My bestfriend introduced me to her best guy friend he told her she must give his number to me the next day we decided to meet each other..we were at his house with friends and then we ended up being alone,we were talking getting to know eachother bt then we kissed and ended up having sex...afta that everything was fine between us..i then told mx best friend what happend and that we slept together I was so shocked cause it happend unexpectedly and i just met him i then didnt hear from him for a few days so i decided to text him only to find out he deletd my number cause he asked "who's this" i then tld hm and he was so shocked and then did nt respond again,then two days later i textd hm and he asked me if why did i tell my bestfriend that we slept together i then told hm that i didnt and he told me "dont talk crap she told me" i then didnt knw what to do and i ddnt wana lie so i admitted that i did tell her i then told hm that i did tell her cause i ddnt knw what to do i just met him and i slept with him and i know his angry and sorry wont fix it he then didnt reply,i textd hm again today bt i just said hs name and then once again he asked who 's this and ths time i told him to figure it out its the person he stopped replying to he then replied saying "well i cant figure things out now" i t.gen said is that how quickly he forgotten,sorry i wasted hs time he read but never replied after that..i told my best friend what happend and she says he has moods i must leave him and let him come right..thing is hs the 1st guy i met after getting over my ex boyfriend..i knw i just met him but i came to the point of liking him and wanting to get to know him furthe but now i dont know what to do cause i really wna see him again mayb its my fault cause i gave in too quick but i was stl gtn over my ex and it just felt nice to be with someone again laugh cuddle etc even though we just met..please help me out here i really want a chance with this guy i want totalk and see him again is there anything i can do to fix it..what did i do wrong,why is he acting so,why dont he want to answer my msgs is he still angry or what..please help me please i feel like i wasted hs time i dnt want to msg hm again cause i dont want to seem desperate which im not,i just want a chance with him,
SHIT HAPPENS!
Do not repel over what has happened and if you think you are as much at fault he himself must be more at fault.
just move forward.
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Girl
So i have a crush from last year, i confessed and fucked things up and but i still have feelings for him. we dont talk to each other anymore so we are basically enemies i think. i really want to get him outta my mind but somehow i cant. any advice for getting over someone? whenever i see him at skl i just feel so sad gusdhfkjl xthanks
There is nothing like CANT GET OVER.
Its all about your choice.
Its all in your mind.
Take it up positively with yourself.
Get up and decide that you want to get out of it.
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Ok I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years now but we constantly fight and barely get along anymore. I feel like we both have changed and don't know what to do. I recently moved out because I'm tired of the fighting. I love him but I can't handle the fighting anymore. Do I let go of the relationship after 4 years or do I stay in the relationship and try to work it out one more time? I am 20 years old and female and the guy I have been dating as been my high school crush.
The Simplest Solution to the Question is What is more Important the Person or the Argument.
You will find all solutions if you learn to let go off things and stop arguing keeping aside your ego.
The age is to tender to allow all this but if you still hang on him and you feel you carry the feelings and can make a good couple you need to rest your ego and confess to him that you need him.
The change in your behavior will ultimately lead to a change in his and you shall find a happy living for sure.
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I am 17 years and i am in a relationship with a 25 year old. We have been in and out of the relationship since i was 15.We were both virgins and after dating for sonetime we had sex. I was 15 that time.He has been a good boyfriend but i sometimes dont trust him. He is too kind to everyone...including his exs..when i am finished talking to him at nights he would still be up texting...i would see his last seen is 3 in the morning. I never told him about it because i am afraid he would be mad. He told me though that he thinks it is unfair to be with more than one person. I want to believe him but during our break up he was sexting other girls and he indirectly mentioned it to me.so i am thinking that this or these girls and him still talk.
Open up speak up share your thoughts ask direct questions and clarify your doubts with your boy.
He understands you well n is by now matured at age too. If he is serious about you n you too share the same feel...then speak up he will understand dont let this suspision create a virtual wall between you 'll and ultimately burst n erupt like lava.
Discuss your worries there is too much left for ur relation in terms of age carrier health etc
Do not waste your age worrying n spying just go n aks..
Regards
Dhaval Sarvaiya
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I work with this lady in the restaurant all indication that she's single the positive sign that she's attracted is there whenever I talk to her a.k.a boyfriend never comes up but it seems something is holding me back I hear she's gotta boyfriend if you do that is the last thing that I would ever wanna get in the middle I've been in the restaurant for almost 5 years not ones or ever that I have ever dated or hangout so she knows I am real I've learn ."patient .challege. Self control" is a must question is should i ask her out or just let it be I know I am gonna ask her out but the fear of I have a boyfriend just seems to get in the way
There is truely nothin much to say
Go and confess and let her decide !!
An inititive from your end is a must you cannot just wait and watch for a miracle to happen
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21/f
I met this guy a couple of weeks ago. We flirted, hung out a couple of times, and hit it off. We texted every day since we met and he confessed that he liked me and wanted to see how things progressed with us. We ended up making out and talked about possibly doing more in the future.
All this time, he denied having a girlfriend. I know how guys can be, so I asked him (more than once) if he was single. He assured me he was.
Turns out he lied. I got a tip from someone on Facebook that he'd been lying to me and had a girlfriend, and even showed me a snapshot of the girl's profile, where her default pic is one of the two of them, posted just a few days ago. The message was anonymous; the profile looked very obviously fake, so I have no idea who it was that messaged me or how he/she found me or WHY he/she felt the need to tell me instead of the girlfriend. All I know is that they haven't told her and are not planning to. It's odd that they'd tell me instead of her so I have this sneaking suspicion that the "anonymous tip" came from a friend of mine... but that's irrelevant.
Point is, I ended up telling the guy off the next day and completely cut contact with him. But now I'm left wondering, should I tell the girlfriend? I don't want to get involved. I only knew the guy for a couple of weeks and I don't know anything about their relationship. I'm not one for drama and I don't want this to be my problem, which it will be if I say something. I don't know the girl at all, all I know is her facebook page. We don't have any mutual friends, nothing. It would just be her getting a message from a stranger telling her that she made out with her boyfriend. She may not even believe me. And whether she does or she doesn't, you can bet the guy won't be happy about it at all and might even try to get back at me somehow for ruining his relationship - which, again, I don't want to get in the middle of. Their relationship is none of my business; HE'S none of my business.
I feel like I have every reason to just keep my mouth shut and forget about it, but it all comes back to ONE important fact: If I were her, I'd want to know. She's probably all happy with him thinking she has this super nice boyfriend, but her super nice boyfriend was taking ME out on dates, DENYING her existence, wanting to hang out with me, HOOK UP with me, saying he liked me...
I'm not a bitter person. I'm not a vengeful person. I'm annoyed that I got played, but I don't feel the need to get back at him on my own behalf (though I know I have every right to). If anything, all I want to do for my sake is NOT tell. But it's not about me. It's not about him. It's about this girl who's getting cheated on and he shouldn't get away with it just because the girl he chose to cheat with is too "nice" to do anything about it. Am I wrong?
What should I do? I honestly can't decide. Even if I did tell her, how should I go about it? How do you even tell someone something like that, especially when you don't know each other at all? Help?
It depends what was your relationship with him and how you take him as a person.
You never know what made him leave a strong relation and made him come out of it and come to you. Do not be Judgmental and keep things to you and ask such questions publicly, before doing so clarify with the person that I have evidences of your past ask him to give an explanation and if he is able to justify things truthfully and you are convincingly satisfied there is nothing better than that.
But it again depends on you your intentions what is it that you are currently feeling is there are feeling of hatred , love, jealousy, revenge , it all depends on what you are feeling is what you will end up doing.
What is it that you most want to do right now,
are you upset with the lies??
do u pitty the girl??
do u want to continue relation inspite of knowing facts??
are you angry or jealous??
do you wanna take reveng with the boy??
all the answers are within you..
if you open what you feeling I can help you more with solutions , but the first thing is to clarify with the boy that you have received such a message and let him explain what is it all about..
I am available at dhavalrsarvaiya@gmail.com
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