okay well my name is Kimberly a future model therapist here!!! i love helping people with there problems or helping them solve there own problems. i am 14 an i live in california
shopping is my life, and when i dont have a alptop i just get on the internet through my sidekick 3 when i am in the car driving to somewhere fab lol.i have long wavy surfer kind of girl red sorta brownish hair. i a skateboard, surf, playsoccer, run track, and im on the swim team. i love abercrombie and fitch, hollister is okay along with american eagle. love old navy's pjs and aeropastles pj's!!! pac suns clothes are awesome(volcom baby)love oversized sunglasses an ripped jeans. i hang out with guys and girls and have a crush on one of my guy friend -winkwink- lol i am very outgoing an random
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AHHH!!
please helpp.
okayy this is going to be kinda longg but sum1 please please please help mee
i like this guy and ive liked him for a while
he told me when we 1st became friends he didnt go out with freshman
and i respected that
so i waited until the end of the year
and nothing happened
but he kept flirting with me constantly..i mean like unclip my bra in the middle of class, kick my chair, always whipser stuff to me ( we have close last names so we sat close to each other)
and we would hang out everyday and when we hung out he would lay on me ( ex. my boobs)
and we would watch scary movies and cuddle
and he would call me everynight (school nights) and we would talk for like 3 or 4 hours until like 2 in the morning
but anywayy..thats the info you sorta need to know
just recently i told him i liked him and i asked how he felt back..he totally changed the subject and i asked him again and he signed off (i did this online) but the 2nd time he calls me later and asks me to sneak out with him...i didnt go.
so finally i bugged him so much and i got an answer..
he told me he liked me but prolly nuthings gunna happen between us and i was crushed and im told him i was confused cuz he "likes me alot" but "probably nothings going to happen becuase he cant predict the future"
and i cried for about a week
i really think i love this guy
and you know i wasnt letting him hold me back i hooked up with this other guy and he found out
he was CRUSHED. he was so mad he brought a bat the next time he knew i was with him
and then he told me he didnt want to ask me out becuase he "didnt want to ruin our friendshp"
and my couin whos 30 ( i talked to her about this)
told me thats a bunch of sh*#%
and she said to see is he relle likes me..dont im him..call him ..hang out with him and if he realizes it then hell do something
so it was abotu 2 weeks and i get a random im "hi i miss you =["
so she told me that he just likes to be liked and now that im showing him i dont care hes realizing like oh sh*% maybe shes moving on
but grrr i like him soo much
and i dont know what to do
pleasee shud i im him?
does he like me?
im soo sorry this is so long by the way
but please,,, HELPP!!
thanksss in advance !! (link)
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IM HIM GIRRL!
BEFORE HE MOVES ON AND THINKS YERR OVER HIM.
yerr obviously not over him,
and yahh HE IS CRAZY FOR YOU.
please im him before he finds someone else.
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A friend recently told me that my crush admitted to her boyfriend that he likes me. He hasn't talked to me all day and I'm wondering if I should say something to him first. I'm not even sure he knows that she told me. Should I just ask him about it or wait for him to talk to me? (link)
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Ask him about if your not to shy.
Obviously,
he is shy. so you should make the move
but if your shy
i'd say ask one of your buds to talk to him or write him or note
waiting is the last option because sometimes
no one says anything they just stay shy.
hope that made sense haha
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okay so tonight i went out with a guy that i know pretty well. we both like each other and we have french kissed once as friends. so this was kind of our second date i guess. anyway we were at a friends house with a few people. they said if we wanted to chill alone there was a guest room in the house so we both knew why we were going in there. so we of course started to make out and then we got under the covers and he took his shirt off and then i took off my bra etc. so i took my jeans off so i was completely naked then. he was too and he was saying how far have you gone and i said i've given a guy a hand job sorta before. and he said hes kinda at the same experience level as me. and then he said i mean would you give head i mean you dont have to and i said i wasn't ready yet. and of course i try to give him a hand job and he says it would be easier if my hand was wet so i did. and he said you know it might be easier if you wet it with you mouth because my mouth was so dry for some reason. so i did and then it still didnt work so we both went into the bathroom butt naked and i gave him a hand job. and then he goes pee and he says so do you want to go back outside. and i said yeah. i just feel so violated but i feel like it is my fault. and i feel like such as ho/slut. (link)
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oh okay
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19/F
I had a (male) friend over today, and we were watching movies and drinking together. Just innocent fun.
I ended up getting more tipsy than I usually do, and we ended up starting to have sex. I sobered up pretty quickly and made him stop before we actually did, and sent him home.
Here's the thing: I have a boyfriend who I love dearly. We're talking about moving in together when our leases expire, and we've discussed marriage.
He's the one I really want, and I feel sick having cheated on him. I know I could never do it ever again. I hate what I did.
So my question is, what do I do? Do I tell him? Will that hurt him more than if he doesn't know? Should it be on a "don't ask, don't tell" basis?
Keep in mind that my boyfriend is the man I want to be with for the rest of my life, and that this friend was equally as intoxicated as myself.
Thank you! I'm tearing myself to pieces because of this. (link)
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i hate to say this sweetie... but you have to tell him no matter how much it hurts an tell him everything you just old everyone online about how you want ot spend the rest of ur life with him an stuff an even bring tears when your telling him becuz it will show that you are deeply sorry
i feel so sad for you
i hope you guys dont break up
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Okay, this is long so be prepared. Let's call this guy Fred. He's in 11th grade and I'm in 9th. Obviously, I really like him. Heh so we met like at the second month of this school year? I really don't know how because I didn't know him and vice versa...but like one day out of random he hugged me at lunch saying "She's a cutie." to a friend that we both know. And after that, I was walking to lunch with my bff and the friend that we both know and Fred were like "Come stand in line with us." and I was like why? And his friend and Fred were like "Because you're pretty/beautiful." And my bff was like "He likkeeess you." btw, my bff is a guy that's gay. Anywhos, then after that he puts his arms around me [not possessivly but rather like cute-ly?] haha. Twice he almost got in trouble for it. Also, during one of the [strings] concerts, he was backstage waving at me frantically =P He also calls me a nickname he made me, cute, pretty, and beautiful a lot. He also gives me bear hugs and always gets up to stand with me when I go over to his lunch table. Last time he was like "You're tall for a girl." and I was like "Hmmm, I'm still shorter than most people." and he goes "I'm still short" [yet, he's still taller than me XD] I go "You're not short. You're taller than me." and then he goes "Well, I like tall girls. Do you like tall guys?" and I was like "Why not?" Haha anyways, do you think he likes me, or what? Tell me the truth. I won't give you 1's because I didn't want to hear the answer. (link)
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omg yes he is practicallyCRAZY over you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Theres this guy we are kinda going out he tells me he loves me and i love him as well but he says I love you to other girls and flirts with them as well.
So I'm thinking that I'm being played here
whats going on? (link)
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well your getting played if he is telling you i love you in a romantic way an to be sure its romantic he stares at you in the eyes deeply an says it but if he likes says it in a jokingly way that means he migh tlove you a sister or family or is just doesnt know what he is talking about an is just saying i love you because he thinks that is what the girls want to hear
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ok so there is this girl im pretty good friends with and i like her alot but i dont know how to tell her. i dont talk to her too much in person, but i used to talk to her alot on the phone and i talk to her all the tiem on the computer. she leaves me little comments like "loser1 (link)
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well since your shy try telling her on the computer like
say "hey um(her name)i sorta.. no really like you an i wanted to know if you feel the same way to"
now as a girl her calling you loser means she is toally flirting so i think you have a chance an dont be shy
you being shy around her is a major turn off to some girls
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15/F
My dad is a coach for a basketball team. Well my dad and my ex's dad coach together. Well I think he likes me but I dont know. Today at lunch he came up to me and said something and i replied well you don't love me. He then said yes i do thats why i come to basketball practice and the games. Does that mean he likes me or is that just a response? Please help, anything and everything is appreciated!!! (link)
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it means he totally likes you!!!!!
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I like this kid.... lets call him *bob*...... bob had a gf but she broke up with him cuz he cheated on her...... lets call his ex gf marie.... and the girl he cheated with alex.....i don't know why but i still like him....all my friends say i shouldn't like him because what he did to marie but i still like him and he's really nice to me and alot of people say he likes me, and he's gunna ask me out..... should i go out with him? (link)
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i'd go out with him i mean
you know that song listen to your heart
well listen to yours
dont just do what people think you should justbecause of what he did once
its not like he is the biggest player
of the school
an if he then just be prepared to be cheated on
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Okay, so I like, well not like but LOVE this guy named Jake. He is sooooooooooooooooooo cute. Here is the problem, he is shorter then i am! Everyone is so short! I'm begging for help. mainly because he is comming to my house to finish a project and i don't know what to say! (link)
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first you should get him to notice you, like saying hi to him in the halls, but not show him like you like him and then just take it from there!!
~kim~
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okay lets call my crush/bestfriend/derek "A" and lets say me the crusher/badgirl/kimberly is "B"
okay well b really likes a along with everyone else in the school. well i am his only real female friend(i talk to him on the phone alot do projects with him he invites to pool party's etc.) ok but a has a girlfriend and he tends to lead alot of girls on ALOT escpecially me like he would say hey wanna go make out and im like ew gross but really i would love too!!! ya know so yeah. b likes a alot an wants to tell a but is afriad of teh outcome....
help is needed!!!! (link)
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Well, sorry Kimbergal, I didn't mean to be a badgirl, and i didn't call anybody dumbo!! I can't believe you!! OH yah and i am not a badgirl. You put my name on there!! I am really mad at you!! Although I didn't see when you wrote this, but i know it was soon because i just told you this, and check your spelling!!
~Badgirl~(or Kimberly):(
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Hey guys I'm 15 and my name is Jackie. There is this guy that I simply can NOT get over. I've alould myself to get hurt. Everytime I begin to sorta get over him, he says something sweet or flirty that gets me to fall for him all over. My head knows he doesn't like me, but my heart keeps getting tricked into thinking that he likes me. so anyway. I need some tips for getting over him.
thanks
xoxo (link)
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okay,
just go straight out an tell him dude have a face to face conversation an say, "do you like me or not becausse im tired of you flirting eith me and stuff an i keep falling for you, i mean i dont know if you feel the same way or anything so please tell me if im not alone here dude like please"
i mean if ur to shy write a card or aim him or whatevere you hips teens do these days,
yeah hope my advice was better then anyone elses
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16, female :)
im sooo confused and sort of...hurt..
you see there is this very adorable, sweet, athletic, everything i look for in a guy BUT he has a girlfriend. ive had a thing for him for about 6,7 months now. we hangout occassionally..but never alone..only with my cousins because there good friends with him and thats their neighbor haha. anyways before him and his girlfriend were together we would flirt NONSTOP i mean i loved it haha who wouldnt? this was in the summer and i know that we're both attracted to each other. but he doesnt know i like him. anyways..now that he has a girlfriend of about 6 months soon it makes me so sad to know he loves her and not me.. i mean shes really pretty and i didnt even think they were going to last thing long but there going strong..the thing is everytime that we hangout we still kinda flirt. when im not with him, im thinking about him..like tonight we went to his hockey game..his school played my school and after me my cousins and my friends left and then he texted me a bit after and was like hey what are you guys doing ..wanna go out? and i started smiling. so we all hungout and we went out to eat and my cousin was driving and i was like i get FRONT and hes like ahh nahhh. so we were like at the car and he was like holding me and touching me saying that i couldnt get it and then hes like alright..i'll open the door for you so he opened it for me to get in :) and same on the way home! haha but in the back seat he kept touching my hair and then he was like soo you got any guys you goin for? no boys in your life? and im like nope :( i mean my cousins had to go give their friend something so it was me and him in the car but it was kinda weird..i didnt know what to say! usually i do its weird though. but i cant go through it anymore i hate feeling so sad about him having a girlfriend. i just keep waiting for them to break up or something but then NOPE..6 months later..i can definately see something of us if they were to break up but i just dont know. i try and tell myself to get over him but i love being by him, and then i gave him a hug because i accidently "hurt" him and it was the best feeling. but i cant just give him a hug goodbye because i feel weird. asking for one?! this quote defines me the BEST .. "and even though we'll probably never be together, i refuse to let myself fall for anyone else.." and its true. no guy compares to him. what should i do? even when i dont hangout with him for like 3,4 weeks i STILL think about him and wanting to see him. i dont even know if i'll see him again this break..what do you think i should do? and telling him i like him is something im not going to do because i think he might have the hint but if he doesnt i dont wanna make things awkward. anyways im just so lost its like i like the kid but then i hate him..i wanna get over him and see him as JUST A FRIEND..but then i dont. i think hes just one of those guys that you'll always have a thing for. and the thing is that he only flirts with him i notice..like when its me and other girls and him he wont flirt with them and stuff...i just DONT KNOW?! what should i do (link)
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You should just ask him to hang out with him, like friends then just take it from there...
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Everytime I go to Carson's house [My boyfriend] I'm really bored. His little brother always watches some G rated movie with us, and his parents always cook some nasty food. I hate eating at their house because all they eat is seafood, and thats the one thing I hate more then anything else. How can I get him to stop inviting me over? I'm all out of excuses, and his parent's won't let him at my house. (link)
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Maybe you could make dinner for him. That way you get what you would like and it sounds nice. If you don't know how to cook then I am really sorry, but I cannot help you. Sorry if I couldn't help you.Hope you like my advice if you can cook.
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Right now, I'm kinda sick of my boyfriend. When I think about kissing him, I get a little weirded out. This is unusual for me, we've been dating for four happy months. I haven't seen him in two weeks because he's been so busy, and I'm not exactly sure why I feel this way. I still like him, but why all the sudden to I feel sick of him? Will this go away? (link)
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well can you like add more information on why you are sick of him?
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okay so me and this girl are friends lets call her bryanna. i have a boyfriend 'jake'. and this boy came over bryannas house and we flirted-his name is 'ricky'. well ricky likes me and i like him a little to. bryanna is rickys exboyfriend. and she still likes him and its really obvious. ricky wants to be FWB with me but i dont know. should i ask jake if we should see other people? bryanna seemed really jealous of ricky.? ricky really wants to be with me but he respects the fact that i have a boyfriend and is willing to wait but i like ricky and jake. what should i do please help. (link)
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do what your heart says, it seems you are more friend with jake an he isnt whats its.... boyfriend material and ricky is. if i were you which i am not i would tell jake how it is and how we should really stick to being buddies. and if you do that dont just go straight to ricky, because if you do that it will make you seem like you dumped jake just for ricky which isnt true. like wait a week an get to know ricky before you go out with him
hope my advice worked!!!
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I had sex with this boy
and I like him still.
This was during the summer, when school started he was okay and nice.
Then I moved out of his area , but I still go to his school.
He started being a complete jerk to me , and calling me fat and ugly and stuff.
yet, he stares at me constantly.
What the heck is this all about?
I dont understand at all. (link)
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ok well if he is 13,14,15 he is probably going through puberty an some guys when going through puberty turn in to total purverted imatures(this happened to my ex)and just ignore him next year he will be back to normal an obviously he still likes you.
and one last question
how old are you???
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hi. i'm a guy and i'm eighteen. okay, let's being w/some background information...
there's this girl i met thru my friend. she found me on myspace and added me. then like as soon as i accepted she left me a comment. so we started talking thru there and i asked for her s/n. we chatted on there for a long time [two hours or so] and she asked me for my number. about two days later she calls me and we have a two hour phone conversation. nothing in particular, just talking. before i was about to hang up, she asked me to call her early in the morning to wake her up, so i did. [she's been asking me for these wake up calls since then, btw.]
the next day, my friend messages me saying 'are you trying to get w/_____ b/c you know that i like her, riiight?!' i don't really know my feelings toward her, she's cute and has a great personality, so i guess some feelings are there. i'm just not really sure what i should do about this, he's my friend but i have a strong feeling that this girl has feeling towards me. what should i do? i don't want to lose a friend, but i don't want to break a girl's heart. i need your advice! (link)
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give it some time an ask her if she has feeling for your bud. if she says she doesnt at all then try telling your friend in the nicest way there an make sure you dont sound like your lying just so you can have her all to yourself. and if you arent sure you like her try getting to know her more an meet her in person at a coffee shop or whatever.
an if your friend really likes her an she likes him then try not to lead her on to much or she will start to think you really like her(this happened to me before)
hope my advice helped
-kimberly
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I dont know why, but I'm attracted to my cousin, who's a guy. Ever since I was little I've always like been attracted to him, but didn't know how to handle it, since i can't really have a romantic relationship with him, cause of like.. incest. He's 6 months younger than me, and a Cancer, while I'm a Capricorn, so I guess opposites attract? Because it seems like he kinda has a crush on me too, but i guess its awkward at times, especially when we're alone. AHH! what do I do about this? or do i just ignore it? :/ its like a forbidden love or whatever you'd call it, lol.
13/f (link)
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try to ignore it i mean if you guys have a baby your baby will be demented since you guys share the same blood and you guys scientifically arent oppisties since you have the same blood.
in my family i have alot of good looking guys but i dont look at them that way. i just take it as wow i was born in a hot family lucky me instead of ohmigod my cousin is smokin look at him omigod-drools-
so become best buddies with him an probably if your on puberty the reason why you guys feel so akward with each other is because of the hormones in your body an his an the fact that he is an opposite-sex.
an when guys have puberty they are crazy for girls no matter if they are ugly fat skinny nicole richie or anyone
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Hohumm. The ever popular question:
What did he mean by when he said this?
We were talking about girls at my school[they are really skinny]
He lives in NC and I live in TX. 16/f 16/m.
He says:
But I hate "sticks"
I say:
Now I really wish the boys here were like you D:
He says:
me too [insertmyname] me too
I say:
You wish the boys here were like you? :3
He says:
I dont know, yes and no, on one hand you get to hang out with me all day on the other well you know.
I dont get it >_ (link)
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ok i get it when he said "on one hand you get to hang out with me all day" he means if alot of people were like him he would be hanging out with like a copy of himself. but it would get boring because he already knows alot about himself an he wants to hangout with different people to make it more interesting to get to know them an have fun with them
get it? lol
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