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Okay usually i don't mind when my boyfriend does stuff with me but not in class! i already am failing that class and i have to get my work done..plus i don't want people talking about me in a bad way like i think they were today. Today i was sitting by my boyfriend in class and he kept going down my pants and rubbin my back and ass and shit and trying to make out with me but i kept telling him no not now! But he wouldnt listen and it was really buggin me i couldnt get him to stop even when i moved my chair away he'd pull it right back by him it was annoying. So my question is: What do i tell him when i don't want him to do that kinda stuff to me? Because obviously telling him to stop doesn't work. He's usually really respectful but i don't know what to do. Thanks so much!. (link)
well i would talk to him outside of class wen nobody is around, i think that he is just tryin to show off to other people that he has a G/F. just tell him that you dont want him doing that kind of stuff in class. let him no that you are serious about this.. i hoped i helped ~*L*~


I told a guy I would go to the fall homecomming with him but a week before I got caught sneeking out and got grounded. I told him I couldn't go with him anymore, then a couple days later my parents said I could go with him still. So I call him and and I asked him if he still wanted to go I could go with him, if not it was cool. But by that time he had another date. I really feel bad b/c I couldn't go with him and yes, I know it was really immature of my to sneak out. One of my friends said he thought it was rude of me to tell him I could still go with him...I don't get it, but should I appologize to him about not bieng able to go with him? I havn't talked to him in 2 months...thanks

-Zero (link)
yeah thats a good idea.... ~*L*~


k, so my ex and i broke up about two weeks ago from a two-week relationship, but the thing is, he thinks were on a "break" which isnt the case at all, because i really need to get over him. He was a really bad boyfriend and used me for sex pretty much, it's not as bad as it sounds, but yeah, so he wants to be friends still talk n stuff, but i really cant stop thinking about how bad he was to me n stuff, but should i call him and talk to him about this since were still "friends" or should i completely blow him off? please help, i`ll rate (link)
wat i would do is call him on the phone and talk to him about this. after you call him and he still wants to be your friend and you dont want to be then just blow him off like he wasnt even there. i wouldnt talk to him until he really truelly appologized to you. ~*L*~


Ive been dating my girlfriend for 10 months now. The last few months have been a bit rocky, but things were really starting to get alot better, atleast on my end. Not on hers though. She wants to take a break, because shes starting to fall out of love with me. I don't think there is really anything that I can do to change her mind...its all up to her..She says there is a possibility that things will get better, and that she may fall back in love with me, but I dont really know....Is it possible to fall out of love with someone, then fall back in love with them? (link)
yes of course it is. i love this guy then we took a break, dated other people, and them i fell back in love with him the only problem he didnt fall bad in love with me. ~*L*~

PS if you both love eachother then you will end up together in the end.


My cousin, lets call her B, is the same age as me. Over the summer, I had a party and I invited her, friends of mine and even my ex, we'll call him D. They hit it off right away. About a week later, we all went bowling and my other cousin came up to me and asked if there was anything going on between B and D. I said no. So over the course of the night I saw them flirting, got upset and did not have a good night that night. That night D called me and asked me if anything was wrong and I told him everything about that night. Then the next day B called me and asked me if I would get upset if the two of them would hang out. I said yes at first, and then B said that D said "he would never date her cuz she wasnt his type" After that I said I dont mind at all- my mind was at ease. A couple days went by and B had a party at her house with only close friends of ours. I didn't spend the night cuz I had to work the next day. I found out D was spending the night at her house along with one other guy. I was upset about that.

My friends are upset at me for thinking anything was happening between B and D, but I think something was going on between them. They are both the very flirtatious type and she puts out more than me.

Was it wrong of me to get upset about my cousin hanging out with my ex? I mean, over the summer we were going to get back together but never did. I know how D acts when he likes a girl and he acted that way with B. So I asked my friend and he got upset at me.

Now I don't talk to any of them, my ex, cousin or the friend.

But anyways, should I have been upset about them hanging out?


im really sorry this is long... (link)
u should have been upset about them hanging out. it was your ex and "B" was flirting with "D" and since you and D were goin to get back together then i have the right to be mad at them but you really shouldnt stop talking to them because she is your cousin and he is your ex and if you still like him them you should really talk to him. ~*L*~


ok so there is this one guy who i went out with last year but only for like 3 days cus what happened is he only asked me out cus he thought i was pretty and we had just met so we decided to jsut be friends, so this year we just seemed like friends, then suddenly he started like getting all over me and everything for like 2 weeks, now he is like ignoring me, what is he doing? (link)
you no wat guys are really stupid some times, oh wait most of the time, but anyways they go through some mood swings and there is not reason for them it just happens, you could ask him wat is going on and why he is ignoring you but that is all i can think of ~*L*~


hi
i went out with guy like 2 months ago who i really really liked but then he dumped me and i found out that he had been 2 timing me but he just said he didnt and even if he did it wasnt like we were married or anything but iw as really hurt. then we became rfiends and he said he wanted to be really good friends but whenever i see him he just ignores me but i still really like him and i think he sought of still likes me but is trying not to show it. I would love it someone gave me some advice as this is really very important to me!
love stef
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this is the same thing that happened to me, if he doesnt have a girlfriend then tell him how you feel, but if he does then you will hav to wait like me ~*L*~


I know most answers are going to be to talk to the person.. but how am I supposed to know whether or not the guy I want to confront is gay or not? If you are gay.. please IM me lol Striker6909 I'll rate you a 3-5 if you answer this question well thanks! (link)
well if i was gay then i would go out with my gay friends to a gay bar, to meet gay people... im sorry i cant really answer this quetion because i am not gay ~*L*~


Hey.. ok I got a lil problem! See.. there's this guy & I really like him but he's already told me that he dont want a g/f right now. Ok.. I was cool with that.. then 1 day he asks me if i would fuck him. I'm like huh? (I'm 14 btw.. he's 16) He's like let's fuck.. ok well I was like umm.. I dont really wanna do that right now but I was really flirty with it like I was playing hard 2 get.. which I kinda was but see.. now EVERYBODY knows that we might do something & he keeps bugging me about it but I still kinda like him.. what should I do? (link)
you really shouldnt fuck him because ur only 14 but i really dont no wat to say because i havent fucked anyone yet.... it is your life ~*L*~



okay.. i went out with this guy.. and he is really hot.. but.. okay.. we broke up because it was like nobuddy wanted us together.. but we are still friends.. but anyways.. the other day.. i was in the hall.. and i kissed him.. and then the next day my friend said she was going out with him.. and i was like.. "omg.. since when?" and she was like.. since two days ago.. so.. he cheated on her with me.. and i dont know if i should tell her or not.. should i? (link)
then u shouldnt tell her. i no that it is not right to lie to a friend but nobody noes and i think that is better that she doesnt no. ~*L*~


What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life? (link)
well there must be some meanin to ur dream u just have to really look at them.. all dreams mean somethin some r just to entain ur brain and other tell u something about life, it is ur joob to figure them out *~L~*




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