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Hey there. My name is Jessica Danielle. Im an outgoing person. I love having funn and being loud. I make alot of mistakes. Usually because I dont think before i do or say stuff. I lose the best of friends often, but for very stupid reasons. Im such an emotional person. && I always let my anger get the best of me. There are alot of things I regret doing and some of those things have happened recently. Being noticed and being hard is overrated. Being yourself is true. Ive learned in the past few days that sometimes its best just to let people talk. Nothing matters if you dont let it get to you. Well, I let the talking get to me and I lost alot of friends. Im not saying not to stick up for yourself. Im just saying that one argument can ruin everything. Now, Ill be fighting with one of my bestfriends instead of laughing with her. Life throws unexpected turns @ you. Sometimes you can fix what happened, but there are those times that nothing can be done. My life isnt the easiest, but it sure isnt the hardest. I take my mistakes && learn from them. Ive been beig someone that isnt me @ all. Acting like your someone your not is the worst thing ever. I didnt act like that on purpose, I just lost myself somewhere along the line. && I lost all sight of whats really important. Fight ing doesnt make people respect you, it makes them fearyou. Why would someone want people to fear them is what i dont get. Its not who you hang out with, how you dress, or whos ass you beat that makes people like you. Its how you make other poeple feel when they are around you. It took me a long time to notice that, but I finally got it. Bragging about fights youve been in is stupid. Being hard is stupid. Not being true to yourself is stupid. Holding gruges is stupid. Being who you are && who you want to be is smart. Dont let people push you around, but dont push other people around. I love my mom no matter how much of a screw up she is. She made me who I am today. Shes amazing. Please, dont make the same mistakes over && over again like i have. Live. Laugh. Learn. Grow. Be you. && Forgive people. ;}remember to please google your question first to save less time :) thankss.
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last night i gave my bf a bj and he said he liked it, but then he said he wanted to go farther and i said you will find out tomorrow....should i do it??? im 14 btw
i wouldnt do it.
your only young once and once you lost your V you cant get it back. save it for someone that actually means something. if you love them and they have respect for you, go for it. otherwise i'd keep it for as long as YOU can wait.
btw guys like it sometimes when you make them wait!
im a teenage male.
i want sex, how do i get it.
dude whatever, sex is very enjoyable no matter feelings or not. just most people think that it is better when you have personal feelings for someone. And alot of people think that sex before marrage is wrong also. but hey thats old school. if you think that you are ready then go out there and have a good time.
you just need to get out of the house, meet new friends, depending on how old you are and how you look, you can usually just get it by running game. sweet talk, touchable kinda guy. that question is really hard to answer over the computer, but if it helps, ask an older brother, friend, etc. it isnt that hard. you just cant be shy.
is it okay for a 19 year old to date a 24 year old? just curious to everyone's opinions :) thanks!
yeah dude.
more power to ya. me and my boyfriend are almost five years apart.
its up to you if you feel comfortable with the age difference. just a number
my boyfriend of almost two years cheated on me. he madeout with a girl when he was drunk and i forgave him.
a few monthes later he didnt call me one night and then he called the next night saying his phone charger was messed up and he was sick and fell asleep at six. that weekend i figured out he lied to me and was really drinking with 2 gay guys and two girls. i dont have a problem with gay people but this guy always flirts with my boyfriend.
should i give him another chance.?
yeah i agree.
the only way you would have to worry about the other guy is if your boyfriend is gay also. and making-out is just as bad as havin sex with someone else. i would not give them another chance. because once you forgive them the first time they will think "oh, well i got away with it the first time"
okay when we had got together around the first days of school he was cool with his friends and didnt care if they knew..but then he got in a big fight with them and no longer talks to them and now hangs out with different people..he had a new girlfriend at another school but didnt want ne one to know...well he doesnt like my friends cause he thinks they are stuck up which they are they think they are the popular girls but...yeah neways...and he never really told me he didnt want people to know ...just not his ex friends and my friends I guess so he doesnt have ne thing to do with them...he always keeps to him self dosent let people use his phone and doesnt give out his phone number always calls private...IDk but what do you think about it if he doesnt want ne one to know we are together except his friends....
well this is getting a little confusing here. but lets see. so he wants his friends to know but not your friends?
if you messenge me or email me we can work this out step by step.
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me and this guy were together for like a day and a half I broke up with him cause we didnt talk much at school...well i continued to like him and now we might get back together 5 months later now that he has ended his 3 month relationship with his girlfriend and well he dosent want ne one to know we are together cause he is always to him self and dosent like my friends and well how do i keep him interested in me...I heard to play hard to get but IDK
hold up wait a minute......
ohkay if he dont like your friends and he wants to keep it a secret than i think that there could be something fishy around those edges.
dont play hard to get if you really like him, because than you might just give him the wrong idea and scare him off or something. JUST BE YOURSELF. its the best way to make a guy like YOU. just chillax and be friends for awhile. Most of the time thats what starts a good relationship. me and my boyfriend were friends for 2-3 months and we are still together going on a year.
Hey! I really need good help this time!
Lately i've been second guessing myself and im not too sure what to do. See, the guy i've been crushing on for about a year doesn't hang out with me much anymore...and i found out that a few months ago he liked me but only told his bestfriend and no-one is sure if he still likes me or not....but sometimes i feel like he's too good for me and stuff and i dont know what to do! i really wanna know if he likes me before summer and he leaves for highschool. but i truly dont want everyone knowing and making it really obvious or anything....help! help! help!
-celllyyyy
no one is too good for anyone.
you shouldnt determine if he likes you because you heard it through the "grapevine". The best way to make-sure that he has feelings for you is to ask HIM, YOURSELF.
so long story , i broke up with my boyfriend in april of last year. it was one of those addicting relationships wher we talked non-stop and planned our wedding and what we were going to name our kids. needless to say it was kinda unhealthy so i broke it off.
and then summer was good and he got a gf and i flirted with people and so maybe we cought ourselves staring at eachother every once and a while but it wasnt so bad.
and then all this year i dont know why, but i always knew where he was. its not like i sat and memorized his schedule but i knew where he was all the time. and so i wasnt always looking for him but i guess i always found him.
and now, hes calling me again and being all flirty and i dont know what to do.
im pretty sure hes not playing games because my friend is his best friend and she says hes pretty serous about this. which makes it even more complicated!
well last night he was all "remember how we were going to fly to the moon for our wedding, well do you think we could still do that?" and i was just like "uhhh..." and i guess he took that as a bad sign.but i really didnt see that coming.
and now he wants to talk about it, and i dont know what to say. i just want us both to move on. with our self esteems still intact.
i cant tell him i dont like him at all and that i never thought about him because its a lie.
and i cant get back together with him because its so suffocating.
what to do?
Let him know that you cant stop thinking about him. Let him know how you feel about just being friends and moving on.
i personally think that if it was meant to be you would later on find each other with love still in mind.
Just because you can't stop thinking about where he is and what he is doing does not make it love (affection is more like it, and of course you'll feel that way. He's your ex).
and if you was to want to get back him than maybe you should talk to him about being to clingy with stuff. i mean, (are you in high school, or school) maybe you arent ready for marriage and kids. I never plan for the future. i live for today. who knows you guys could come up with wedding plans today and later find those plans with someone totally different.
i seriously hope i helped you out :)
okay, well. i met this guy. well, i knew him. well like.. i don't know i guess you could say i always knew of him but really knew him. but i just started getting to know him at like the VERY end of february if not beginning of march. but, hes a really really really nice guy, and he makes me soo happy when i talk to him and he like. i don't know hes just an all around great guy, and i kind of have a feeling that he likes me too. but the thing is, im 5"4 and hes like... up to my boobs. :p i know, i know. :p but anyways, he gets like really excited when he sees me, not like... in the pants.. like just a big smile and all jumpy and entergentic and i guess you could say i get like that too when i see him, but hes always like hugging me and like.. i don't know he just makes me really happy and i dont know what to do. i don't want to make the first move, so im not going to do that. so dont tell me to do that. but, like... i don't know hes really short and i think people would like... make fun of us and i know i shouldnt care about that but i do.. and, also. my BEST, BEST, BEST guy friend is jealous weve started talking and were becoming good friends and lately ive had to like remind him that hes my bestfriend and everything all the time, at least tiwce a night and im being totally patient with him, i havet gotten mad but its starting to aggrivate me.
HELP?!
i dont think you should make the first movee (to be honest im the same way). i think most girls are like that. so no shame there. but there has to be someway that you could let him no that you like him without giving it away to quick because you guys are friends and if you rush into things im afraid that would blow the relationship and your friendship.
start by calling him (not to much) and asking to hangout (just you too);movies, mall, lunch, etc.
if this guy makes you happy and you can tell that you make him happy then i would say... this could be the guy for you. even though he is short. screw people who look at you guys (not literally). my boyfriend is in a wheelchair and im sure people look at us in a mean/strange way. there are some sick people out there.
and the whole other guy friend thing, there is not much you could do to stop him from being jealous. He will always have those feelings for you.
theres this kid from my camp that I want to go out with over the summer. He likes me and vice versa. He might not come back and that would ruin my summer. Hes the one guy i want to be with from camp and it would work out if he could only come. I was really looking forawrd to a fun drama filled summer (and maybe some making out) but now im disappoined that theres a great chance he wont be there.I dont really know how to handle this. Any words at all would help. Support. Advice ( even though this is not exactly a question ) thank you.
well,
even if he does not come back to camp this summer, you should still have fun, you might even meet someone else that can bring you that summer feeling. but dont think that you wont ever see him again because if you were meant to be together than fate will bring him to you (and i believe that). Summer is the time of freedom and i always hate having a boyfriend because then you dont have time for those memories with your friends. and those are the ones that mean the most. im not saying dont think about guys, its hard to not when your a girl, and i understand that because im the same way, but try to make more out of your summer then just boys and making out, have fun, thats what summer is all about.