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Is she interested or she's about to break up with the boyfriend
I work with this lady in the restaurant all indication that she's single the positive sign that she's attracted is there whenever I talk to her a.k.a boyfriend never comes up but it seems something is holding me back I hear she's gotta boyfriend if you do that is the last thing that I would ever wanna get in the middle I've been in the restaurant for almost 5 years not ones or ever that I have ever dated or hangout so she knows I am real I've learn ."patient .challege. Self control" is a must question is should i ask her out or just let it be I know I am gonna ask her out but the fear of I have a boyfriend just seems to get in the way
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There is truely nothin much to say
Go and confess and let her decide !!
An inititive from your end is a must you cannot just wait and watch for a miracle to happen
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As awkward as you may think it is, from what I've learned watching video's of the dating experts on line, it makes the best sense to just come out and ask while at same time explaining why you ask if she's not attached. So in your own words, the best thing you can do is say something like: I don't mean to intrude or be nosy, but I am wondering if you or single or dating someone right now since I am attracted and would like to date you.
I have gals writing all the time who have been asked by two guys at same time. this kind of thing happens in life, especially when the female is more attractive due to her self confidence, she's likely to get several offers to date. So there's no way to ask and not explain without seeming a nosy person or at least getting a female curious as to why you ask. With older people, sometimes the guy looks first for a wedding band but that doesnt take into account single women who never married or are divorced. To ask if one is single as in married or not as most paper forms want to know, could be misleading since she may be single (not married) but have a boyfriend. Better to ask if she's in a relationship. Good luck
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Clearly, you want to ask her out.
So just do it. If she has a boyfriend (or, if she simply doesn't want to date you) you'll find out quickly.
I don't know what you are waiting for. You think she might be single, or at least, you think she might be available - so go find out if you are right.
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Well you could try to do more research on her. Like ask some people, look her up on Facebook or something like that. You could also try casually bringing it up. Like slipping in the boyfriend card in conversations. Like, "what's your boyfriend like?" Or something like that. If all else fails, you could just ask her anyway. No better time than now, and if you really want, then just go for it.
Hope this helps~
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