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I need advice and your opinion.
Hi, I have a bit of a confusing situation, but maybe it's just in my head and so could you help me out? I'm 22 and see, I've been a friend with this guy for the last three years. I met him my freshman year at college and we went on a double date with his roommate and his girlfriend. After that, we saw each other around campus but not much else. He would im me every once in a while though to talk. I noticed last January he had left school and he emailed me that following February or so telling me that he was in Iraq. I freaked of course, worried about him instantly. Since then during the summer we emailed each other off and on and messaged each other but he was the one to initiate most of the conversations while I emailed him most of the time and he was good about replying every time. Then in September he brought up the idea that he was coming home for 15 days of R and R and mentioned he was coming here to get transcipts to transfer colleges when he got back and would i want to get lunch with him? I said yes of course and he came, we had lunch and he cracked me up the entire time. He then went to get his transcipts and I went in with him, and sat for half an hour but after that time he said I didn't have to stay but I said I wanted to hang out with him and didn't mind. While all of this, he was opening doors for me and the gentlemanly things and said thanks for staying with him. We talked for about five minutes before he left and then I gave him a hug, he hugged me back of course and said he would email me. When he got back to Iraq he did email me to tell me he was safe and then we kept emailing each other off and on until Thanksgiving. Well after thanksgiving he couldn't get emails so he mentioned I could write him if I wanted. So I've been writing him since December and we write each other about every other week or so. He started out signing his letters As Always, or something like that but then switched it to love. And he says how great it is to hear from me and writes alot to me. He keeps me updated on when he thinks he is going to come home and mentions getting together this summer once he gets out of Iraq. The last letter I got from him, he told me an official date since all the changes and said he wasn't going to tell his parents though since the dates have changed alot and he just didn't want everyone knowing he was going to be home and how he wanted to be by himself for a while in peace and quiet. I've always considered us more of acquiantances before we started writing and was wondering if you thought he might be interested in me as more than friends? or does it just sound that he now considers me to be a friend, the thing is that I have never had a guy sign love to a letter who wasn't romantically interested in me and I really do care about him and have come to like him as more than a friend, am I just reading hidden signals because he didn't have to invite me to lunch or keep in contact?. Thanks :).
-Mixed but likes
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He maybe wrote love on the letter just because or he is starting to like u more and more. i think he do like u and want to be mored than friends. after all he is still writing u letters and talking to u and he said he want to go on a date with u. then he said when he comes he wants to be alone yell right he wants it to be u and him until he leaves.
I SAY HELL YELL HE LIKES YOU GURL!!!
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This is a weird question...but how do u give someone a hickey that lasts more than 5 mins? My boyfriend gave me a couple of them and they lasted a week! I wanna get him back for it, but mine only last like 2 mins, lol. Revenge! Is there, like, some trick to it or something? (link)
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Bite yo man real hard like you biting a piece of chicken bite his ass so damn hard he about to scream but don;t ripe his skin off. But there really isn't a trick really some people do it well some doesn't try what i said though. LOL
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i have a sex parner. We practice safe sex dont worry!!! We met up ever so often and he buy me toys we use on each other. I wanted to find some new toy we can try together but i dont no what websites they are i heard that if u type itt on in the web search then its just porno. Ne 1 help ?? (link)
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u should go to yahoo and search for sex toys
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what would u do if your son was at home. Crying all alone on the bedroom floor because he's hungry and the only way to feed is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money. (link)
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"And his daddys home in and out of lock down i ain't got a job now so for u its just a good time but for me its what i call life"
That's a good song because most people are in that mess.
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i have been talking to guy online for like a year now. we started off as friends... We weren't looking for anyone because we were both getting over long term relationships. Mine wasn't as long as his but the pain was simular. Well guess its best to just explain. I the guy I was dating wasn't making me happy i found i was more miserable than happy. but I have a child by him and we were still in the same household as roommates.....And the guy knew this that I started talking to and said he understood it and was cool with it.....Well, he had just got out of a 13 year relationship with his high school sweetheart. The have two kids which he has custody of and she left him....Well i was okay with this fact because we were just talking as friends. So as time went by we decided that we were both wanting to be more than friends so we started a relationship..We are not in the same state i might add. Well we have always said we would make sure the relationship wouldn't have a negative relationship on the kids. Well, anyways him and my ex aren't the best of friends.... and since my ex was here with me he decided to give me time to see if me and my ex would get back together. After 2 months that didn't happen. it was hard not talking to him. I found myself really unhappy and alone. but it was left up to God when I would talk to him next. Well one day I called after the 2 months and he answered. we realize that time hadn't changed our feelings towards one another and we continued our relationship. well here we are 4 months later and he tells me he is unsure of his feelings. He can't understand how he can love me and still have feelings towards his ex wife. he feels that they should go away completely....I told him i don't think that will ever happen. He just has to figure which feel is stronger. Well he said he thinks he has to get up and walk way from his relationship to me until he figures it. Or until his feelings for her dies. Because he is afraid that our relationship will end like theirs did. and it doesn't help that I told him i loved him 4 days ago. after he made a statement saying that when your in love that you shouldn't have any worries and asked if i thought he had any and i said no. well then he told me when i said that i loved him that we was afraid of letting himself love me because he's afraid of getting hurt. I am like was you trying to tell me something he is like i don't know maybe.....So now i am like am i suppose to wait on him if i love him for him to figure out if he's going to listen to his heart(me) or his mind(her and me)....He says he torn between to women he feels like. Am I at a lost and should I give up on love or let this love find its way aback to me again it did once should I think it will again? please help me understand this....
lostamongsttheroses (link)
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i am not saying u should wait for him your whole life because he may never get over his ex when u love someone that love don't go away for some people no matter what happened in their relationship he will aways love her and he needs to know that. but it doesn't mean if he love his ex he should be with her. he wants to be with u but he feels that it isn't right that he love two women. let him know your cool with it and u won't hold it against him. ut if he still needs more time give him some space but after a couple of weeks or months u need to start dating other people just in case he don't come back.
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How is it having a boyfriend? (link)
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its nice but you have to watch out for htem hatas
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my boyfriend that i live with read my email from a man that i was planning on sleeping with in the near future and i no he knows should i bring it up he is giving me the cold shoulder my live in that is what should i do should i bring it up should i just ignore it the only reason i was planning on sleeping with the guy any how is that my live in and i have a non existent sex life and i was desperate well i hope someone out there can help me get back in the good graces of my live in (link)
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u know what they say whatever u do will all ways come in the light. r u trying to destroy your relationship. talk 2 him about it so he will know at least u care about him. let him know your sorry but u really have to mean it just have a nice little talk with your man
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ok. i was going out with this guy for 2 weeks, and i didnt no it but he broke up with me. he told my friend he wanted to break up. he said the reason was because he was happier bein single. then a few months later he told my friend that he broke up with me because his stepbrother thought i was ugly. so my x-boyfrind believed him. now i always catch him staring at me. and never wantin 2 b by me. Also wenever he see's me he try's to get all over gurls. I dont like him anymore. but i kinda do. why does he do that? (link)
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he wants u 2 get mad and jealous
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I am very enamored with a guy. I am not sure what he thinks of me. He is going to prom with my best friend. He likes her very much but it is unclear whether she likes him or not. At one point, she was physically attracted.
I want to approach him but am not sure that is the best idea. What should I do? If I should, how do I do it? (link)
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no u should not because u don't even know if your best friend likes him plus she's going to prom with him what r u thinking do u want to waste a good friendship over a guy who probably isn't right for u. boys come and go but friends last a lifetime
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Thank you for your advice, we are now a happy couple, (again) with an understanding (link)
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that's good to hear i am very happy for ya'll
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how do i find the words to say to get back in his heart to make him love me again from the deep down fall we had? (link)
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ask him about his day ask things to let him know u still care be a friend
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I like this guy.I mean I really,really,like him. He stares at me all the tame and teases me playfully. And when this kid tried 2 kiss me he had his head down.He has his head down a lot around me.Does he like me or is he just friendly to all girls? (link)
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he likes you
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I like this boy but i am in 8th grade and he is in 6th grade is he to young to go out with? he is real nice and cute and he is soupose to be in 7th. i really want to go out w/ him but is he to young?
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age 14 going on 15 (link)
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if u like him alot then listen to your heart
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THERE'S THIS BOY THAT I LIKE BUT HE HAS A G-FRIEND WE FLIRT BUT I DON'T KNOW IF HE LIKES ME. SHOULD I TRY TO BREAK HIM AND HIS G-FRIEND UP OR JUST LET IT BE. (link)
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hell no stay out of there relationship just let it be that's how drama get justed flirting wit her boyfriend u should be ashamed of yo self
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O.K i think i might still love my x boyfriend but one of my best friends is his girlfriend! whenever i get bak together with him she always ends up taking him away from me! they have been going on and off for like 7 months and i cant take it anymore. i mean i flirt with him sometimes but i dont think he notices. i feel that his girlfriend is like just completly better than me and i hate it!!!!! sometimes i just really hate her but then at other times she is just the sweetest thing. i wanna get bak together with my x, but that would mean breaking my best friend and the boy of her dreams up! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!! WRITE BAK ASAP!!!!!!!
*lauve645* (link)
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leave there relationship alone it might be getting serious u never know you wait until they break up and then see whats up
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Hey I am a 14 year old in middle school, and i need to know when to ask a girl out. She is very uptight about school and does not seem that out going. I really like her and i am tring to observe some signs that she like me. any ideas?
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ask her can you get her number so ya'll can talk sometime. Let her get to know you better if she likes you you will know
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How do you know if you are gay? and just so ya know I'm a girl please tell me i need to know! (link)
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you may like the girl looks personality. i will say it like this you like a girl like you like a boy it no different the only thing about it that is different is the gender that's it
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i have a boyfriend well two actually the first one i live with the second one is just a guy im trying to see if him and i can work or not there are things lacking with the one i live with so im not sure about the second one but he is pushing me and he promised he would not what should i do (link)
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you should leave him be with the one you live with before he find out you got a man on the side and kick you to the curb. the guy that's pushing you around ain't no good
also try to work things out with yo man at home
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Well..there were 4 guys that liked me but i turned down one..now i am stuck with 3 other guys that i like so much.... only one of them goes to my school and wen i talk to him online i like him alot but wen i see him im not really attracted to him and there is this other guy that i have known since 4th grade and i went out with him now and i liked him b 4 wen he was going out with this one girl at his school but now i think we would b better off as friends and this other guy is in high school and i like him alot and dont care bout his looks.. but is my sister's boyfriends best friend and doesnt want me to do anything with him...wut should i do?? (link)
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if you get this feeling in your stomach and you feel shy around one of the guys then there's your answer but make sure you can talk to the guy like you can talk to any other guy
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There is this one kid i like and he is in high school...the problem is ..is that he is friends with my sister and my sister would not like me goin out with him if he is her friend..my sister told me that..should i just go out with him..or not go out with him like she said not to?
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desprate to know (link)
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i think you should talk to your sister about the guy. tell her that you like him. but if she still don't want you to then you shouldn't because thats you sister and she don't want to be in the middle of ya'll relationship if ya'll have problems.
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