okay, well. i met this guy. well, i knew him. well like.. i don't know i guess you could say i always knew of him but really knew him. but i just started getting to know him at like the VERY end of february if not beginning of march. but, hes a really really really nice guy, and he makes me soo happy when i talk to him and he like. i don't know hes just an all around great guy, and i kind of have a feeling that he likes me too. but the thing is, im 5"4 and hes like... up to my boobs. :p i know, i know. :p but anyways, he gets like really excited when he sees me, not like... in the pants.. like just a big smile and all jumpy and entergentic and i guess you could say i get like that too when i see him, but hes always like hugging me and like.. i don't know he just makes me really happy and i dont know what to do. i don't want to make the first move, so im not going to do that. so dont tell me to do that. but, like... i don't know hes really short and i think people would like... make fun of us and i know i shouldnt care about that but i do.. and, also. my BEST, BEST, BEST guy friend is jealous weve started talking and were becoming good friends and lately ive had to like remind him that hes my bestfriend and everything all the time, at least tiwce a night and im being totally patient with him, i havet gotten mad but its starting to aggrivate me.
HELP?!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sassynena answered Wednesday March 12 2008, 9:42 pm: omg, well you and me(cumaholic: im using my friends thing)have the same problem. like i've know this guy for a while but i never really tlaked to him that much and like during the begining of march we started talking and like we bboth really really like each other but im scared cause i know for a fact that hes shorter than me and i dont like to date short guys. and when i see him i know that my feelings for him change just because hes short. but my advice for both of us is just to forget about it and just go for it. give it a chance i mean he could get taller as the months go by. and like you said you guys like each other so just forget what people think and follow your heart. do whats best for you and not what best for others!(:
jessayy answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 6:42 pm: i dont think you should make the first movee (to be honest im the same way). i think most girls are like that. so no shame there. but there has to be someway that you could let him no that you like him without giving it away to quick because you guys are friends and if you rush into things im afraid that would blow the relationship and your friendship.
start by calling him (not to much) and asking to hangout (just you too);movies, mall, lunch, etc.
if this guy makes you happy and you can tell that you make him happy then i would say... this could be the guy for you. even though he is short. screw people who look at you guys (not literally). my boyfriend is in a wheelchair and im sure people look at us in a mean/strange way. there are some sick people out there.
and the whole other guy friend thing, there is not much you could do to stop him from being jealous. He will always have those feelings for you. [ jessayy's advice column | Ask jessayy A Question ]
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