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a girl with a guilty concious needs advice!
okay so tonight i went out with a guy that i know pretty well. we both like each other and we have french kissed once as friends. so this was kind of our second date i guess. anyway we were at a friends house with a few people. they said if we wanted to chill alone there was a guest room in the house so we both knew why we were going in there. so we of course started to make out and then we got under the covers and he took his shirt off and then i took off my bra etc. so i took my jeans off so i was completely naked then. he was too and he was saying how far have you gone and i said i've given a guy a hand job sorta before. and he said hes kinda at the same experience level as me. and then he said i mean would you give head i mean you dont have to and i said i wasn't ready yet. and of course i try to give him a hand job and he says it would be easier if my hand was wet so i did. and he said you know it might be easier if you wet it with you mouth because my mouth was so dry for some reason. so i did and then it still didnt work so we both went into the bathroom butt naked and i gave him a hand job. and then he goes pee and he says so do you want to go back outside. and i said yeah. i just feel so violated but i feel like it is my fault. and i feel like such as ho/slut.
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I know how you feel but just know that it happens to the best of us and next time you'll know what to do. Don't feel like a slut... you're fine as long as you don't do it all the time. if you need any more reassurance, lemme know. <3
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You're not a slut. It's this guy's fault. He's like most high school guys, only out there to hook up. Don't worry.
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oh okay
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Well, I don't think it was your fault. It was him being a bastard, how were you supposed to know he would totally be in it for the physical stuff.
Don't worry, you should learn from this experience.
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