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okay, well there`s this boy and his name is kevin. to put it simple, he`s PERFECT in every way shape or form. he`s tall and muscular, and he has emo-style reddish-brown hair and bright blue eyes and a killer smile. and he`s smart and funny and easy to talk to, and he`s everything i could ever want in a guy. well lately it`s been quite the emotional roller coaster trying to see if we could ever be together. he`s in my gym class, and we`d flirt constantly. when we`d sit on the bleachers, he`d sit right next to me and we`d talk. sometimes he would be a total butt, but other days he would be really sweet and i would fall faster and faster. everyone kept saying that he liked me, too, but i never really believed them. but i don`t know ..
but everytime we`d sit next to eachother and talk, it`s like you could feel this tension between us. the kind of tension where it`s like we know we`re in love with eachother but we`re both too scared to admit it so we`ll keep it this way. well the other day i wanted to tell him how i felt, although i think he already knows. because i wanted to see if we could be together. but i was too late. before i could even tell him, he comes up to me with a huge smile on his face, saying that he has a girlfriend named jenna. boy, was i crushed. but i faked it every single day, telling him how happy i was for him even though his girlfriend should be ME. not HER. ME. so right now it`s basically killing me inside that he loves her, and basically he`s driving me crazy.
so tell me, what do i do about this whole situation ? do i still tell him that i love him ? i`ve tried to forget about him, but it`s too hard. i love him so much, and it`s really bugging me and making me mad. so please help me. any advice would be great. and i`m sorry for making this question so long.
truly,
BRIGHT-EYED SURPRISE. (link)
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You know what this reminds me of? Hannah Montana. You know where she has this major crush on Jake Ryan and he likes her too, but when she finally decides to tell him he has a girlfriend. If you think you should tell him tell him. I don't tell you what do. I just make suggestions.
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Hey guys I'm a 14/f,
So Im trying to decide whether I should date this guy. I have a crush on him and he likes me but he also dated my best friend. But the two major things that I'm having doubts about is that
1. my parents are really strict and its better just not to tell them that I'm dating someone. So I would have to sneak or lie.
2. lots of people dont like this guy and they say he is like an asshole. But the thing is that I think the only reason he does this is because he is insecure about himself and he is nice to me and my friends.
So should I date him? thnx so much! (link)
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Okay look, tell your parents that your ready to start dating, maybe they'll listen. I'm 12 and parents have no problem with it.(not they i've actually been on a date but...they said i can) If you like him date him, but don't lie and sneak to do it, prove to your parents that you can make the right descisions.
~kk
watch out for the kittens...
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iam 14 and in the 9th grade and I want to do more than just hug and kiss my boyfriend.Is there any other things that i can do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?I know that there is sex and iam going to do that if that's the only other thing i can do i just want to get closer and if i do have sex iam already on birth control becouse of my messed up period and iam going to use protection.what can i do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend? (link)
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Hey sex is something that you don't just do. It comes with responsibilties.(not that i'm experienced or anything but...)There are loads of things that can and often do happen. THe birth control and/or protection may not work, there are also all those STDs you can get. I really don't think you should be thinking about sex right now.
There is always the option of making out with your boyfriend but hun, you're only 14 your'e not ready to do more than kissing. Slow down that part comes later.
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I just got my heart broken.he didnt reject me but i realized, he has no interest, which was a huge,hard step. i am trying to get over it as best i can,but its hard because hes about to ask out one of my best friends out and we hang alot with him. He uses me all the time and still sends me mixed signals, which i now know ( as much as it hurts) they r not mixed he is just breaking my heart every time he does it. I need to get over him. Im becoming deppressed and i just cant live with it anymore. i need a way out. i cant keep this up and all i want to do anymore is live and be happy again. please help (link)
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Awww! that kinda stuff hits you hard. You just gotta realize that things will happen the way they are meant to happen. Don't be depressed over something that never even started. Stop thinking of what could have been and start thinking of what will be. :)
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have asked this question,but a bit differently.anyways,i've already decided to get a lip ring,so I wanna ask do girls perfer lip rings on
1)the middle
2)the side,if so,which side?
3)snakebites
4)spider
and is there like a meaning if you pierce on the right side?cause my friend said that it is for gays...
and besides that ,could you girls help with suggesting other places beside the lips that you find attractive,and how many a guy should have.
thanks a lot,really appreciate you guys. (link)
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i HATE lip rings. ALways love when they peirce one ear though and depending on guy an eyebrow ring can be pretty hot.
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So me and this guy are planning on going to a haunted house next weeked, the thing is I get scared really really easily and i don't want to look stupid. Me and him aren't going out but I kind of dout he likes me but I like him. Also It'll be kind of cold, what should I wear to still look cute? And how can I look mature and not freak out?
F/15 (link)
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Hey, its a haunted house you're supposed to get scared. Just tell him you're a little jumpy. It works for me. As for the clothes...wear some warm jeans and a cute hoodie. If you get scared remember it's not real, he's probably going to scream once or twice too. Besides your outfit should kill. Happy Hunting!(boy hunting that is :D)!!!
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well i have been dating this boy for i think about a month now probly a little longer and i like him..im the only thing holding him together though...he depressive he has only one or 2 friends left and i feel bad..he needs me..but im starting to like one of my guy friends.people say we would make a cute coupe and people say he should ask me out..i dont know if he likes me or anything.people say its obvous he does but i dont belive them..my friends say we flirt all the time..he always talks to me and because he dont have aim he uses myspace messages like aim..yeasterday i was number 23 on his top 24 and today when i looked i was number 8 out of 24 people...i dont know what to do anymore..i think i like him but my boyfriend needs me. help thank you (link)
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you can't go otu with him if you wanna be with someone else. just cause you're not his gf you can still be his friend. if he knew you were only with him cause of pity...it would hurt alot more.
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Okay me & my boydfriend have been going out since 9/22. The relationship is great, we both love each other and everything.
But, when we makeout .. He moves his tongue way y too fast. I just want to tell him to slow down! I don't actually want to tell him verbally, how do I give him a sign to slow down while we kiss? (link)
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Bite his tongue. He'll catch on.
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well there's this guy in my social group so we're always hanging out, ive liked him for about 3 months. and in the past month he's kissed me 3 times and recently i talked to him and asked him where we stand coz i dont wanna be friends with benefits. he said that he really likes me but the timing is wrong and that by winter he'll be ok and that if im still up for it he'll ask me out. im sick of waiting and im not sure if he's just using me. i want him to ask me out soon before he changes his mind or something. is he just using me? and how to get him to ask me out sooner? (link)
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Awww.that's sad and i hate to burst your bubble but i think he's using you because some guys think they need a girl to have a good rep. Tell him you don't wanna wait that's way too long. Besides you'll probably be long gone by then. Tell him it's now or never. If he likes you he'll ask you out.
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The guy I am talking to has been out of town for about 3 days. This is the longest time we haven't talked. He got on the internet one day while he was gone and left a very flirty comment on his ex-gf's myspace page. Do I have the right to be jealous?
p.s. I had left a few very sweet messages and didn't get a reply to one of them. :[ (link)
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yes you have the right to be jealous and angry but you don't have the right to be mean. I hate to say but maybe he likes his ex again. You can't force him to like you. Sooo...tell him your a little jealous and no matter what happens keep your hopes up...and stop with the sad faces. Be Happy! :)
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okay, so my best guy friend
im going to homecoming with, and he is so sweet atn he really likes me alot. and i like him alot
he wants to ask me out, but i dont know, im kinda nervous because i dont want things to get screwed up between him.
i like him alot, but the other thing, idk i just cant see making out with him, maybe im just nervous about it because he has been my friend for so long..idont know..and
all of my friends are like oh we can definatly see it!
but should i just wait and let things just takes its corse or what? i cant just say to him. i dont know if i can makeout with you. (link)
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Well ask him out but let him know no matter what happens you still wanna be his friend. If things get awkward let it go for a while then if doesn;'t go away you can break up with him and remain friends as long as you let him know that he will always no matter what be your friend.
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14/f (8th grade)
There is this guy at my school named A.J. We have grown really close since the beginning of the school year in early September and i think he "likes" me. Example: Guys keep grabbing my butt all of the time and he says he doesn't blame them because I have a "nice ass." Just there is other things he does that lets me know that he likes me. Just, I don't feel the same way about him, and I don't want to hurt him if he ever expresses his feelings to me. This always seems to keep happening to me, I start to get a really close guy friend and then they start to "like" me, and I think I hurt them by saying I don't feel the same way. I mean, I'm not extra flirty or anything, I only flirt with the guys I like. Help me!
Please & Thank you!
-Kandi (link)
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oh...that can be difficult because you don't wanna ruin your friendship. However if he really is your friend he'll understand. You just have let him know that you dont't like him "that way". If the subject never comes up leave it alone. If it does something like ask you to a dance don't lie and tell him your going with someone else if you aren't. Say something like sure I'd rather go with a friend anyway, don't put too much emphasis on the word friend though. Let him know your not interested in a subtle but firm way.
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What are some things guys do when they like a girl? Not like what they do to their girlfriend, but what they do to flirt with someone they like and want to notice them. Also, what do guys really like in girls. (Answer truthfully please)
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well it depends on the guy. wish i could say more but i cant
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Well I like a few guys. I`ll tell you about them.
Cameron - Hes sweet & cute but he likes alot of people. My best friend once dated him & still loves him. He will flirt with me & then flirt with somone else next period, its kinda painful.
Jesse - Hes a real sweet kid. & we dated once before. He was a amazing boyfriend but i broke up with him over somthing stupid. & now i like him again. He just got out of a realationship with one of my friends.
Kyle - Well he has never had a girlfriend before & i dont think he is boyfriend material but hes fun to be around.
* all the names were changed.
I dont know what to do. (link)
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jesse. but talk to his ex before you do anything dont be blunt though. and tell her youre sorry.
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What are some good excuses to get a guy's number or screen name that you like? (link)
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just ask him. simple as that you dont need an "excuse" if he doesnt like oh well theres other fish in the sea.
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i am in desperate need of advice. i'm absolutely miserable. ok i really like this guy. i know he liked me last year & i was 99% sure he still did until my friend told me he was dating this girl.
here's the part i don't understand. when they walk together in the hall, she's talking and he looks so clueless and bored like it's taking all of his brainpower to not start drooling from boredum. when he sees me he stares at me. if he hears my voice when hes at his locker he stops what hes doing & looks at me. we flirt all the time, whenever i see him in the hall we say 'i love youu' to each other ... i dont know we are so cute i really thought he still liked me. sooo why is he going out with this girl? when my friend saw them at the mosvies together she said he didnt even pay attention to this girl, he was into the movie the whole time. he totally acts likes hes into me. wshat should i dooo ? should i give him the silent treatment or should i continue being normal like i dont care ?
also, i invited him to a party thing im having this month, should i remind him about it or pretend i never invited him ? (link)
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i think hes trying too make you jealous. dont do the same it could make things worse. tell him you like that youre sorry and you dont wanna ruin his relationship. then walk away. if trying to make you jealous he will break up with her and chase after you. dont be mean about though ok?
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ok well theres this guy at skool that i kinda been havin my eye on for bout the last month or so but im not sure if he likes me or not bc i only get to see him at lunch and somewhat in gym...like i sit with him and a couple other friends at lunch and occasionly ill just be randomly lookin round bc im done eating and im bored and ill find him staring at me but idk if hes staring or just zoning out and happens to be in my general direction...and he basicly picks on me somewhat alot...and at the last dance i wanted to ask him to dance but i didnt want to like freak him out or anything but i found out after the dance that he was looking for someone to dance with so next dance im planning on askin him to dance if hes single and all that...but like i mainly catch him staring at me somewhat alot and he kinda picks on me...so u think he likes me? (link)
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Im in that situation too. hes probably trying to hide his feelings. im not promising anything. ask him to a dance the worst that can happen is he will turn you down. if he does dont let him bring you down. wow i should follow my own advice.
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My boyfriend and me don't talk on the phone I don't know why either. We've been dating since last Saturday. He talk to other girls on the phone plenty of times, but not me. I want to start talking on the phone with him I don't what I should say to him on msn messenger should I just come out and say can I call you or what? Thanks in advance (link)
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the answer is pretty simple call him. if you dont have his # ask him for it. dont be shy.
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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now. We are both in the 9th grade and he is best friends with my brother. Well he gave me my first kiss and we always kiss but its only pop kissing. I want to make out with him but im too shy. i have never done it in my life and im very nervous. I dont know how to do it or if im bad. I know he wants to do it because he even said it but he knows im shy so hes not going to force me. But i dont want to make him wait and we know we both want it. So what should i do?
Your help is very apreciated..thanks! (link)
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ignore princesses lamo advice. dont worry things will fall into place eventually. if he said he wants to what makes you so nervous? if you love him tell him. just hang out with him and it will just happen when its ready to.
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im a lesbian, i know it. i always fantasize abou girls and i hate it because the country i live in is really strict and girls dont do this kinda thing, but i wanna be with a girl so badi dont know wat 2 do (link)
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oh im sorry! im not lez but im not prejudiced either. do what you thinks is righ and it will turn out fine.
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