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what is going on with him?
i am in desperate need of advice. i'm absolutely miserable. ok i really like this guy. i know he liked me last year & i was 99% sure he still did until my friend told me he was dating this girl.
here's the part i don't understand. when they walk together in the hall, she's talking and he looks so clueless and bored like it's taking all of his brainpower to not start drooling from boredum. when he sees me he stares at me. if he hears my voice when hes at his locker he stops what hes doing & looks at me. we flirt all the time, whenever i see him in the hall we say 'i love youu' to each other ... i dont know we are so cute i really thought he still liked me. sooo why is he going out with this girl? when my friend saw them at the mosvies together she said he didnt even pay attention to this girl, he was into the movie the whole time. he totally acts likes hes into me. wshat should i dooo ? should i give him the silent treatment or should i continue being normal like i dont care ?
also, i invited him to a party thing im having this month, should i remind him about it or pretend i never invited him ?
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i think hes trying too make you jealous. dont do the same it could make things worse. tell him you like that youre sorry and you dont wanna ruin his relationship. then walk away. if trying to make you jealous he will break up with her and chase after you. dont be mean about though ok?
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it's exactly what you think, yet you're asking this question still like i did a long time ago.
he's using her to make you jealous and to see how you react.
now hell no don't you give him the silent treatment. you wanna screw things up further? then you just do that.
remind him about the party. why on earth wouldn't you?
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Ok ,well i think he wanted to be with someone beacuse mayby he didnt know that you were interested in him.Mayby he wasnt confident,yahll should talk about going out.And the party,dont be pushy mayby a week or so beafore just be like "o dont forget my party next week,ill see yah there ^_^"
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For one, this is something people do to eachother. They try and get eachother jealous, and what's the best way to do it other than dating another person? He's probably just trying to get your attention and make you want him and like him ( haha too bad he doesn't already know you do! )
I wouldn't give him the silent treatment. That's only going to make him feel confused and like he did something wrong, and it'll probably hurt him. I would just continue talking to him and flirting with him and then just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime soon, and just have a really fun day together, and during the end, let him know. Just be like,"_____, I know you have a girlfriend and everything, but I just wanted to let you know that I like you alot. I just had to tell you cause if I didn't know, I probably never will." And if he does feel the same, great! If he doesn't, then I don't know what his problem is with his girlfriend but ne needs to figure THAT out, and as for you, just ask him if you two can still remain friends, because it'd be best to be that then nothing, right? And who knows? Couples break up ; old feelings arise.
And of course invite him to the party! Only more of an opportunity to have a great time with him and show him exactly what he's missing and try and get those old feelings back ( unless they've never left ) so just take a chance and give it a shot and see what happens!
I hope I helped!
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