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A girl at school just found out who i liked. She went( right in front of me) and told the schools Big Mouth who and he shouted it! I'm afraid that she went up and told him. I really want to ask him out but i'm afraid that he'll laugh at me. What should I do? Please Help!!!! I am 13.

How can i get him to notice me??? (link)
this type of situation you really just have to be a man about, not in the sence that you are a man and aren't acting like one, or a girl but anyways... it's natural to like people and if anyone is going to try and make fun of you or embarrass you because of it then they are just immature ass'. it's tough to go up to the person you like and tell them so i say you march up to the person who spread the rumor and tell them to stop saying things about you that they may not know the whole truth about.


for how to get him to notice you..... just talk, find a common intrest, ect. you are 13 so guys will give extra points for compliments.


I think that I might be bi.. But I dont want to be! what do I do?

I am female by the way

thanks.. (link)
Answer these questions:

do you fantisize about girls?
do you like looking at girls in locker rooms, schoo, pictures, ect?
when and if you masterbate do you think of girls?

i got those off a site. if you dont want to be bi, bi means bisexual meaning you also like guys and girls so you can always be with a guy. you may like thinking of girls but not like being with a girl and doing things with girls, there is a difference.


umm i like this kid Gibson sooo much and he asked me to semi formal dance but he couldnt go (ironic) but he asked me to the next dance also. is this a sign he likes me? or how do i get him to like me?? thanx a bunch (link)
It depends. He can like you or he can like being with you. Personally i would never try to get a guy to like me because it never works out in the long run, because their feeling change easily. It sounds like he likes you. Does he flirt with you and compliment you? then he does. If he likes hanging with you and chilling and making jokes then maybe he might like being with you. If he asks you out like this again then ask him if he likes you and if thats why he is.

xO. jessica


What are some ways to get this guy to realize I like him. We flirt alot but I dont think he's getting the hint?

And what are some more ways I could flirt better? Thanks 5`s for all! =) (link)
Hey hun;; i understand that just coming out and telling a guy you like him is hard and can be extremly mortifing. Before you even tell him you should make sure hes single just so there wouldn't be an awkwardness once you do. I think you should maybe bring it up in a convo like-- "if you would marry, date ect. someone in our class ect. who would it be" things like that. If he asks you back tell him how you feel. Or you can just like ask him to a dance or to chill.

xO. jessica


okay, well the thing is.

i have a really great boyfriend. we've been dating for aout 3 or 4 months now && i really like him. he told me a few nights ago that his dad has really bad, uncureable, stomach cancer. i dont know what to do. i've never dealt with dealth at all before, i've just never had too. so i dont know what to say to him. he never really brings it up because he doesnt want me to know hes upset. im also the only person who knows. i know it upsets him because him && his dad have always been close.

what are some things i could say or do that would console him??


please (link)
Hey hun, well i wouldn't bring it up unless he already did or he is okay with it. You have to be really sensitive with these things. You have to consider like how they might respond to what you say. I'm not sure there really is anything you can say to make him feel beeter but you can comfort him. You can be there for him when he needs you and give him space when he needs it.

xO. jessica


okay well im 13, and the guy i'm going to be talking about is 15..and I really like him..okay well I was textmessaging him and i jokingly said "hey sexy beast" and he answered.."sexy woman" ..then i was like mmhmmm SEX (I WAS JOKING! haha he knew that to)then he goes "oral" and i was like hahaha..then he put a =0 face, and now like everytime he talks to me online its about us doing stuff like blowjobs and crap, and i mean i liked it at frist and stuff, but now its getting weird..like hes saying "Im masturbating..and looking at your myspace picture..TALK DIRTY TO ME"..it sorta turned me on at frist, but im really freaking out now cause i haven't even kissed a guy yet..like he's really trying for us to get together and he wants to kiss me and stuff, but then i know hes gonna want to go further, and i dont want to be really a slut at my age and stuff.. i mean i havent kisssed but someones been in my shirt before like they felt me up..i guess im just afraid of whats going to happen with me and the guy..hes like so serious and im like nervous..(lol) (link)
hey hun, like when your talking on aim you can be like, okay lets change the subject, or go into something else. if he does wana go out with you and posibly hook up tell him that your not really experianced and dont wanna go to far cus you dont want to seem like a school slut.

xO. jessica


what are some songs that have to do with being broken hearted and missing someone? please help me! i rate high!! (link)
how to deal- frankie j
the lonliness- baby face*
until i get over you- christina millian*
how could you- mario
goodbye to you- michelle branch*
everywhere- michelle branch
going crazy- natalie
one wish- ray j
when i go down- relient k *
getting into you- relient k *
sorry 2004- ruben studdard
untilted- simple plan
perfect - simple plan
counting stars- sugarcult
one year six months- yellowcard

yeah my favorites for the ones i gave you have the * by them

xO. jessica


so yeah when ..i make out with my boyfriend...i'm not realy experienced .. i just want to have some ideas given to me..on -where my hands should go?- like..around his neck? or touching his hair?

i don't know..

i feel kinda weird just having my hands to myself. (link)
hey hun, there are many places you can put your hands- waist, sholders, neck, head-hair, you can like huge him while you kiss him but when you rap your arms around him do it so your hands curl over his back so the settle on his sholders.

xO. jessica


so yeah when ..i make out with my boyfriend...i'm not realy experienced .. i just want to have some ideas given to me..on -where my hands should go?- like..around his neck? or touching his hair?

i don't know..

i feel kinda weird just having my hands to myself. (link)
hey hun, there are many places you can put your hands- waist, sholders, neck, head-hair, you can like huge him while you kiss him but when you rap your arms around him do it so your hands curl over his back so the settle on his sholders.

xO. jessica


so yeah when ..i make out with my boyfriend...i'm not realy experienced .. i just want to have some ideas given to me..on -where my hands should go?- like..around his neck? or touching his hair?

i don't know..

i feel kinda weird just having my hands to myself. (link)
hey hun, there are many places you can put your hands- waist, sholders, neck, head-hair, you can like huge him while you kiss him but when you rap your arms around him do it so your hands curl over his back so the settle on his sholders.

xO. jessica


My ex boyfriend was cheating on me, so I kind of exposed the truth about him cheating on me to all my friends and now hes really mad at me. I feel bad that I dumped him and exposed his "secret" because the truth is, i still like him. But don't you think i have the right to be mad at him? Because he cheated on me, lied to me, called other girls behind my back, and blew me off in the hall last friday....

I'm so confused. Should I call him? (link)
hey hun, well your ex boyfriend cheated on you, lied to you, called other girls behind you back you have a right to be pissed or mad i would be. and about exposing the secret about him doing all the stuff to you, may have not been the nicest thing to you even tho he treated you like crap. but then again he did diserve it so its a toss. i would call or talk to him saying; im sorry that i exposed that you done all that stuff to me, and i should have not said anything but i was so angry and upset. but that still doesnt mean im okay with what you did to me, i guess the truth is i still have feeling for you." something like that.

xO. jessica


ok what would happen if i like a 19year old and i am 13 years old and my mom and dad know abut him and i known him all my life and hes like my brother and both of our parnets kno we are going out would he still get charged for sagitory rape? (link)
hey hun, well first of all because your 13 and hes 19 if you have sex he can be arrested for rape because you are underage, but not for dating. also if he is like your brother wouldnt it seem like your dating your brother but if its like you used to act like he was your brother and not ever since you started dating then i guess not. but if you think about it you 13 hes 19 thats quite a diffrense but then like wen hes 69 and your like 85 it doesnt seem as such a huge diffrence but it really is.

xO. jessica


ive been with this girl for 2 weeks and i like her and everything but the first date we went on, she pretty much ripped off her shirt and was offering herself to do anything to me, ya it was ok at first but i like girls that dont want to give something at first to me.. i like a challenge, everytime were together she wants to do sexually stuff , i mean im a guy, and im all for that trust me but its every single time i see her.. i like taking a girl out, going to chill at home watch a movie or go out to one, go out to an amusement park.. not always doing that kind of stuff to eachother now that i realise how she just seems to want to give everything up to me i dont like that and i want to break things off with her, but im not sure on what to say to her when i break it off with her.. my chick friend advised me to do this, so all your help would be appreciated! (link)
hey well there isnt really easy ways to break up but explain to her what you just wrote and she should understand how you feel. you dont need to beat around the bush, just tell her how you dont like what shes doing and how you dont want to be in a relationship with her when she is like this.

xO. jessica


This kid just "broke up" with me. There's like a 3 yr age difference, and I just talked to him on the phone, and I asked him out. Well, he's like, I have football everyday. Which, I know is probably true. But, now I know I won't get over it. What can I do? I'm ready to cry. : / I thought it could work. =( (link)
hey hun, what i do is.. if a guy turns me down im like. "whatever your not worth it." or like "im to good for you" lol.. it works for me.

xO. jessica


I really like this guy named Zach. Zach is my best friends older brother. I am in 9th grade and he is in 12th grade. I really like him. He always gives me hugs becuase like he thinks of me as his little freshman friend. I want to go out with Zach, but I don't know how to ask. I know people are reading this saying "Ask him out..." It is not that easy, if he says know I will be imbaressed and I doubt he will want to go out with a freshman. What are some ways I can let him know I like him, not just telling him tho, LOL!!

Thank youuu!

Kayla ♥ ♥ ♥ (link)
well if hes your best friends older brother ask your best friend to in a way tell him. tell her to tell him that someone likes him, he would probobly ask who and ask you best friend to say a freshman my friend. than it goes from there. i know it seem imature but thats the only way i know. hope ive helped,

xO. jessica


well my exboyfriend keeps prank calling me and i know its him ...and i keep telling him to stop but he wont ...what should i do???? (link)
hey hun, well tell him to stop being so imature. and that if he really wants to talk to you be a man and do it face to face.

xO. jessica


ok this is for guys mainly, unless girls have any idea

what would you want as an anniversary present?i have no clue what to get my b/f. any opinions? (link)
hey hun, im really cheap alot of the time. i usually buy a cd or a game. once i gave my bf a picture of us in a frame that said i love you. or something like that. it doesnt have to be anything expensive as long as he knows you love him.

xO. jessica


ok well me and my girlfriend have been going out for like 8 months and we have kissed but we talked bout it we want to makeout but i was wondering making out is just kiss a lot at ounce isnt it?
and if its not then please help me cause she really want to and i want her to like me doing not be like ok no more kissing go awayi want her 2 want more so please help =)....she doesnt want to french....just so you know...lol....ok thanks....ummm sry if i didnt make a lot of since or sounded wierd im knew with this advice thing (link)
hey, making out usually has frenching but yeah its basicly a lot of kissing. just be yourself around her. and its okay to sound weird, because everyone goes threw it lol.

xO. jessica


Ok im 15 and ive been going out with my BF for about 7 months now... HE's great and everything, we hung out yesterday, went to the movies, and yeah it was great!!! ;)... Well this morning when i called him he never answered which was weird because he always does it for me but i was like "ok maybe hes sleeping or something"... So then later on i called him and still nothing but a lil while ago i IMED him when i came online and i was like "Oh hey whats up,blah,blah why didnt you pick up your celly when i called you" and he was like "Because i didnt feel like it".. SO im thinking ok maybe hes having a bad day or something, so i asked him if he was and he was like no im fine... So it made me upset because he didnt feel like talking to me, so i told him he was making me mad and he was like "So" and i just got mad hes never treated me like this before... I love him so much and i dont know why hes being so rude too me today :(... So i signed offline and when i did i told him that i hope hes in a better mood later and too call me and that i loved him' and he never answered me :(... Not even too say bye or i love you too.... ::GRR:: This is really making me upset, I dont know what too DO!!! He always tells me he loves me and today he blows me off like im a piece of shit, IM really pissed and ready too break up with him even though i really dont want too!! ugh PLEASE HELP... GIVE ME ADVICE

xConfusedx (link)
hey babe, well nothing much you can do but wait for the next day and maybe he would realize how he treated you. if hes in the same mood and doesnt feel like talking to you, you can ask him why. but i recomend not acting too clingy, if you know what i mean.

xO. jessica


ok well im 17 and me and my boyfriend met like a month ago at my friends grad party and we just hit it off and now we are an "item". THe bad thing is that he lives in detroit which is like an hour and a half from where i live so we never get to see each other but we talk almost everyday on the phone.we love each other but im just scared to lose him cause i finally found someone worth loving but long distance relationships never work out from what my friends say but i want to know how you guys would handle being in a relationship like mine. thanks (link)
well your 17 so your going to collage soon. ask him wich ones he plans on going to maybe you guys could go to the same schools. also maybe meeting up every weekend or everyother would be what i would do. but telling him how you feel definetly so he know your not just a girl who likes him. but you want to be with him.

xO. jessica




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