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My bestfriend introduced me to her best guy friend he told her she must give his number to me the next day we decided to meet each other..we were at his house with friends and then we ended up being alone,we were talking getting to know eachother bt then we kissed and ended up having sex...afta that everything was fine between us..i then told mx best friend what happend and that we slept together I was so shocked cause it happend unexpectedly and i just met him i then didnt hear from him for a few days so i decided to text him only to find out he deletd my number cause he asked "who's this" i then tld hm and he was so shocked and then did nt respond again,then two days later i textd hm and he asked me if why did i tell my bestfriend that we slept together i then told hm that i didnt and he told me "dont talk crap she told me" i then didnt knw what to do and i ddnt wana lie so i admitted that i did tell her i then told hm that i did tell her cause i ddnt knw what to do i just met him and i slept with him and i know his angry and sorry wont fix it he then didnt reply,i textd hm again today bt i just said hs name and then once again he asked who 's this and ths time i told him to figure it out its the person he stopped replying to he then replied saying "well i cant figure things out now" i t.gen said is that how quickly he forgotten,sorry i wasted hs time he read but never replied after that..i told my best friend what happend and she says he has moods i must leave him and let him come right..thing is hs the 1st guy i met after getting over my ex boyfriend..i knw i just met him but i came to the point of liking him and wanting to get to know him furthe but now i dont know what to do cause i really wna see him again mayb its my fault cause i gave in too quick but i was stl gtn over my ex and it just felt nice to be with someone again laugh cuddle etc even though we just met..please help me out here i really want a chance with this guy i want totalk and see him again is there anything i can do to fix it..what did i do wrong,why is he acting so,why dont he want to answer my msgs is he still angry or what..please help me please i feel like i wasted hs time i dnt want to msg hm again cause i dont want to seem desperate which im not,i just want a chance with him,
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It was not your fault, it was never your fault. Things happen for a reason. It's understandable why you're in this dilemma and i won't judge you for what you've done.The only thing I can advice you is to understand the guy, he may be undergoing some trials and needed to sort things out for himself. As a woman, you should never go chasing a guy it would suffocate him and push him to go further away. STOP! And the moment he starts to notice that you're no longer texting him or bothering him, he would be missing it all together. As the saying goes,if you love someone set them free, if it comes back to you, it was meant to be. I know the impulse to reach him is so strong and thinking about him is inevitable.You may think that it's love but have you considered that you were just lonely? Tired of being left alone with nobody to comfort you. Try to compensate this loneliness by going out with friends, having a new hobby or engaging in sports. You're still young and life has so many surprises left to be unfold. One take away I can give you from your story is this: "One day someone will be 100% honest with you, and will love you forever, Don't give up trying to find them, they're looking for you too."
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SHIT HAPPENS!
Do not repel over what has happened and if you think you are as much at fault he himself must be more at fault.
just move forward.
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He's an ass. You can't fix the fact he's an ass.
Why do you want a chance with him? You just met him. This is when people are supposed to be on their best behavior! If him ignoring you, belittingly you, judging you and blaming you is him on his best behavoir—shit, what is this guy gonna be like when he's in a really bad mood?
All you did was TALK TO YOUR BEST FRIEND. That's not at all wrong. He's treating you like you ran over his dog. What. An. Ass.
Of course it feels nice to be cuddling and close to someone, but don't make the mistake of thinking because that felt nice, means that person is nice. This person is not nice. This person sounds freaky mean. I'd want to stay far away from them.
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