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HelloO every one

well im hilda =]=] im a just a teenager tryinig to live her life and i love helpiing poeple so if anyone need help ask il be glad to helo you =]=]
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recently i was chatting to my mate (crush) george, and he was trying to guess who i fancy and i sed what classes he was in of mine and he knew the guy i fancied his name was george (theres bout 4 georges in my year at school). anyway so that left him and the guy i liked before*. he said to me is it george davies* because it can't be me...thats the bit that got me confused.
so anyway im pissed off at my mate because she told george that i liked him but she said not to tell me he knows. so she told me that she told him. and now he dont know that i know he knows, confusing i know. but im just really confused of why he said "it can't be me". and also tomorrow i have four lessons with him and he's guna say something to me about tonight.

how should i act with him? is really my question.

thanks ALOT
xxxxxx (link)
Just act normalif you like some tell them i know it embbarsing but at least you did knowq he knows he might even like you so dont worry bout thing just smile and act calm=]


okay i have two guys who are in love with me which its my boyfriend Justin and my best friend Sean, well like I've been going out with Justin for almost 10 months and I've known Sean for about 4 or 5 years. Well i know that Sean and Justin doesn't like each other because Sean doesn't like the way that Justin treats me and like Justin treats me fine, he doesn't do anything bad, but people are scared that iam going to get hurt or anything and i talked to Justin about that he said that he ever would hurt me in any way and like i don't know like my mom think that Sean is the one for me , but Justin is really i don't want to go out with my but friend you know that would be awkward you know, i don't know iam just lost, i' have two guys who are in love with me and i don't want to make a bad chocie of picking who you know because my mom doesn't like the way Justin treats me either, and i don't understand why they don't. He told me he would do anything bad to harm me... i just don't know i need your help.




thanks lauren (link)
Well sionce your going out with justin you love him thats why you dont realize what he does
and sean you have known a couple of years so you should know what his capable of and you know he wouldnt hurt just ask you self who do you like being around with
who makes you laugh
who makes yopu go crazy and happy all the time
and dont just say the boyfriend think abotu sean to ask your mum for more advice =]

[xOo]


ok so i really like this guy but i dumped him cuz he was going to dump me but i still want him but hes going out with one of my good friends even though she said she wouldn't i think shes a backstabbing slut but shes my good friend and if she likes him i want them to be happy but i am still in love with him what should i do get him back and how or leave like it is him being happy and me being so lost and sad





luv ya like a sista (link)
I've Been through thwe same
dosnt sound like she thought about when said yes i mean if she was a true friend she wouldve told himlet me think about ti and think about the consequences talk to her tell her were ment to be friends did you think about me and if she knows you still like hiim tell her and if she dosnt care then liek you said Yup Shes a SLUT lol =]


[xOo]


what do guys fo when they flirt? like give me some lists and examples on how to tell if he's flirting. (link)
- Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
-He watches your lips
- He might act weird around you or seem very nervous
-looks at your lips.
-laughs at what ever you say.
-complemts you on your look and your hair even though it's the same everyday
-smiles alot
-touches your hair
-chooses you over his friends

loOl ii found half of them on a website Hope ii HeLped =] !!!

[xOo]


Okay so I like this guy, I've only hung out with him like once or twice. But wow.. he is like super cool. We used to talk everyday on aim. Now it's only once in a while... How can I make him notice me.. Cause we don't go to the same school. (link)
Hey
YoOh ShOuld Tlk about things that use bOth Like
you could ask for his number he might giveit to you just talk about things that makes use laugh im sure he will love you for your personality =]

[xOo]


i wanna get over a heartbreak ive been heartbroken for about half a year but i could never forget about what we had i thought was real and then we started school we were single but like the following month w=he went out with some other girl we stopped talkin but he came back to me and it was like that for half of school year till xmas vacation we stopped talkin it was good for me but now hes with a new girl that i thought it was my friend ive gone tru so much that i wanna get over him so badly ill do anythin im not sayin that im pretty but its kinda hard for me to meet new guys cuz im 15 lookin 12 thats bad help me please i dont wanna cry anymore!! (link)
Hey Hun !!!

ii Went Through he same Thing exactly i thought it was perfect everything I waNTED THEN HE DUMPED ME AND ILIKED HIM MORE THEN HALF A YEAR =[ but what i did was i hung around him like we talked alot and we became bestfriends and then you just dont see him as a boyfriend anymore
2)Do soem thing you love try to make your self busy
3)Talk to some-one that makes you laugh like crazy and smile at the same time
4)you dont need that loser trust me
im sure you got friends that love you adn adore u =]


15/f
My ex and I went out for 11 months. I really thought I loved him but then one morning I woke up and realized I didn't even like him anymore. So I dumped him. That was way back in June. I'm pretty that he still likes me. Now I like him again and he's all I think about. Right after I dumped him I realized how annoying and how mean he was so I don't want to get involved with him again. I really need a good way to get over him and get him outta my mind. (link)
Heyy !!!!

Well do fun things hang out with your friends go shopping or something your really into dont listien to any sad songs cause they make you think i liked a a guy for a whole year adn then we started hanging out alot and then suddenly i didnt like him anymore because we got to close adn i couldnt see him as a boyfriend i dont know if that would help but it helped me and if he still likes you and you like him to then tell hiim i guess

=] tC Smiles=]


Hi,

okay so my boyfriend is 3 years older than me and we've been going out for 4 months. He keeps pushing me into doing things. About 3 or 4 weeks ago he pushed me into having sex and i didnt want to because of pregency and stuff. He made me and all of a sudden i was having sex with him. i keep trying to talk to him telling him that im not ready to have sex and stuff but he wont listen. we used protection but im scared of becoming pregnant. I really need help to talk to him and having him listen to me. please. thanks. (link)
he sounds like a jerk no affence

he sounds like his only using you for sex because if a guy loves you then he would wait until your ready talk to him and if he still forces and pressures you if iwas you id dump him seriously


sorry if it wasnt much


I don't understand my bf. This is what happened. Well for the first two years of dating him I had been collecting a small disability pension for an old injury. My bf used to give me a hard time about me not working even though I was volunteering at two different places and wasnt just sitting around (and he never gave me credit for these either) I never asked him for any money and could afford to live on my own so I didnt know why if bothered him that I wasnt working. He was so mean about me not working that he made me cry in public once by cruelly saying I was just living off the system. Well about two months ago I got hired at a decent paying job. When I told him how happy I was and that I was meeting some nice people he sarcastically said "so it's working out for you". What in the world? First he's bullying me into finding work and then when I do he's even more unhappy. I know he makes tons of money at his job so I don't think it's jealousy (although he hates the long hours) Does anyone have any insight to this behavior? (link)
hey Hun


Fiirst Of all i dont know why you put up with him i wouldve just dumped hiim but thats me


maybe cause he thiinks he wont see you anymore or maybe it is jealousy that your gonna meet new people oir sumthiing im not sure sorry but if i was you i would ask ask him


im 14 hes 15 (im a girl) and he splashes me when im not swmiming, and when i called him to invite im to a flashlight tag party he kept trying to talk to me and stuff then he said happy birthday to me and my birthday was 2 months ago. He also asked me if i was going to a back to school thing and i guess he wanted to see me or something. he also is kina looking at me alot, i barley see him but when i do he looks at me alot and always talks to me but not out of his way i dont think. anyway does this mean he likes me i dont really like him like that but mabe i would if ya know... (link)
Hey Hun


Been There Sounds Like he does Why dont you admit to him that you like him then he might tell you that he likes you aswell because it sopunds like he does and im sure a guy wouldnt say happy birthday to a girl just like that because he should know whos borthday it is because of the peron that invited him so i think he does adn i guy dosnt alwayz loOk at you lolz


Much LoOVE =]


so i have this cool guy friend. he has a girlfriend, BUT he majorly flirts with me. when he does, his gf isn't around. he's not a cheater or anything bad like that. but it seems like its not a very good thing. does it seem bad to you? should i tell him something? i'm not sure. i feel like i'm in the way. what do you think i should do. (link)
Hey Hun

Well Its normal Thats what guys do you know and im sur you would do the same if you had a bf and he wasnt around adn you ahd all boiys around you im sur but then again if you really dont like it yeh talk to him but then again he might not be flirting so just watch th signs but if you feel werid tell him =]=]=]


♥♥ Much Love =]


does my boyfriend love me? (link)

does my boyfriend love me?


there's this guy i liked since the fourth semester and i decided to tell him how i feel. problem is, i dunno what to say to him exactly..any suggestions????? 13/f
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how cuteeeeeeeeeeeee laugh out loud nah just sit him down and just say to him well um i jsut wanted you to kno i kinda like you more sden a friend and if he dosnt comment laugh out loud run hehe no just say well um ok then bye


Me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) might try to try it again and see if it works this time. I still love and care about him. But there's another guy who I like and he likes me as well and wants to be with me. He hasn't caused me nearly as much pain as my ex (actually he hasn't caused me any) but I don't know who to choose or what to do? I love my ex even though it's been over a year since we broke up, but I also am starting to catch feelings for this new guy. Please help me . I will rate (link)
Hello0o0

yeh i kno its hard getting over your ex i was in teh same postion but you agve hima chance and it turned out bad now tehres nother guy give hima chance to he might turn out better trust me cuz once a guy dumps you he will do it again they think its a game but the guy that you liek u dont kno his bf materials so give him a shot ir ekon =]=]=]

XoXo LOVE Hilda =]


Well, I had a guy best friend 6th through 8th grade .. went to school together .. dated once in 6th grade .. were best friends. Well, I had the BIGGEST crush on him all through middle school and even after, but when we left middle school we went to different schools and he was never home when I called, so we just lost touch.

Then a little over a month ago, he started working with me .. it was crazy but awesome. He told me he wanted us to be best friends again and what not. Well, he told me last Thursday when we were cleaning the dining area that he had a crush on me all through middle school, but didn't want to tell me because he was scared I'd reject him since he dumped me and I told him, no I had a crush on you too, but I didn't want to tell you because you broke up with me .. well anyways .. we've hung out a couple times since then.

And tonight he asked me to come over and watch a movie and I did and there was a bazillion chances that a move could've been made, but it wasn't because the catch is .. he has a gf .. who he has dated for a couple months ... he really likes her, but he said if by chance they ever do break up, he wants to see if there is anything between us anymore .. so we'll be hanging out a lot since it is summer and all I just don't know what to do.

I really like the kid. Gr. (link)
Hey

i kno how you feel im in the sam postion but just kep hanging out like friends sumthign will happene trust me =]


My boyfriend and I had a really big fight because I'm in band & he doesn't support me singing. He sayz I don't spend enough time with him when I'm always with the band and we only meet on weekendz anywayz. I broke up with him because he was being an ass about my dream & wouldn't understand how much I loved singing. So now I'm feeling really stupid cuz he loved me and I miss him. I'm starting to think he's more important than the band, but the band has alwayz been my dream for life! What should I do?
xoxo ~Sabrina~ xoxo (link)
Hey Hun

well boyfriends come and go dont give up what you want to do for a boy who wont support you he basically dosnt care bout you he only cares bout his self but if you really want to throw away somthing you have aklways wanted to do for a boy then go ahead buy its a waste of time cause like i said boyfriends come and go and missing him is normal you get opver him just concertrate on your band some is there out for you trust me take care mwaz


what do girls look for in a guy, i think i know but i wanna know more! rate high! (link)
well hey

~ supports me
~loves me for who i am
~makes me laugh
~ makes me feel as if im the only girl

and basically be your sel;f and theyw ill lvoe you for who you are


me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago. and i just got a new boyfriend a few days ago and i like him a lot. but my ex boyfriend called me lastnight and told me how much he wanted me back and missed me and i just dont know what to do. he treated me bad but i still love him and care about him and dont know if i should be with my current boyfriend. being held by him just doesnt feel the same but i know if i go back to my old boyfriend that nothing will change. can somebody please lemme know what to do? (link)
Hey Hun

wel if he dmped u once h will do it again cause relationsps dont last use are married different story but like is aid realstion ships dont llast he will dump you again nd just thin you already ahd a chance with him so ont worythat it ended mile cause it happened you need to move on you need to see what other people are like well i hoe i helpd take care mwa


ive been still thinking about my ex since i moved and cannot stop thinking about him. whenever i try to like someone else and then they show interest in me, i stop liking them. then go back to thinking about my ex.. whats wrong with me!? (link)
hey hun

hey thats easy lol you still love the guy you cant get over him just hang arouind with your besties 24/7 have fun do what you do best just try to move on it will be hard but it's something you need to do or you can talk to your ex tell him how you feel and all that and then maybe you will lose some feeling just try it and plz tell me how you go

take care mwa mwa :) love :hilda


I'm 17/F
I have had a boyfriend for 2 steady months
and I used to like this guy and he saw me kissing
my boyfriend. He gave me a rather hurt look. Does he finally like me? I'm so confused what should i do? (link)
Hey hun

well yeh he might like you or maybe he looked at you like that but he didnt mean to maybe you tok the wrong way maybe you should ask him why he did that cause if you dont your gonna be raelly confused so teh best thing to do is ask him and if he likes you just tell him when he the chance with you he blew it so it'sm not really your fault you have a boyfreind and just say sorry but i still want to be friends :):)

well i hope i helped
take care mwa mwa love : hilda




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