This kid just "broke up" with me. There's like a 3 yr age difference, and I just talked to him on the phone, and I asked him out. Well, he's like, I have football everyday. Which, I know is probably true. But, now I know I won't get over it. What can I do? I'm ready to cry. : / I thought it could work. =(
jj_u_i_c_y answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:13 am: hey hun, what i do is.. if a guy turns me down im like. "whatever your not worth it." or like "im to good for you" lol.. it works for me.
elementblader10 answered Sunday September 4 2005, 10:22 pm: o im sorry. i know how rejection feels. if it makes you feel any better, you'll get over it sooner or later. to some people 3 years is nothing, but to others its a lifetime. if you really think its that big of a difference, then you have to move on. [ elementblader10's advice column | Ask elementblader10 A Question ]
GDROB answered Sunday September 4 2005, 10:20 pm: You did not tell us your age. That tidbit matters with the kind of advice people can give you. You see a lot of younger teenage guys 13-15 have not figured out the transition from young kid to teenager to maturity at all. It's simple fact girls are three years ahead of boys intellectually anyway.
While you understand what romance is it may scare the hell out of him as he is not ready to have a girl interested in him. His priority and it is isn't because you are not beautiful is football because he knows and loves that. If you are to have any kind of relationship.
I would settle for friendship here get researching on the game of football so you know it better than him. After all, a girl must use her intellect to the advantage in figuring someone out for a good person, potential mate or phony.
Next guys change their emotions as do girls faster than changing a shirt. If you called him and asked him out and he gave no answer (YOU ARE NOT DATING). If you called again and he said no--again no connection so drop it. Find someone worthy of your time, in synch with you, either leave him alone or go for a friendship. The common question why does he not want to go out with me? is never your fault. For whatever reason he is not into you--and that is life. [ GDROB's advice column | Ask GDROB A Question ]
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