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My names Tina, and I have been through a lot of bad and good things in my life. While the bad things were occurring, i always wished that it was never happening, but when it was over, i realize that without those bad moments, i would never have been the way i am right now and certain very enjoyable moments would've never been experienced. so remember, people, EVERY bad moment in life is the cause of more than ONE very good one. trust me, i know. ;P
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13/f
Ok so there is this boy i like, "jason". I first met him last yr when he came to our skool. We got off to a rough start in our friendship but then this yr. my two of my teachers sat us next to each other. We got along great and now we are pretty much bff's. We always ALWAYS talk in skool. And we text ALL THE TIME! We text every single day for about an hour each day. Im txting him now lol.
Anyway I think he likes me. What do you think?
And do guys think it's weird if i would say something like "we shuld hang out sometime!"? Do they think its stalker-ish?
im sorry, but by the information you provided here, i dont think i can give my opinion if jason likes you or not. it wouldve helped if you explained things he did with you(if there was any) in which he doesnt do any other girls. well, maybe you can just add extra info to your question after, and then maybe i can edit my answer and give you better advice. :)
no, if you guys are friends right at this moment, it wouldnt be weird if you asked him if you guys can hang out sumtime. after all, you guys are just friends RIGHT NOW and if you wouldnt feel weird and you dont make them feel weird asking other friends if they wanted to hang out sumtime, then itll be the same with jason. trust me, not all guys are the same. good luck with that. and keep in mind im always open for any extra advice you may need!
15/f
This is kind of a long story:
My boyfriend (ben) always used to tell me about how all these girls are all over him, they tell him hes hot and they give him hugs randomly.
He said that one girl tried to give him a lapdance jokingly and thyre always sitting on his lap.
He tells me about all of his friends that are girls and how they are all flirty with him.
I recently asked his friend dave and he said that all the girls think ben is weird and that ben never talks
note: me and him do not go to the same school
He also lies to me alot, but its only to impress me. Hes very shy, so to make it seem that way: he lies to me.
He tells me he fights in these gangs all the time: when he has no friends (or so i hear from dave: who is a very trustworthy person and a good friend of mine)
Dave is Bens only friend, and ben sits all by himself on the bus.
Hes always talking about this girl Victoria who he says he hates, but he continues to bring her up.
Also, im his first girlfriend (Dave told me this and so did my other friend Danny)
But thats not what ben told me.
The number of girlfreinds hes had changes every time he brings it up.
One time he told me hes had five.
Another time seven
Another time twelve
and some of the names were: leslie, jojo, marrissa, nikki, michelle etc ..
and i asked dave about these people and he said that there arent even girls in the school with that name!
Theres always a story about a new girl EVERY week.
I'm not jelous, because i know these are lies.
But he thinks that talking about other girls will impress me, but it only pisses me off.
I know that lying is bad, and that it gets in the way with a relationship: but he is a very shy kid, who just needs a friend, and somebody to be there for him. The kids in school treat him like scum, and i know this by experience.
For example: We were at the movies the other day and he saw some kid from his school.
The kid took a tampon and shoved it in Ben's face saying: MMMMMM, smeelss good doesnt it?
Kids in school tease him because they say hes weird, and doesnt talk.
I just dont know what to do anymore, his school is full of stuck up bitchy && slutty girls, and immature jerky boys. But he acts like everything is wonderful, when i know its not.
Please help me, im totally lost. I feel so bad for him, and i love him so much. And i know he loves me.
He shows it and says it alot, im the only thing he has left and if i break up with him it will only make things worse: so please dont put that as one of your answers becuase i love him and that would be the last thing i ever want to do.
I just need a solution.
Im running out of ideas
thankyou so much!
whered you get the idea that sumone would tell you to break up with him? well, i wouldnt, that would be completely messed up. well, the best thing i suggest you do is to try to talk to him about it and tell him how you dont really care if people think hes weird and you accept him for who he is. tell him it ust makes things worse for him to tell you things thats not true and let him know you want him to be truthful towards you. just talk to him and make sure he knows you dont care what people thinkk about him and that you will still love him either way. i hope i helped. if you have something more specific you wanna ask me, feel free. i am always open and ready for more questions. good luck with your bf and keep me in mind! :D hope everything works out!
I was drunk that night i text her and when i drink i come out of my shell and speak the truth about my self. so i text my friend letting her know that i still like her but want to get over her. we text for 7 hours about her confused sexuality and me trying to respect myself. but after i ask her "you dont like me more than a friend right?" she relpyed :"not as of now sorry i see you as a sister." what does she mean not as of now? and why she kept texting me after i ask her that question? i had to cut off the texting because i wanted to sleep i text "sorry i bug you i just want to get over you" she reply "its fine, i am okay with it" i hope she is okay that i want to get over her.
we know each other for 7 years, she is a touchy close person to me.
she doesnt want to have a relationship yet she wants to finish college.
i am bi sexual.
when she said "as of now" she meant right now. lol shes texting you after you asked that because she doesnt feel weirded out, which is good. you should be glad that she was pretty cool about it and that she didnt ignore your text messages. she probably is saying the truth about seeing you as a sister, since she was being pretty cool about it. dont worry she is okay with it. wish you luck. if you need any more advice for me, feel free, im always glad to help. so keep me in mind! :)
I’m Katy…
Okayyy…so there’s this guy
And I’ve been talking to him..and were friends
And I flirt with him sometimes b/c he’s cute
Well I’ve know him for a good 4 weeks about
And my friend came over one day
Well I was on aim talking to him and everything was good
Till I went to the bathroom
While I was gone
She was talking to him and asking questions
Like what’s your last name…how tall are you
Then she goes are you single?
Then he’s like that’s a lil informal is’nt it
Then she’s like I was just wonderin
Then he’s like yes I am….are you lookin??
Then she’s like oh you know katy is too
And he’s like oo I did’nt know that
(but the way he wrote it i'm not sure if it's like an awkward reply..or if he's intrested)
Then she’s like well know you do
Then he’s like won’t she be mad that you said that
And she’s like yea but don’t tell her
Well I came back and found out
I mad at her for doing that
B/c I’m not fully sure if I like him
But idk what to do
Like I think he’s gonna think I’m weird now…and it’s gonna be awkward but idk
And the next day I sent him a message saying don’t pay attention to her…she doesn’t know what she’s doing
He never replied
So now I’m freaking out and don’t know what to do…
:P your overreacting. he prbabaly didnt get the chance to answerr yet if it hasnt been dat long. it dependsz on how you sent him a message. email...it is possible but if itsz sumthing like im or text then...idk. but you shouldnt be mad at her for it i think she was just trying to help you get him and she was just playing around, lol. so yeah wait a while, he might like you and see how everything turns out. I am always open for questions. good luck with stuff and look on the bright side.
okay ive been with this guy for three years and we have been through our ups and downs..hes cheated on me three times and i have not cheated on him back nor have i cheated on him at all he says hes cheated on me because i make him feel like i dont care..he says its because of numerous of things like.when i dont answer his phone calls. after he disrespects me and i feel attacked i end up hanging up on him He calls me out of my name and says really mean things about me..so i end up hanging up on him. and he says thats one of the reasons why he does what he does is because i dont answer his calls he says that im just another girl in his phone and says that i just tell you i love you to make it sound good..he tells me all of this when we argue. but when we argue i dont say things liek that..i dont tell him that i got other dudes on the side or im just sayign i love you just to say it. I always forgive him and let things go..hes very insecure and points the finger at me. he gets mad for the most dumbiest reasons. we just had an arguement about how i dont tell him things..like he tells me when he gets new clothes and shoes...and he says that when i buy new clothes and shoes i dont tell him..like today he seen my new shoes and said why when i ask you have you bought any new shoes you jsut tell me you bought a pair but you have more than one. He says why dont you ever just tell me the truth i was like are you serious okay babe im sorry i will tell uyou next time he got so mad and was cutting me off when i was tryig to comprimise with him..and he jsut said whatever you just wanna say sorry and just drop it and end the problem your way. I honestly dont know why hes like this why he acts so angry and trippy off the most littlest things...im so lost ive been completely disrespected by him and been cheated by him. and i have forgave him for so much i let things go that usually no one would let go. He still doesint appreciate me doing that. He doesint see that my girl just forgave me for the most hurtfull things that ive done to her..Instead he keeps doing what he does and calls me out of my name and says that im worthless and just another B#### in his phone and that he can mess with me when he wants. I love this guy and your probebly thinking why? But i do and he also doesint see that he has told me you dont love me and i tell him are you serious i have forgave you for cheating on me disrespecting me that should show you that i love you a lot that im letting my guard down for you..I dont know what to do im so confused and lost, hurt, Every time he disrespects me and does thing to me he calls me back and says baby im sorry and that he needs me in his life and that im the reason why he acts crazy and disrespectful. I really dont see that I dont feel that im the reason of his wrong doings i feel that thats jsut what he wants to do..But i end up feeling sorry for him and take him back because i love him a lot. what should i do?
i know exactly how you feel. you see this guy, i think hes taking advantage of you in some way, i dont know what but if hes saying all this stuff to you then why is he still with you? i think you should get over him...try the hardest, this guy aint worth it. he treats you like something to play with, its not right. he should appreciate the fact that he has a girlfriend that loves him to the end of earth and will forgive him no matter what. love is like that. you really need to get over him because a good girlfriend like you should not have to go through this. he isnt worth it. if hes calling you names, them y dont he just go find someone HE THINKS is better? you get what im saying?
back in janurary i cheated on my boyfriend after i told him i found out that on new years that he jumped out of a window and got a concussion and almost died. i ended up dumping the person i cheated with and went back with my original does that make me a player? i feel so horrible about it everytime i think about it i feel like a monster who doesnt deserve to live how do i deal with this
no. you are not a player. a player is a person who just jumps from bf/gf to bf/gf and dont care about anybodys feelingsz. they dont feel bad about cheating on anyone and they dont think theyll regret it but one day they will. dont feel bad u r just overreacting ok. u sre a persn like everybody else and everybody else makes a mistake just like you do.
17/f
i broke up with my boyfriend on monday. he was unsure of our relationship and was doubting and apparently "confused" about it. i decided to break it off so i wouldnt get hurt in the end. now, he's telling me that he never was gonna break up with me in the first place. im shocked and devastated. ive been seeing this guy for five months. well...now..even though he doesnt suggest we get back together (even though he shows it through body language) he flirts like CRAZY with me. i dont understand why. he points to places where we used to make out...touches me...all those things. i thought that breakups meant ignoring the other person. what does this all mean and how should i act? should i follow him around or ignore him? i dont wanna seem desperate. thank you in advance :)
well first of all break ups dont mean ignoring the other person, but it means your no longer calling them your boiifriend but you can still be friends. well you should just tell him to stop doing this to you and that you guys are no longer bf/gf so flirting with you. you should tell him to make things clear and if he wants something just say it because hes just getting you confused. hope i helped. im always open 4 more questions and advice.
ok so this one guy who stoped talking to me for like 2 months, started talking to me again. and he wants to chill this summer.
he told me that he still likes me more than a friend and all that, but the thing is, he still has a girlfriend.
he said he would never cheat--but i think if i made a move on him, he wouldnt make me stop.
i kind of want to tease him some, so should i be all flirty and like kiss him just to see what happens? thanks!
ok i dont think you should be flirty and you know all that stuff. i wouldnt like it if a girl was flirting with my boyfriend. just wait until they break up or something. and obviously this guy isnt the best cause if he has a girlfriend and he also likes you then he probably cheats. you dont want to get into any trouble with his girlfriend! hope i helped. ill always be open to answer any questions.
so im in a relationship where i only get to see my boyfriend in school. That is really the only problem with it like i like this guy a lot but us not seeing each other is becoming a problem, its not for him because hes never been in a relationship where he sees his girlfriend like a real one so i dont think he is seeing any problems like we never fight and people say we are prefect for each other but, i want a real relationship and i think it would be best for us to brake up, the problem is he doesnt think anything is wrong and he likes me a lot more then i like him and i dont want to hurt him hes an awesome guy but the distance is to much for me to handle i mean yeah i see him in school barley like i have no classes with him and one lunch with him so its like we never see each other and we only talk online because he cant use the phone because he has really strict parents. My question is how do i get out of this relationship, what can i say? how do i say it? every time i try to brake up with him i always freeze up and i cant say it i always plan it out but i cant fallow threw with it.. how do i go about doing this??
well i dont really think theres any other non-mean way to break up with dis guy but actually have the courage to open your mouth and explain to him how you dont like it. maybe have our friendsz help you out and be by your side. im sorry this might not really have helped but i really dont see any other way to do it.
Ok, so I really need some help I don't quite know what to do about this... So here goes...
Ok so me and my current boy friend have been dating for exactly 6 months today and well I think...Thought I really loved him but after last night I don't even what to think about being with him... Ok so we went to the movies last night me him and like 5 other people you know we were all just hanging out...and he someone was texting him during the movie and at first I really didn't care but they still kept texting and so I decided to see who it was... and it was his Ex Ashley...now I really don't know this girl I only know what my boy friend has told me about her...She texts him all the time but last night I was kind of wondering what they were talking about and I came in like half way through the conversation and like the first one said something about dropping someone it said the word "Drop" and yeah and the next one he sent and was "idk" and then from her "you promised me you would" Him: "We'll see what happens" Her:"Please" and then the was all like "I love you" he told that to her... and she was all like "oh yeah I love you too!" but see the thing is that I don't know if they were just saying that as friends or what and I think that he might be cheating on me... but I don't know and I don't really know what to do and then after I found out what I know when he tried to kiss me it just felt wrong and I don't know what to do please help...
WEll, this is what I think. I think he wants to break up with you and go back to Ashley. Ashley told him to break up with you but he isnt sure whether to do it or not. Also, I think when your bf said I love you to Ashley, he seriously might have meant it as the close kind. I can see why you are suspicious and I think you shouldve asked this question. I hope this helped for you to decide what to do about this.
Hey,
So there is this guy at my work, he's real hot. Any how every thime i'm near him he's constantly rubbing or pinching my arms, he'll even skratch my back or massage it for no reason. We talk on msn and facebook and stuff, and he's always asking me if i have a bf...
What do you think... is this guy into me?
Guys and girls plz!
thanks!
yea, of course this guy is into you. i actually think this guy is so crazy abt you. if u like dis guy, well it surely seems like it, go 4 him. im almost 100% sure that he'll go out with u. good luck. hope i helped.