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k, so my ex and i broke up about two weeks ago from a two-week relationship, but the thing is, he thinks were on a "break" which isnt the case at all, because i really need to get over him. He was a really bad boyfriend and used me for sex pretty much, it's not as bad as it sounds, but yeah, so he wants to be friends still talk n stuff, but i really cant stop thinking about how bad he was to me n stuff, but should i call him and talk to him about this since were still "friends" or should i completely blow him off? please help, i`ll rate

maybe talk to him. don't be a wussy tho. i dont like wussys.
dalton

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People thses days are extremely stupid and don't do anything to change it. What can i do to change their ways.
FROM, Lost

PS I do own a few guns!

GET RID OF THE F***'n guns!

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I'm very overshadowed by my best friend. She's a very flirtatious, outgoing, redheaded vixen and everyone wants to be friends with her. Now, I don't mind it so much, I'm happy that she is well liked by people, but it's the fact that I seem to be getting less and less attention from her every time she meets somebody new. Especially guys. Every guy she meets has had a crush on her. (Except, thankfully, my CURRENT boyfriend...note that I said CURRENT..ex-boyfriends are another story) And often times she has crushes on them, but she still has to complain about them liking her. She seems to treat me like a child and she's the "All-knowing-one", especially when it comes to relationships, and it's really starting to piss me off! She steals my jokes and claims them as her own OFTEN and she says that I'm a bad friend because I once decided to stay with my boyfriend instead of going to hang out with her, while she has ditched me many a time to hang out with guys. (I can think of two instances from just last week.) I'm really bothered by her, yet I remain her friend and most of the time I really don't know why. And I want to talk to her about this, but I've tried before and she always apologizes and then forgets about it two days later.

And when it's just her and I things are fine! We have a great time and everyone's happy and once again I've become the comedian between the two of us, (material she later steals from me to use in front of her flirting victims), but when it comes to boys I'm completly ignored and she's off in the corner creating some sort of drama. It's weird for me, because before I befriended her I was always the center of attention among the group. I was the loud, funny, loving one who everyone wanted to give hugs because I would gladly dish them out. And now it seems like nobody has any time for me because they all want to be with her. Like she's taken all of my friends, but still claims that I'm her best one.

What should I do? I know the most logical thing would be to stop being friends with her, but we've been together for so long and we have most of our friends in common with each other, so there really would be no way to avoid hanging out with her.

You should be more like her, she sounds sexy

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I am a 14 year old boy who will get a caniche toy poodle in less than two months and I am very, very happy about it but there is a problem. Waiting is killing me. Those two months seem like eternity for me. What do I do to make me feel like the time is going faster. Hope you know what I mean.
Any advice will be appreciated.

suuure. just don't think about . . . find a new hobby

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ok these TWO guys like me..... well im not sure about one of them but im definite on the other .... the first guy's name is lets say mike well he likes me... but hes kinda a loser.... plus hes a big jerk.... ya this is the guy who likes me and i no that he does. the second kid lets call him tyler.... im not sure if he likes me but all of my friends say that he flirts with me... but i dont even try to flirt with him!!! so the real question is does he like me??

o ya by the way i sorta have a crush on him but i dont wanna tell my friends bc last yere he wassa humongous loser and now hes all hot and sexy lol!!

plz dont delete this i really need advice!!

~*l0sT aNd CoNfUsEd*~




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My guy friend and I just started liking eacother..( begining of thanksgiving break )..and we just told eachother * which is something I like NEVER do * but I am so afraid that he'll just change his mind..and I'm gonna feel SOO weired on monday at school. Ahhh what do I do..we're not like BEST friends but we're pretty close..and I've never felt this way about another guy before. Please Help!!

Well, if both of you like each other, then he most likely won't change his mind about it. You need to work on confidence in yourself. It is good that you told him your feelings because now he knows your not a little shy wussy. And if he even considers changing his mind, just act normal with him and he'll see that your not too worked up and nervice about.
Hope it works!
dalton

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