u could ruin there friend ship .....talk to ur ex

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