i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
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Location: UK
Occupation: at home mom kind of
Age: 22
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Should I let my boyfriend finger in me public? He has fingered me lots of times before but it's always been in my bedroom or his when we sleepover. He says it would make him really happy to finger me in public but I'm not sure if that's OK even. He promised he'd wash his hands before to make sure they were clean. Should I let him? (link)
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It depends on where public is. Maybe a public bathroom but i would say in the middle of that mall or anything. I would never be that risky, but some people love that stuff. Just if you go public still have alittle privacy, and if you are still in school no where there.
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Okay, so I know that I am bisexual. Well, kinda. I am sexually attracted to girls, but I would never date or marry one. I guess you could say I favor guy, but I get really aroused when thinking about girls, or having sex with a girl. My question is, do most girls think like this but are afraid to show it ? Nobody really knows this about me, and I feel like.. how could a girl NOT feel this way ? I know that there are some girls who are completely straight and would think that is disgusting.. but I go to a large school and out of all my friends, all of them claim to be "stright". Is this true ? (link)
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i see your point but mostley its with me girls i dont know. if i know a girl i am less likely to think that with them. I am 22 and from a small town, so i would say some girls have these thoughts at one point or time. I have only kissed a girl thats the most i have done but sometimes i think thoughts or more arrousing then really acting on it. but its normal i would say.
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how to talk dirty to a guy
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maybe look up sex storys online and read one of those to him if its like phone sex. if its in person just say things you want to do or how you feel. goodluck talking dirty isnt for everyone so dont feel wierd if you dont like it or its hard i cant do it
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I've been with my boyfriend for three years. We are absolutely in love with each other, but of course I've got a couple of complaints. He's not romantic, at all. I've asked him to take me on dates, or go do something romantic for a day, and eventually he may take me on a date (after me repeatedly asking and basically planning it). But he has never done anything like that without me asking. I can live with him not being romantic, but I think every girl dreams of a little romance in their relationship. How should I handle this? (link)
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wow i almost thought i wrote this quesetion lol its so me. Well my bf takes me on a date and we end up at lowes or some manily store lol. Just be happy he loves you i know thats not that answer you want but its true. Or text him sweet things and you be romantic he will catch on. My boyfriend is really bad about not being romantic but he is very playful if i push him into being it, so just keep trying. good luck ( be happy you have some one that loves you and your life will be wonderful :) )
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I am a 15 year old guy who's just finishing grade 10. I spend all my time making short and feature length movies mainly by myself and some of the time with my friends. Also I listen to alot of metal and instrumental techno music. I read books about the occult and death, along with really funny comic collections. I have never had a serious relationship, and I would really love to have one. I find it easy to become close to girls in a friendship way, so they trust me with anything but if I tell them I like them (which I have!) they get kinda awkward and won't want to go out with me. I know I'm not the best looking guy around, I'm very skinny, tall, glasses, and I have long hair because I love metal music, but I still think that if someone gave me a chance they might actually be pretty happy. Any advice for me to get a girlfriend? (link)
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find a girl that likes the same things you do. i know when i was in hs long hair freaked me out idk why but it did. maybe cut it but if you dont want to i dont blame you try to find a girl who loves the same things you do. go watch local bands or enter your movies into contest maybe itll well help you meet a girl with the same interest
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DETAILS****i told her i liked her about a week ago,and things arent really awkward wich is awesome.But i dont know where to take it from here,i need someone that has experience to help me.thank you
,Declan (link)
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depends on what she said. if she said she liked you to maybe ask her on a date. if she didnt say anything maybe back off alittle and let her make the next move.
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I have an ex that im still crazy in love with.He obviously broke up with me..because he said he stopped liking me as much as he did in the beggining. We still talk and hangout ALL the time.Once in a while alone,but most of the time we are in a group. We get along so well still and always have fun times together.He even told me he hangs out with me more than some of his best friends and the same goes for me too. When we first broke up,he made a few attempts to hookup with me and made a small attempt a couple weeks ago.We sometimes fight though and then he gets mad at me and it usually results in him saying "im not your boyfriend anymore so stop acting like it!" so i feel as though he gets the vibe i still like him..yet whenever we go to parties,im usually flirting with lots of other guys,in front of his face. We never ever talk about eachothers hookups,or if we are talking to any other people,or anything about love interests etc. so thats good but I cant continue hanging out with him if we aren't dating.He's become routine in my group of friends and it's almost hard to avoid him all together.When we dated,we mixed our groups of friends into one big group and now we are all close so i dont know what to do! I was going to write him a letter about how i feel and tell him i can't talk to him anymore and maybe then he'll either realize what he had when im gone,or we will just separate and hopefully ill get over him.help! (link)
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thats a hard one maybe you should try to find another guy to get your mind off him.
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iv been with my boyfriend for almost two months and im starting to question if we should stay together. we are perfect other than at times he is veryyyy immature and he is younger than me and a mamas boy. he asks his mom everything even advice about us, laughs at words 3yo's do and carrys a big red bookbag n puts it between us in the car saying its a barrior for a flood, wouldnt even let me buy a new lighter bc his mom wouldnt approve. he goes out of his way to talk to my mom ALOT and i hate my mom... but hes so sweet and im starting to love him, but i did just get out of a few year long serious relationship, should i ride it out or try and move on? and whats some advice as to how i can fix how he does all that? (link)
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he sounds like he bugs you alot maybe tell him the things he does that annoy you and if he changes them keep trying. if not move on before you fall in love and get hurt
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i LOVE my best friend. and he knows i like him and i know he likes me. we aren't together....yet....but i wont to be. i just have 1 question. my mom says that dating your neighbor is bad and that i cant date him. so IF we ever get together......how do i hide it from her???? i hope you can help. thank you in advance. (link)
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just tell her you are friends still. and if you want to kiss and all the dont do it out side. tell him that your mom feels like you should take it slow, and after a few months maybe tell her that you and him are together
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How do I get a popular girl to like me, she flirts with me all the time, but claims she doesnt like me, what should I do? (link)
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if she cant amit she likes you then she is immature make her come to you, move on and try to have fun dont worry about it. girls are complicated, if she really lifes you she will show you and ammit it soon
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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move on, he sounds very confused you need a real man that knows that he wants a treats you right good luck : )
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I am an 18 year old female, very mature for my age, and I know what I want out of life. I went on exchange to Brasil last year for 11 months and basically was on my own, I have seen a whole other side of life that most people never get to see. I always used to think, "I am young, I have time to mess up, to be with the wrong people." Until I met this guy. He is an exchange student currently here in the US on exchange. We texted for awhile before we finally met, and the moment I saw him I knew he was the one. (And I was always the time to not believe in love at first sight and I never thought I had met the one) We instantly hit it off and ever since then we are very happy together. He lives an hour away from me, But we see each other every weekend. It has only been 20 days since we officially met, but we both feel like we are perfect for each other. The plan is for me to go to Brasil for 6 months until he is finished with school and then he will come here and we will be together. What is your advice? Should I take the risk? (link)
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if you think it is love go for it. but you must think if you two break up can you get back on your own and take care of yourselve. make sure you have a plan if it happens. but it sounds like a great idea your long you live once go for it.
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
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i love when a guy is nice to me but some times i like to be treated like a equal, so nice to a point but dont act to much more of a dominante.
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Where are good places to meet nice wholesome friendly guys besides school..cuz all the guys at my school like the sluts (link)
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church so go see a local band you like then you will meet a guy who likes the music you do.
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i like this boy..alot...buttttt i dunno if he likes me..and i DONT WANT TO ASK HIM but back in middle schooll he alwayz flirted wit mme an all but now i dont know noo mo..r u gonna help or what? (link)
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if you dont want to ask him have a friend ask for you :) if not maybe flirt and see if he flirts back.
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k this mite come off as a lil weird, but i was just thinking about you know, how everyone says having sex on your period is disgusting and all .. well what if your saving yourself till marriage but your on your period your wedding night!! how AWFUL that would be =( like do you plan your wedding around your period?? wat if your early or smthn .. planning that far ahead being early or late a few times could mess it all up .. that would just be awful!! how are you supposed to make sure that doesnt happen?? (link)
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most brides go on the pill a few months before there wedding and then they can skip that period by takin there pills. thats all i can think of or the groom will just have to suck it up lol jk
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year and a half but lately ive been liking this guy friend and i think im slowly liking him more and i really dont know what i should do and feel about this, im happy with my boyfriend but we just argue a lot and there is a lot of problems i have to deal with but with the new guy i feel happy when im with him and he makes me smile.The other guy told me he likes me and he'll wait for me and now its really complicated. I dont wanna leave my boyfriend beause he has been putting up with me and taking care of me, so it would be really messed up. Maybe i just want to be close friends with the guy friend, and i just wanna cuddle with him as a friend. What should i do? (link)
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well cuddling leads to more so dont try to go with that cause you may end up cheating. if you think you like the othere guy maybe go for him, but do you like him becasue you think life will be better with him. every realtionship has its up and downs so if you only like him becuase the grass looks greener on the othere side maybe you should stick with you current boyfriend and soon you will see things are better. but if you really think you like the othere guy go for him but dont just end the othere realtionship becuase things are rough becasue if you stick it out it could be the best thing you have ever done and make your life wonderful good luck :)
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what do girls do when they start to get sick of a guy? (link)
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stay away from them. dont lead them on any more let them know you are growing apart
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I think I'm in love. what should I do? He has a girlfriend! Maybe even 2! Whenever I see him my heart starts to race. I just want to run up to him and kiss his gorgeus face. How does he feel about me? I will never know. I am a shy girl, all the way from head to toe. When I'm with him I feel as if I could fly. Fly Fly high up into the sky!!!!
What should I do? (link)
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if you think he has two girl friends he is a player i would move on. and even if he only has one i would move on too cause its not fair to break two people up. if he ever is single maybe tell him how you feel see what he says
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I met this guy during summer and used to text him 24/7..and then my friends stole his # off my phone and started texting him..and ever since then hes been texting me less and less..and now when i text him he wont reply...i see him a few times a month and he stares at me and i stare at him..but i dont say hi to him because he doesnt say hi to me..im a little confused on whats happening....any ideas?? (link)
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either he is annoyed that your friends are bugging him or he likes one of them more
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