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if a man you lived with and had a relationship with moved out while u were in the hospital for 3 days and told you you needed to loose weight cause you are too fat should you take him back if he apologies? (link)
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i deffinetly would not take him back. if he did that to you when you were in a hospital, he will probably do something stupid like that again. i remember when around 5 years ago, my aunt was in the hospital with a coma and her boyfriend ended up leaving her. i got so mad at him, he really hurt her too. and i don't think you deserve to be hurt. i mean do you really want to be with somebody who would leave you while you were in the hospital and someone who thinks your fat? i think not. espeacially if they are willing to give up your guys' relationship over your weight. he just doesn't seam to value it.
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There is this girl I met on the internet. I have never spoke to her in person, for she lives in england. She is sweet, kind, funny, pretty and an overall great person. I talk to her multiple times a week, and I feel I may be falling in love with her. I want to persue a relatiionship with her, but there's and ocean seperating us. I have dropped clues as to how I feel, and I think she may feel the same, but there is still that ocean. I don't know what to do. (link)
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okay, if you want me to answer this question you really have to look into your future together, with her. do you really think you guys will be together in the future? and do you guys plan on moving in together? i think that instead of dropping clues about how you feel, you should just tell her. after you do that, you'll feel relieved and most girls tell a guy how they feel after a guy has told her. if you think that your love and trust for her can make a long distance relationship work then go for it. but keep in mind that there might be something that comes up causing you guys to break up. and if it's bad enough, there will probably be no chance for you two in the future when you can actually live together. (well depending on how old you are now.) if you are old enough to move together, then you guys need to talk about a moving situation and a relationship together after you tell her how you feel. (make it a while after though, no girl wants to feel rushed into a relationship)
- good luck and hope i helped. :)
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Alright, well i've been talking to this guy online for awhile and he has to be the sweetest guy i've ever met. He's perfect, he looks good, hes there for me when i need him, i can talk to him, hes alwaysss making me smile and it seems so prefect. We talk on the phone and everything hes smart, funny just everything i want. but he doesn't live in the same state as me. Me and him have talked in the past and we both agreed that we didn't want a long distance relationship because it's too hard. But i can't help but want him to myself i don't want him to end up dating someone where he lives, hes so prefect i just want to be with him i can never stop thinking about him and i just want to get out of highschool so i can go whereever and just see him. I know it may sound kinda stupid but you don't really understand unless your in the situation. I don't know what i'm supposed to do, if i'm supposed to forget about us having anything until we're older and just accept things and stay single or try it with someone up here but thats the thing i don't really want anyone around where i live. Or should i wait and just see what happends or what? I'm so confused, what should i do? (link)
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Okay, yeah I know that can be a tough situation. I think that this is something you and him have to decide together. There are positives and negatives of being together and there are positives and negatives of waiting. If you got together now, you would rarley be able to see eachother but you still would be able to talk to eachother and you have to accept the fact that if you got together now then there could be a chance of some girl hitting on him. (i'm not saying that he would go for her and leave you or anything but.. I still wouldn't want girls hitting on my boyfriend.. ya know? but another positive is you sound like you really like him, and it's good to have someone that you really like that makes you feel good about yourself. and if you decide to wait, you both will probably find other people. I think that if I were you in your situation, I would ask him if he wanted to try the long distance relation ship and if things don't work out that way, just wait until you get older and hook up with him if there isn't anybody else in the picture.
*Hope I helped and good luck !
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ok i like this girl but im i dont know if she likes me as a freind or more (we have known eachother for 3 years)i used to be like differnt (mental hospital fixed that)any ways we talk alot we got talking to movies and she mention the corpse bride i being an animator was intrested the next day i ask her about the movie animation style but be fore i get 2 words out she blurts out the night it comes out is that a hint of some sort (link)
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That could be a hint but it also couldn't.. girls are wierd that way. But if you don't know if she likes you or not then just tell her that you like her. You'll feel more relieved by her actually knowing and you'll find out how she feels about you. But if you don't want to just come out and say that you like her (because I know that that can be wierd..) then call her up and ask her if she wants to go to the movie with you.
* Hope I helped and good luck.
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Ok.. My best friend's name is Cj.. he is 15. I'm 13. He and I are wicked good friends and we joke around alot. But when we hang out just me and him he flirts with me. He doesn't know i like him, or atleast i don't think he does. But whenever I go outside or something, he runs outside.. and sometimes he wont even say anything to me. He just goes outside and stares at me. My friends say he likes me, but I don't know because he's older than me. He is so sweet and so nice, and he always has a smile on or acts stupid-cute when he's near me. And I do to. I just wanna know if u think he likes me.. I think he does, but the age dif is getting in my way.. I really like him!!! (link)
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There is deffinetly a possibility that he likes you.. age doesn't matter at all. and it's only a 2 year difference! it's not like he's 20 something. and why are you so worried about the age difference anyways? if he can admit to being best friends with a 13 year old i think he could be able to mention dating a 13 year old. don't worry about the 2 years, it's not a big deal, guys are normally older than their girlfriends or whatever.
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there is this guy that i have known for a while and he is hott and everything but he is like a brother to me and he asked me out should i do it or should i just say no?
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you should go out with him only if you like him and you think that he's gonna be a good boyfriend. also, check to see if hes still friends with some of his exs.. that's always a good thing because it shows that you guys still might be friends after you guys break up.. that is if you actually want to be friends with him. and you shouldn't just go out with him because he's hott. hott guys most of the time are assholes..
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Ok. Heres my problem. I like this guy but he doesnt no i like him and right now he likes my best friend and stuff and me and him always talk on line and we go to the same school and stuff. Well I think now I have feelings for him and my best friend doesnt like him anymore she said but i dont think he likes me as a g/f. What should I do?? (link)
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okay.. i think you should wait until this guy doesn't like your best friend anymore. because if you were to go out with him, you wouldn't want him flirting with your best friend. and if he does like your best friend and you end up asking him out or something, he could say yes to use you to get closer to your friend. so wait until he tells you that he doesn't like your friend anymore. then tell him how you feel about him. :)
- Hope I helped.
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i am 13 and my boy friend is 13 we have been goin out for 3 days and he wants to hang out but i dont no like what to do when we hang out im kinnda shy so what should we talk about give me ideas on what to do and what to talk about (link)
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For your first date go to the movies or something. You wouldn't have to worry about what to talk about there because you don't really talk that much in the movie theatre anyways. Or you could go to a mall or something. I'm sure you can deffinetly find something to talk about there. (like about some of the things there and some of the stores)
- Hope I helped and good luck !
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hi. im 13 years old and ive had a bf for 4 months. he dumped me the other day because his friends dont like me. i really like him and he likes me too. 2 minutes (literally) after he dumped me he had another gf. is he worth going back for?
P.S. ive never met his parents and hes never met mine. thanks for your help. (link)
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Ohmygosh ! He dumped you because of what his friends thought of you? I would have forgotten about him right there. If he truley liked you he wouldn't be worried about what his friends said. And if he got a girlfriend 2 minutes after you guys were going out, oviously he had his eye on her while you guys were dating. He is deffinetly not worth going back for!
- Hope I helped.
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hey i have a question okay, what should i do if i really like this guy but i dont think he likes me. but he flirts with me all the time...i mean all the time. and all my friends say he likes me but he says he likes this one girl. he allways talks about this girl when were flirting and it gets annoying. i really dont know what to do hes confusing me. (link)
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Okay.. this exact same thing happened to me 2 years ago. If you think that he likes you, I would say go for it, tell him how you feel. But only if you don't think things would get wierd between you two if he doesn't really like you. If he does like you, he might just talk about this girl all the time to make you jelous. Also, before you talk to him about your feelings, you have to remember that there is always a chance of getting hurt. But if I were you, I would just tell him that I like him, or if you don't feel comfortable, have a friend talk to him. (just make sure your friend doesn't ruin it for you) Because people are going to hurt you no matter what you do. It's just how it is, Some boy hurts you, your heart breaks, then you get back up on your feet and find another boy. So if you really want him, go for it.
- Hope I helped and good luck.
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Okay well today, i found out that the guy i've been talking to and basically dating the past few weeks is playing his ex on the side of me. now ik i should be mad and hate him for it but the more pain he puts me through the tighter i hold on and the more i need him and love him. all i can do is cry, and after me and his ex found out he ended up calling her and begging for her back and not me. It seems like every guy i start to exrememly like i get played off and hurt i just can't take it. he made me feel so good, so happy. and now without him i'm going through hell. I need him back in my life nobody understands that i probably would take him back after this because thats how much he means to me and they all get mad at me.. what should i do about everything? (link)
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okay.. I know this probably isn't what you want to hear. But, I think what everyone is telling you is true. I don't think you should hate him but I deffinetly don't think you should want to be with him. I know you really like him but why be with a player? And oviously he doesn't really think too much of you if he begged his other girl back and not you. All I know is that if he got back with you theres like a 75% chance that he would just go and play you again. Players almost never change. You don't need a player in your life. And you said that you're going through hell without him? Hun, i would say you were going through hell with him. People cheating on eachother just isn't right. Go try finding somebody who can make you feel good, and happy, but won't play you.
- Hope I helped and I'm sorry for what you're going through.
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Me and my friend both have questions:
My question: I just started going out with this guy that I have been with on and off before. We haven't seen each other all summer so we talk on the phone alot. Anyways, I don't know what to talk to him about! We both end up asking the other person what they wanna talk about and saying I don't know. Or we end up talking about "us" or something. Any ideas? I don't wanna seem boring.
My friends question: My dad is racist, and the problem is I like a guy who is partially black. When we're talking on the phone my dad always interrupts me and asks why we are talking. It's really getting on my nerves and I don't think my dad can get over this. What should I do?
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okay with your question, I would just ask him about his day. Ask what he did or if you guys have a both are friends with the same person ask if he's seen or talked to him/her. Tell him about some things that you have been doing. Or talk to him about wanting to hang out with him and plan a date or something. And for your friends question, I've had this same problem. My dad is somewhat racist also. And its hard for us girls with our dad's in the first place because they're so overprotective not to mention the boy you are interested in being someone your dad just can't accept. Just tell your dad that nothing is going on between you two and that you're just friends. Or just talk to your dad about it, tell him he's a nice guy and maybe have the guy come over and meet your dad.
-Hope I helped and good luck.
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How old is it normal to be in luv or at least think you r? and what things might make you thnk your in luv, like what things would you do differently if anythin if you r? (link)
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Okay, there is no certain age that you have to be to be in love. But some people think that you need to be a certain age but that's bull. Some things that would make you think youre in love is if you can talk to them for hours and not get sick of them, if you can be yourself around them, but most of all if they make you feel good. But I believe that you can fall in love at any age.
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ok so me and my ex girlfriend broke up over a month ago now, but i still like her a lot, and i kno she likes me to, but shes said she wants to wait until 2 weeks into school before decide if she wants to get back together, but she also said if she misses me she will come back after the 2 weeks. i still talk to her everynight on either AIM or phone, and i think im just ruining my chances....should i stop talking to her or should i ruin my chance and just continue wat im doing?
plz help
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I think that you should not wait around for this girl. NO offence, but she probably wants to wait until the first 2 weeks into school to see if she can find someone better. I know you like her but, try not to think that much about her (and yeah sometimes I know that that's inposssible) I think that she will come back if she does like you, but also if she doesn't find anyone who she thinks is better. If you keep waiting around for her your going to be wrapped around her finger and she will know that no matter what she can always go running back to you.
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okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help (link)
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I think that you should tell your friend about everything that is going on between you and her boyfriend. My boyfriend is friends with my best friend and if my boyfriend was doing that stuff to my friend I would want her to tell me about it. So think about it from your friends point of view. And think about it this way, if she finds out that her boyfriend has been talking to you so much then she might get mad at you for not talking to her about it. But if you really don't want to tell your friend about it, tell your friends boyfriend to stop talking to you so much. Tell him that you want to be friends with him but you don't think that you should talk or hang out that much considering that your friends with his girlfriend.
-Hope I helped.
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