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mixed messages
i've known a guy for exactly 2 months now.
he's this gorgeous sex-god type guy, and he's the type that's just so cool. it's evident to me that he's never really had to work for a girl's affection before. anyway, i hear he has had a lot of girlfriends, but he's not a slut or player. whenever i see him i am intimidated, and our conversations seem a little bit strained because i never really say what's on my mind. although he does that raised eyebrow thing that guys do when they're attracted to you, and he treats me differently than i have seen him treating my friends or other girls. he always approaches me first, or only gives me a hug and not my friends, etc.. recently, i saw him again, and he gave me this hug where he wrapped his hands and arms so tightly on my waist. and he pressed me against him really tightly. the hug was pretty much a 5 second hug, which isn't a normal friendly greeting type hug. at one point i even tried to break away because i realized it surpassed the usual hug, but he didn't budge, so we held on a bit longer. that kind of hug is not a hug you give someone you're not attracted to. then after the hug he didn't really look at me, and said that he was feeling weird and that he would be right back, but then said something else i don't remember. i think the gist of it was that he had to go talk to other people and that he probably wouldn't come back or that i shouldn't wait for him, but i'd see him around. he didn't even stick around for a conversation or anything, and he never came back.
WHAT THE HELL. WAS HE JUST DRUNK AND MAYBE FORGOT OR WHAT??!? WHAT'S YOUR TAKE ON THIS? WHY ARE GUYS SO COMPLICATED
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i call that hug a "dry sex hug".LOL.im thinking maybe he got horny after that hug.thats why he said i feel "weird" and walked away.i think he likes you though. but after him feeling like that and all you have to give him some time cause right now he will be feeling weird around you.just wait.he'll be back
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if you like him then you need to make your move so he knows that youl like him. dont wait around for him to aprouach you because chances are he is real nervous after that freaky hug yall had.lol
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he probably got turned on by the hug and needed to get away
or he's justa complete idiot
but im sure that wasnt a good bye hug
stick around for him and see what happens..this time you go up to him and start a conversation
why dont you confront him and be like hey (he'll say hey back )
then you can be like why have you been pushing me aside since you gave me that hug??
and see what he says
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If the hug was all you said it was, then he was likely thinking...
"I gotta get out of her sights before this erection gets noticeable."
Or
"I gotta go run away before she asks me questions."
Just wait, he'll be back eventually.
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