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i've been best friends with this one kid ever since 5th grade when we went out. and in 5th grade going out means oh my goddd he touched my hand. butt ever since we broke up we been bestfriends. every summer since that we spent every waking hour together. and im now in 9th grade. lets calll this kid Matt. me and Matt have a really really good friendship and we talk about anything and everything. and when i hang out with him i never get bored. its sort of like a girl bestfriend. we make jokes out of everything,i know i can talk to him about anything, we even pick out our clothes together on the phone all the time. but see the problem is -- im falling for my BESTT FRIEND. and i dont want to tell him becuse i dont know if it would ruin our friendship or make things akward. i mean we did kiss a couple times over the summer butt it was just a friend ship make out kinda thing. it didnt mean anything to him but it mentt everything to me. and my question to you is.. should i tell him how i feel? do you think it would ruin our friendship? or should i just keep being best friends with him? i mean sometimes best friends like me and matt get married but who knowwwss.
Signed,Confused.
i would tell "matt" that you liked him, but i'd talk to him, and i would tell him that if it would change the relationship yous already had, tehn nvm, cuz you don't want to change what you guys have,
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ok.. well im in highschool.. && well people make fun of me because i had a really bad past, i use to have alot of problems. well, i got them all fixed... && people STILL make fun of me.. it really gets me ticked because its like they dont even give me a chance. what should i do?
fuck them all up, lol jpjp. uhmm, i would try to talk to them and tell them, i know that it sounds not the right thing to do, but they shouldnt judge you before they know you, and if they dont talk to you then well, fuck em, they are immature. and they really don't deserve to talk to you. you deserve better.
hopeee i helpedd
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nicoleeeee =] i guess advice columns are getting popularrrr =]
love* Danika
lol. bc. of you :p
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alright so im bisexual and i get made fun of alot in school.. i try not to let it bother me but its really hard not to. i tried ignoring the people and it just gets to me and i don't know why. the last thing i want to do is go to guidance... i don't want the school to know about my sexuality. what should i do?
Ook, there is alot of people in my schools now a days that are "bisexual" first of all, what you don't know about me is, i dont care what people think about me.. and you shuldn't either. if you are fine with your sexuality then, let it be. and just ignore them. good luck babe.
hopeeee i helpeddd.
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Hey. I've been friends with this girl for about 4 years now and i just can't seem to get her out of my mind. I've tried to tell her how i feel but just cant seem to get it out. I did one time and she said she didnt want to ruin our friendship, but even though i told her it wouldnt she still doesnt want to go out with me. I told her how i felt a while ago. So i figured i would give it some time and see, but now i dont kno if i should say anything or leave it alone.
I would leave it as friends, cuz sooner or later she'll fall for you :p Justtt give it time. I'd rather have a friend then nothing, you knoww?
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ok well ive liked this gurl ever since iv known her, 4th grade, and i used to try an make her laugh to like me, well now were older, im 13 adn so is she, so yah i mean at this age we have alot of emotions and dk about things, but we went out over the summer adn had our first kiss.. but she left me the next week for a guy she supposably 'loved' but now thinks is a fag, and well then after a while we both saw other people, my g/f broke up with me a few months ago, for total confusin, and the gurl ive known since 4th grade , just broke up wiht her b/f lets say a wekk or so ago i dk soon lol, wel before she broke up wiht her b/f she said she had feelings for me, and she couldnt choose who, and then she told me she had ben lying baout her b/f to me for months, and it was rele a kid from my class, but any way so i had thot i liked this other gurl, but then like i went over to hmm lets call her sarah(gurl since 4th grade)s house last night, we watched movies in her basment , and soon enough we wer makin out on her couch, like for what seemed like hours, and i truely love her so much, i rele care about her, shes my life(im not a stalker just care about her ok) and well today i talked to her, adn well she sais she just wants to be freinds wit benifets.... and i mean im ok wiht htat kissin her and stuff, but i rele rele want her, i want to go out wiht her , i want to be with her, but she sais that shes scared to go out with me, because shes scared she'l hurt me like she did in the summer , so i just said, oh ok yah thats cool, so now the gurl who i had a crush on before might ask me out , or somthn i dont know, but i dk what to do, 'sarah' sais if an opportunity comes for a g/f that i had to promise to go for it, because she thinks that i need somone better for me, but i cant, i wont , no1 is better for me, i mean we have so much chemistry, and were closer than anyone ive ever ben wiht , no lie, we are like so close we know we care about eachother even as freinds, but i know what i want, and i think that she might be scared , scared of hurting me, scared of gettin close, to close to fal in love wit somone, so yah, i mean, idk im just gonna wait, theres nothin i can do, so thats y i came here
-waht can i do to show her not to be affraid but to take a chance, shes different than she was in the summer, and to take a chance and be able to be happy, because i know shes not, she knows shes not, but i thinnk she was happy last night , ..so was i... wel i rele love her, adn i wanna know some tips on what to do to go overboard for her and i need somthin to get her, to make her need me like i need her, ill rate huge for even an answer at all!
Mmk. I've had EVERY word of this except. I'm a girl. I was in your same position. And kinda/sorta still Have itt. Alls I have to say is can you make her PROVE that she likes you?.. like does people know she likes you or is like a lets keep this on the DL kinda thing. cuz if it's a lets keep this on the DL kinda thing i think she likes kissing you :p Uhmm. well, If She doesn't like you for who you are it's not worth it... if you have to go buy soemthing to prove you really really like her don't. I know. ALOT of people probaly say this to you. butt. there is AMILLION other girls out there. and yeah, i'll admit, you've liked her for awhile, but you'll adventually start liking some one else more. Mmk? I hope i helpedddd
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I'm a 27 year old female.For the first time in a long while I'm actually happy to be single. I have my own appartment and a part time job, and was thinking that if I was dating someone I probably couldnt affort to have all the nice things like movies, cd's, and nice furniture, because I would be spending it on my bf. I was also thinking how nice it is not to have the responsiblility of looking after children. A lot of the ladies I work with at the store have kids and they are always so stressed out. I have it made- I only answer to myself and can come and go as I please. The money I make is spent on myself and doesnt go to pay for anyone else.
I am selfish for feeling like this? And is it just I phase? I want to have a family SOMEDAY, just not now. I'm having too much fun!!
Woah, No. This is NOT selfish. Your Only 27, you know, live your life. And when, and only When your ready start a family, you know? Yeah. Well. I hope I helped
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ok so my bf calls me liek every day or every other day and we talk for ever but the only reason we talk for ever is becasue it is total silence i mean its not a sighn to break up i know this becasue healways calls me i try hard to think of a topic but we are still at the stage that is like we are uncomfortable around eachother but he is great and awsoem and realy kool to talk to but on the phone he doesnt realy do anything i need HELP PLEZZ what should i try to talk about to get the conversation going
ohh boyy. i had this problemm. i asked him everything from whats your favorite colour too do you like your mom or dad better. haha, i adventually ran out of things to say and he never stared any conversations. but you could talk about:
memories*
embarassign moments*
family*
future?*
what makes yous happy*
favorite things. such as animals, colours, dogs, etc.*
what he wants to be when he growns up*
theres a whole bunch more stuff. f you need more askk
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