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k, so my ex and i broke up about two weeks ago from a two-week relationship, but the thing is, he thinks were on a "break" which isnt the case at all, because i really need to get over him. He was a really bad boyfriend and used me for sex pretty much, it's not as bad as it sounds, but yeah, so he wants to be friends still talk n stuff, but i really cant stop thinking about how bad he was to me n stuff, but should i call him and talk to him about this since were still "friends" or should i completely blow him off? please help, i`ll rate
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well you dont want to ignore him because he will think the two of you are still "on break" and i think you should call him( not talk to him in person so he wont hurt you or anything if that is the problem) and if he doesnt understand then you blow him off.... and mabye try and see if you can hook him up w/ a friend or something
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wat i would do is call him on the phone and talk to him about this. after you call him and he still wants to be your friend and you dont want to be then just blow him off like he wasnt even there. i wouldnt talk to him until he really truelly appologized to you. ~*L*~
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maybe talk to him. don't be a wussy tho. i dont like wussys.
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Don't completely blow him off - use the jealousy card a little. OK - so he's treated you badly? Why not get even? He's obviously a bad guy, as anyone who uses a girl for sex is clearly evil - what if mention of his incredibly small penis and poor sexual showing got out? He certainly wouldnt use any girl who found out about that for sex! Although that may be a little vindictive to be honest. If you can get over the fact that he treated you wrongly, then by all means be civil towards him, just hint at how much better off you are without him (and I do mean hint, not state!) - hopefully then, you can get back to being friends and feel better about yourself for it.
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Blowing him off could come to haunt you. Try talking to him and making him understand how you felt about how he treated you. Friends is always a great way to go, but if that makes the situation worse then you just need to cut him out of your life. You also need to make sure he understands that you are not on a break. That kind of confusion could cause so many more problems. If talking to him doesn't help and he becomes bitter or angry, then stop talking to him. You can say you tried.
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you should definitly talk to him about it. my friends ex keeps talking to her and she just keeps blowing him off...he never gets the point and she refuses to tell him why she won't talk to him. i think you should talk to him and stuff so he knows exactly where you stand.
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