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Q: ok, i've read your advice and i thank you. i know i should tell him how i feel but his a guy that takes everyting seriously. i'm scared that he think i'm kind of lied to him, which i honestly didnt. i like him very much and ive learned to know him. He trust me alot and thats why im scared that he might not really undestand me. cause theres no way i want to loose him. I'm just trying to find out how to say it.

I see your point. Maybe you should just tell him what u are feeling and open up to him. And hope for the best. He seems like a nice guy he will understand and if he doesn't just tell him that u really like him and you wouldn['t do anything to hurt him or yall relationship. Good Luck i hope i was a help.

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Q: How do you get a picture URL? (that's from a file, not the net) HELP! HURRY!

Right click the pictures go to the properties and the url should be right there!
**welcome**

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Q: I've been dating this boy for two months and i love him so much. when his around i feel secure and loved. His a good boy towards me. But the problem is that im 16 and his 19. What if i cant reach up to his standers. I mean his way of thinking is not like mine. Could this affect us? and Secound thing is that his school is far from his home therefore he has to stay there and comes only for holidays. These are the only times i see him. And its like 3 Months before i could see him. But we call or sms each other everday. Im scared that it could affect our relationship. We talked about it earlier and i said it doesnt affect me but now it does, and very much.

Hey, talk to him about it agin. tell him that it didn't affect you to begin with but u have been thinking about it and u have come to realize that it does. Follow your heart... and if he really loves you then he will understand. Talk to him see how he feels. Let me no how it goes.

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Q: 14/female
I'm always jealous of other girls because I I know that their so much prettier than me. I'm even jealous of my friends. One of my friends is like so perfect: shes pretty, all the boys are like in love with her.. her life is just perfect all together. and i am SOO jealous! I reallly want to get over it but i dont know how. I'm constantly comparing myself to other people .. and i think that brings down my self-esteem.
i just want to stop being jealous because it just makes me feel worse about myself..

how do i stop being jealous? and is there anyone else out there who feels the same way ?

OMGosh! Hunnnie, yes there are many people that feel the same way as you! You should never compare yourself to anyone else!!! Everyone has there own look and personality! If we all looked the same then life would suck! If guys dont like you for ur additude, or personality then they are not worth it! Jealousy is something every girl and boy goes through this and they are all going to need advice. do what you can if guys dont like who u are on the outside then they are not needed! **let me no what heppends**

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Q: So I haven't seen my boyfriend a lot lately. I'm afraid he's losing interest in me. He was sick before so he couldn't come see me. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks. I thought the break would bring us closer but it he hasn't been able to get a ride. I really think I'm not going to see him until next year which would be a month of not seeing him. Is it wrong to get upset about it? It feels like it is. I see him once every week or so.. So it feels like I haven't been around him in 2-3 months and people are saying that I'm too emotional..

Oh hunnie No it is not bad to be upset about it at all!! It sucks not being able to see the one you love. I no how u feel. Talk to him see how he feels if he feels like you do than maybe yall should take it a step further talk more see each other more. And if he doesn't then try to fix it but it is supose to be a 50 50 relation ship both of you should give the same attempt! if one of you guys are not giving your all then its not gonna work. Take my advice talk to him and see what he is feeling! Let me no what happends.

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Q: 14/f...I like one of my best guy friends named Will but he doesn't know it. He is really close with my best friend Kate. They knew each other like a whole year before I met him so that's why. Whenever she's not around me and Will he talks to ME nonstop. But when she's around, I can NEVER get him to even talk to me. I feel left out and I always think "how am I supposed to get him to like me if he's always busy talking to her?" I have no idea what to do and I am so confused. Winter formal(dance) is coming up and I want him to ask me. But how do I get noticed? (and if you say flirting...can you please be specific)Thanks.I RATE HIGH!
ps. merry x-mas to everyone

You would be surprised how many people say that! Well to start off with be your self, talkative, loud, friendly, how ever your personality is dont change for any guy. Try to get into there convo keep it going ask questions get him to focus on both of you. You want him to be happy right? well dont take her away from him just add a new friend (you). Talk to him when she is and isn't around dont change when she is around. Be yourself. Let me no what happends!

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Hi, My name is Kelsie, i love to give advice and get it! Im known by my friends my the advice person (not a very good name lol) I hope that you guys enjoy my advice and try my advice out! I try to answer all the quewtions but sometime i dont get them all! I will look through them to see what i think i can give the best advice in and i will do first come first served! I enjoy i hope you guys do!