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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??
Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed (link)
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it shouldnt matter what race he is, people are jelious because they want your man. you shouldnt have to worry about the laughs and jokes but its life and you will get throw it. you are better then those people because you are the one with your head high and not brakeing up with him because of them! good luck sweetie
*~*Crystal*~*
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When waz ur first kiss? (link)
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my first kiss was in 5th grade, so when I was 9! I know young
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(f, 15) hey i'm really confused right now...my best guy friend in the entire world just asked me to be his girlfriend a couple of days ago. now he has an awesome personality, but i don't think i could get over the lack of physical attraction, so i know it seems really shallow but i said no. supposedly he got over it really quickly and likes my friend sarah now..i know that sounds good that he didn't get hurt, but now i'm really jealous..i don't know if i'm just jealous of her because all the guys like her, or if i really do like him, or i am just being selfish and want everyone to like me..it's driving me crazy..i'm really not a bad person, i just don't know how i really feel..it doesn't matter that much i guess since he doesn't even like me anymore, i just want to figure out my feelings and i don't know how to. please help! (link)
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I am having the same kinda problem, I think whats going on is that you knew he was always going to be there likeing you, wanting you, but he found anouther girl, and it is your friend. Talk to her, tell her how you feel about him, I think you feel like you had someone and now you don't. if she is a true friend she would understand. and if she doesnt even like him, he will get over it really fast. he still got feelings for you. hope this works! Good Luck sweetie. oh and you are not shollow or selfish!
*~*Crystal*~*
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Me.Boy.my BFF. U do the math. I really like this boy but he likes my bestest bud, but she likes a boy who likes me! Y cant we all just get what we want.? How can I get the boy I like to like me so my bff can have the boy she likes too and everyone is happy? (link)
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I think you should always put your friends first. let her be happy and you will be happy. also talk to her about it see if she really likes him or the other guy. good luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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im 14 and well ppl always tells me im pretty...but yet no one likes me...i mean if im so pretty why doesn't n e one like me? i mean i don't get it...and i have friends...so it must mean im not awful or weird...i think im nice...plzz help! i just really really dont get it....so could you help me please!?
~Melissa (link)
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melissa you are 14 you have you whole life infront of you and you don't need a man right now. but you might be so cool that they want you as friends and nothing more. I know how it is. but trust me you don't need a man at all! live you life hunny. hope this works good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
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If I was you I wouldnt worrie about him get a new man. he is not worth yur time if he is not going to talk to you and he thre for you. so forget him. he is stupid. tell him he is cut hope this works good luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...??????? (link)
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Hunny you have your whole life infront of you and you should not get to deep in the boi thing but. I think you should talk to him and see what he has to say. tell him that you still love him and you want to be together and work things out. you never know what happened at his ex's house maybe they were just hanging out. so don't give up if you want your man back then you can get him back all you have to do is tell him how you feel. hope this helps
Good Luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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well i like this one guy and i think he like me! we talk all the time like on the internet and phone. i asked him one day on the internet if he likes me and didnt answer and signed off! does that mean he and is probebly to shy to answer or he doesnt like me??? (link)
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well if you guys have a good relationship then I am sure he likes you, maybe his computers a POS and got kicked off or was to shy to asnswer as you said. I think you should ask him in person. but tell him that you like him to so he don't feel like maybe she just wants to know. so yeah hope it works out Good Luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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I'm stuck between two guys.. I don't know which one to choose even tho I already go out with one of them. Before I started going out with boy 1, my friend introduced me to boy 2 and things were going great. Then, I went to hershey park with boy 1 (and the rest of my school) and we hit it off! we went of every ride together and he was being such a sweetheart (and still is) and we cuddled the whole ride home! After that, we started going out. The day after we started going out I left for soccer camp and the beach, so I was gone for 2 weeks. When i came back I was hanging out with boy 1 alot and everything was going great... and then I saw boy 2 the other day at the pool.. and OMG he looked so cute! I've started talking to boy 2 a lot now.. i still talk to boy 1 a lot tho.. I'm confused about who i like more tho. I really like my boyfriend, but then i remember that if i hadnt started going out with him I'd be going out with boy 2. boy 2 still has feelings for me.. he was asking about me while i was gone and i do like him too. Boy 2 is also a year older than me, not that it makes a difference. but i like that he's older.. and its not like he's some older badboy, he's a nice guy. I'm just not sure if i should stick with my boyfriend for the summer, or break up with him and be single for the rest of the summer so i can have both, or stay with him and just flirt with boy 2 still? HELP ME! (link)
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hell cheat on him lol I am so just kidding don't do that!! I think that you should talk to boi 1 and see if he would mind if you were friends and you can still hang out. and tell him that you really like anouther guy. tell him the turth. if you lie to him it will bit you in the ass. just talk to him. and tell that other fool that you like him and you want to try to hit it off with him and see what he has to say I would talk to boi 2 first b/c if he says no you can always go to boi 1 so yeah don't try to lose them both lol hope this helps.
*~*Crystal*~*
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I am 14 and i am a female. I like this guy and he likes this grl that everyone likes bc she has a butt, a tan, and she is pretty. She is a ditze and sometimes has no clue about anything. She has a boyfriend but is having trouble relizing that he treats her like crap and there r tons of guys who will take her any day. me and this guy r friends and when we were in school, we flirted alot. now that we r out of school we talk online, but dont flirty as much. the most he ever say to me is "OK?'. I wonder what has happened and what i cna do 4 him to pay more attention to me and get things back to normal. pleez help!!! (link)
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I think you sould totaly talk to him and start up a convo see what he likes and see if you like the same thing. also be streight up with him and ask him if anything has changed between you two b/c maybe something has changed and see if there is anything you can do about it! hope i helped you in anyway!
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My boyfriend really really wants to do stuff with me like really bad when ever I kiss him he tries to do all this new stuff and I want to and everything but I am afraid of going to far... what should I doo? My dad is going to New York for a month and then we are suppose to move there because his new job and I don't want too!!!
Right now my Best frined has MONO! from kissing another guy and her mom is flipping out!! Help me What should i do with everything! (link)
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well hunny looks like you have alot things going on at once! well with your boyfriend seems like you are not ready for that and you should wait. I am the same way I don't want to lose mine either so I am gonig to wait and I think thats what you should do! I know you don't want to move but it might be the best thing for you! to try to get away from allthe things that are happeneing. Maybe you should talk to your dad and see if you guys might be able to stay, you never know he might find a job where you live. and with your friend you cant help her by having mono or with her mother but you can always be there for her and Just make sure she is ok and getting mono is not a fun thing trust me I have had it and my friends where there for me. just be there for her and she will thank you. hope my advice works and good luck with all your problems please tell me how it works out my e mail is footballchicka06@comcast.net thanks hun
*~*Crystal*~*
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I NEED Help i love my ex but she dont like me what should i do im a 13 m (link)
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hunny you don't know what love is I am sorry you are only 13 you have you whole life infront of you so many other girls. hun you should move on or see how she feels. sorry if it don't work out but remmeber you got your whole life infromt of you! good luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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I have been going out with this guy for 9 months(2 years unofficially) and we have had sex more than 80 times. I'm only 17 and I'm afraid that this feeling I have, like we are meant for eachother and are going to get married, is just an illusion. Other times, I can see myself marrying him. He's my bestfriend, lover, and the only man I have ever trusted. So is this feeling just "puppy love" or do you think it could be real? (link)
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Hey hunny i am only 15 and never been in love but I really think you should follow your heart and talk to him and seewhere your relationship is going and see if he is feelin the same way about you as you feel about him. I think you actully might have something you sould like you are in love! surly talk to him and see how he is feeling hope this works out! good luck!
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I am decent looking, & I am called hot a lot but not very many guys fall for me! I have dated about 5 guys & I want a boyfriend but I want to find the perfect guy so I want to make guys like me so I can get to know them if I like them. Not just looks but personality too. I already love to have fun and hang w/ them & I can be girly & sporty. I have a really good sense of humor but it doesn't feel like a lot of guys like me more than just a good friend. My question is, how can I improve myself in looks & personality as I am going into middle school in a month & I want to make a good impression to everyone first & just also for myself so I'll be happier & be more confident. Thankz, I'll rate you. Sry this is so long but thankz for taking time to read this!
~Lonely and Unconfident :-( 12/f (link)
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Well hunny you are so young and have your whole life to find the perfect boi for you. Just be yourself and don't try to hard that you are obvious about it. if you want to be happier then you need to be youself and not some one the guys will like. Some one will fall for you. they will fall for the sweet and careing person you are! so keep you head up you will find the special person you are looking for! trust me I was the same way! i didnt have my first true boifriend tell I was about 14! so hunny keep up who you are! hope it works out for you good luck in middle school its a lotta fun
*~*Crystal*~*
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So me and my ex-boyfriend talk so much becasue we know for sure we are gunna get back together soon, this is just a break. But anyways, he told me that i was a horrible girlfriend which was bull *thats a reason we broke up* .. well, i wanna know some cute things that I can do that will really show him I'm still so in love with him. Any ideas? (link)
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sweetie you don't have to impress a guy by showing him how you can be a good girlfriend if he don't like you for you then he is not worth it. trust me you will find anouther guy that will bethere for you and like you for you not what you do for him.
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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
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you are 16 you have you whole life ahead of you. I think you should let him know how you feel but don't put it on him to fast. he will get scared and want to leave you, just tell him that you have only been together for about 2 weeks but you really like him see what he has to say. if he says its going to fast then stop and say your sorry but this is how you feel IM me and tell me how it goes footballchicka06.
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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
thxx (link)
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Hunny you really don't need a boyfriend. you might want one but they are really just a pain in the butt. but if you really need to know you jsut need to be yourself. don't put on an act they will find out who you are not the person you want to be!
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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dear sad and confused,
you should for sure get incomtact with this guy you know you feelings are stong and if you never do it you will never know what you are missing out on. so just seewhat he is up to if he remembers you and what he is doing and all that good stuff keep it casual at first then go and get into the stuff you want to know about him! ;)
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