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ok, so i like this guy, and he likes me as far as i know, we hooked up one day [when he was going out with his g/f] and then he got sent to jail for a month, hes not bad tho :-/ well, now hes back and he likes me and i like him kinda, but i just got out of a relationship, a bad one, and i dont want a boyfriend right now, but at the same time, i really like this guy and want to hang out and stuff, but his now ex girlfriend has a problem with us hanging out. What should I do? *~confused~*
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lol.. FIRST. who care's what she thinks or cares?.. Especially if she's your friend. then she shouldn't care, but be happy for you! And about that whole "dunno if you want to go out with him or not" no one can make that desesion for you, it's completely up to you! I'd say why not give him a chance, but that's me.
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Hello, can you say drama??! No wonder you're confused. I'm confused after just reading your question. First of all, I'm confused by your use of "hooked up"-- "we hooked up one day (when he was going out with his girlfriend)". In my little world, hooked up could mean anything from getting together for a friendly game of Parcheesi to getting together and gettin busy. So, what did you do? Let's assume you did something between making out and having sex. Why did you do it while he had a girlfriend?
I'm also confused about why you want to date this guy. The only thing I know about him is he cheated on his girlfriend and recently spent time in jail. Not really a big commercial for a potential love match. I never understand why people want to couple up with someone who cheated on their girlfriend or boyfriend to be with them. This person is SO going to cheat on you, too.
You just got out of a bad relationship? You may want to hold off on jumping into another one, and figure out why you're picking these guys in the first place. I think you are smart for wanting to take a break from dating for now.
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you should just be friends for right now. tell him that you like him and that you aren't ready for a relationship yet, but just make sure he knows how you feel. if he really cares, he'll wait until you're ready and go from there. and about his ex, she doesn't need to be worrying about it if they're broken up. she probably still has feelings for him, but she'll get over it.
♥ hope that helps!
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