O.K i think i might still love my x boyfriend but one of my best friends is his girlfriend! whenever i get bak together with him she always ends up taking him away from me! they have been going on and off for like 7 months and i cant take it anymore. i mean i flirt with him sometimes but i dont think he notices. i feel that his girlfriend is like just completly better than me and i hate it!!!!! sometimes i just really hate her but then at other times she is just the sweetest thing. i wanna get bak together with my x, but that would mean breaking my best friend and the boy of her dreams up! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!! WRITE BAK ASAP!!!!!!!
*lauve645*
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? adviceprincess answered Sunday April 4 2004, 3:42 am: i know that your friend always steals your guy away from you everytime you go out. but if she keeps taking him from you, maybe that means he truly has more feelings for her and not you. sorry to put it so blunt but that could be the truth. i don't think you should risk your friendship over a guy even though you like him alot. there are going to be other guys. most likely ones that end up being better than this one. just whatever you do, don't try and break up your friend and you x. just let them be, and if they end up breaking up for good, you may still have a chance with him. good luck with whatever you choose!
PepeLePew answered Sunday March 28 2004, 5:22 pm: But he doesn't have feelings for you. Why would you want to waste energy on that? It's hard to forget about your love, but it just doesn't worked out the way he wanted it to. Don't you want him to be happy?
She has the right to take him away...it is her boyfriend now. As much as it hurts, just let him go. With her. they are both happy, right? Did she like him when you two were together? If so...then that's how she probably felt. It's her turn with him. [ PepeLePew's advice column | Ask PepeLePew A Question ]
Gabi143 answered Friday March 26 2004, 8:39 pm: Ok, just do wat your heart tells you. Tell your boyfriend you like him. Well mayb these days that wont turn out so good but you could always try. [ Gabi143's advice column | Ask Gabi143 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday March 25 2004, 8:47 pm: Ah, I had one of my exes go for my friend WHILE he was dating me. As for "getting back together with him," once a relationship is dead, it's dead. A relationship is like a fire. Easy to kill, but slightly harder to rekindle. If I were you, I would try my hardest to get over the boy. Breaking people up is both hard to do and hard on your conscience. This person is your best friend. Think about how you would feel if SHE broke you two up. Put yourself in the other person's shoes first, and decide. If you and he are meant to get back together, they will break up and chances are he'll come running back to you. Their relationship seems shaky, so it might happen...don't get your hopes up, though. Good luck. =)
-Siren [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Thursday March 25 2004, 8:38 pm: What kind of best friend would you be if you stole her guy? Women don't do that to their friends. You should find a guy that is intrested in you. You even said you don't think he notices you. Don't ruin a good friendship for a guy that may not even want to be with you. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
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