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my friend emily is totally in love with this guy named... matt. matt is like the epitome of american hottness, with tan skin, blue jeans, blond hair and blue eyes. she is infatutated with him, and has sent him valentines and everything, BUT has not asked him out yet. i am getting sick of hearing sighing and giggling over him from emily, especially since i like love him too, but only for a shorter time than hera nd i haven't sent any valentines or anything, considering itz april now. emily doesnt know that i like matt too, and i dont want her to get all freaked out at me. not to be mean either, but i so think that he would be so more likely to go out w/ me and not her, but i am so afraid of asking him out since emily is one of my best friendz.
okay i know this is not something you want to hear
but leave him
you cant like someone your friend had her eye on first
and from how it sounds she seems to completely like him and if she finds out you will like him you will probably end up fighting and it will be hard for her to firgive you
and when you said " not being mean either"
well actually you were and it kind of sounded like you were getting a little vain there
He says the sweetest things,
Treats me like his princessess,
Doesnt need an occasion to give me a gift,
risks alot jus to talk to me,
respects alot of my desciosns towrads him and things we shouldnt do,
never pressures me,
changed himself fully for me,
doesnt try to act all macho infront of his friends hes the same with me both ways...
But the thing is..
When he said he loved me i didnt return the words back to him i dont feel tht strongely yet and he said he could wait not knowing ifit hurt him or not should i be worried tht he mite not care? its always on my mind that he might be facking all that he does for some reason to try to make me trust him and i might get screwed over i mean shouldnt he feel a lil sad tht i didnt say it back? or does it mean he does love me because he isnt pressuring me to say it to him? im confused..thx
this guy sounds great i think he understands that you dont want to tell him that you love him and not meen it and that hes glad that you were honest with him and it looks to me in he does love you and cares
So theres this guy I really like named Adrian.
Hes wicked funny and nice.
We talk all the time and share some of the same intrest.
But anyway..
yesterday he told me that we could only be friends and we will never be more.
That I shouldn't like him anyway cause
I need someone who is nice,happy, and cool.
But even though he says he doesnt like me
he still acts like he does.
Like in Chorus he looks over at me all the time
&& he flirts with me and ughh
I dont know what to think,
im so confuseedd.
HELP PLEASE!
Thanksss :]
well maybe he just isnt ready to tell you how he feels yet or he doesnt want a relationshipt at the moment but if its really bugging you then why dont you just talk to him and ask him say something like ive been realising some stuff but i dont know maybe im wrong he will have to ask you what stuff just say some stuff you realise and talk it over there i hope i helped and tell me how it goes good luck! xxxx
I am in love with this guy. And he feels the same toward me. However, he is better than me in every way. He's smarter, better-looking, and so on. This makes me feel inferior and insecure. I feel I'm not worthy of his love. I feel extremely small when I'm with him. I wish I could be as intelligent as him in order to be more worthy of his love. I hate myself. I hate my shortcomings. My biggest fear is that he would abandon me because of the fact I'm not as great as him. As a genius, he has every reason to despise me. He outshines me in every area. Whenever I detect a tiny sign that he might ignore/hate me, I feel like dying. Because of these, I'm not myself when I'm with this guy. I care TOO much about how he thinks of me. I appear very nervous, hypersensitive, and stupid. And this makes things worse. I am over-conscious about every word I say to him. I fear something I say would sound silly according to him and that he would despise me. I feel I'm just a silly little girl in his eyes. I know in fact he loves me. But I can never enjoy his love because of my feeling of inadequacy. I feel I need to be a much, much better person to deserve his love. I always try to be smarter so as to be "equal" to him, yet only end up making a fool of myself. This drives me crazy. What can I do now?
Like you said he loves you right so if he really does then he wont leave you for any kind of reason just relax around him and yes i no that its not easy or simple and no you dont need to be equal to him everyone is diffrent from each other just accept that your not like him but he likes you for who you are and never think your not like him sure your not exactly but that doesnt meen your less in any way i hope i helped and good luck with this guy xx
There's this guy I like and anytime he talks to another girl I get absolutely jealous. We're not going out, and I know I can't really do anything about it..but does anyone have any suggestions on how to limit my jealousy?
keep in mind that your a great girl and why wouldnt he like you and that your pretty and smart etc just find out all the good qualities about you im sure theres lots and just think of them when he talks to another girl :)
ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 or 5 months now. And like all my friends say he loves me soooooooooo mcuh, and i feel the same way. He is sooo sweeeeett to me, but like when in 6th hour i have alot of friends in there and he doens't really have nay in that class, except me, and he flirts with me all the time when im with my friends, but like when hes with his friends, he just totally ignores me, like he will look at me then walk away, and i feel like h doesn't wanna be around me. A few ppl said i should get rid of him because i don't deserve to be treated like that, but would talking about it to him help? And if so, what would i say? and like other night i wanted to cry because we went to a football game together, and i only got to talk to him once because he left me for his friends. And like i would feel stuped if i was crying over that, cause what if we did start talking about it and i started to cry....just help me!
never cr over any guy trust me there not worth and yeah i now that its hard not to because sometimes i want to but i dont yeah you should talk to him about it and ask him why he leaves you and goes of and tell him you dont like it when he ignores you and dont feel stupid if you cry over that everyone cries for different reasons i hope i helped if you ever need my advice again then my emails on my page good luck xxx
Ok so my dad started dating this chick and after a couple months she moved in well to make a long story short she moved out and her son was still living with us and is still but they were broke up so..after a while and other stuff i had end up having sex with her son multipule times and me and him are like i dont know what you'd consiter us. But i really love him like alot and i cant stand not being around him but the problem is that he says he has feelings for me but then its like he goes out on the weekends and hooks up with all these chicks and i thinking like is he just using me bcuz im conveniant because i live with him or does he really care about me. Like i asked him i was like are you just using me hes like no and then hes like why are you using me or something...i was like ehh no. But the thing is like when i mention bout the other girls hes like naw your different. I have no clue because i love him but i just dont know what to do because he gets with alot of girls but its not like i cant just not talk to him i mean he lives with me and i love this boy like none other. And its like when im around him and things are going to happen i cant stop myself to say anything i just go for it because i fell so strongly bout him if that makes any sence.Then when i hear hes been talking to some chicks it breaks my heart thinking hes probably trying to fuck them.
tell him that it hurts you when he goes off with other girls and personally i think that if he carries on with those girls then hes just a player and hes saying stuff to you that he doesnt meen but if you trust him enough and no that he loves you and if you dont mind him with those girls then carry on the relationship if you like
i met a guy 4yrs back he was 2yrs senior 2 me nd ever since i like him.earlier he dnt show much intrest in me but recently he found out my id nd sent me a mail saying that he's been miserable without me .do u thnk he likes me?
i am from india
yeha yeha of course he does if hes miserable without yew then of course gd luck hun :D
i've been going out with guy for a long time. too long actually. let me tell you, he's a good guy but i think its time we break up. im planning on calling him this weekend to deal the news and i cant think of what im really going to say. like i dont want to be harsh. i want him to know that i will miss him and i want to be friends. but i cant just say that because i want it to be more passionate. and im not very smart when it coems to things like that.
help please!
like she said do it face to face no matter how hard it is maybe put your words caring but not like you still want him to be your boyfriend tell him it was great and that you really want to be friends with him and that its better of that way and that theres so many other girls out there other than you! hope i helped and good luck!
Hi. If it helps, I'm 15/f. Ok, I'm not going to beat around the bush, I think I might be gay or bi. Lately, I have found myself wanting to be with a girl more than with a guy. Today, I was at the waterpark with a friend, and I checked out almost every pretty girl I saw. Now, honestly, I don't know if it is because I might be gay, or because I find myself wanting to be a lot like them. I'm not the prettiest girl ever, and I'm not celebrity skinny. I do have some meat on my bones, but I'm not huge. Also, there is this girl at my school who just graduated. We were friends, and she was also gay. We played softball together for 2 years. I found myself wanting to be with her more and more everyday. I have had this 'crush' on her for as long as we have known each other. First, it started out with her looks, but I as I got to know her, it became stronger. I haven't had a real 'crush' on a guy since then. I don't really find any boys that attractive any more, but I find myself checking out girls more and more often. Could someone please help me, and with the information I have given, tell me what you might think it is?
i think that you have an attraction to her really strongly but then again if you want to now if your really bi or gay maybe try checking out guys aswell and if you do become bi dont be ashamed of it or anything like that and if she is still gay then give it a shot and see how it all turns out i hope i helped and i tried :D
my ex bf knows i still like him so he trys to run my life like he tells me wat i can do and when i can do it he yells at me when i flirt with another guy he tells me who i can hang out with and i dont know what to do and ive talked to him and when i get mad cuz he flirts with this girl named jerry he tells me it aint my business so i was just wondering wat would u do if this happened to you?
i think that when u flirt wiv other guys and he tells you not to tell him your gonna do what u want and like and that its none of his business dnt say it in a rude way though hope this helpsxx
My friend Amber and i have a crush on the same guy. I love Amber to death and everything but i really like this guy. Amber and him compeltely flirt and i dont want to tell her i like him because i wouldn't be able to stand having her mad at me. I dont want me liking her to influence her to not go out with him because im all for their happiness together. People say he's just a big flirt get over him but when i talk to him i get happy inside. In chorus he actually acknoledged my piano playing which no one else does. He ran up to me and started singing with me. I just dont know what to do.
me and my best friend are like that we like the same guys but we both agree to not go out with them because it wouldnt be fair really and i now u dont want your friend to get mad at you so just nicely talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you dont want her to be upset with you over a boy adn i think both of you should forget about him
i'm 17, and i like this guy who is 27. usually i like guys who are within my age range.. but i suppose you can't help who you fall for. he's very quiet and seems very lonely.. hes doing law so he spends a lot of time studying and doesn't go out too much. he always jumps at the opportunity to speak to me when we see each other. well, i'm not sure what to do about this. 17 is legal for consent and all where i live (so its not a legality thing) but i guess it does sound kinda bad that hes 10 years older than me. i'm wondering whether i should just try and forget about him or whether i should try for this. i don't really care about age, but he might feel differently, and society always views these kind of things as unacceptable. so just curious what everyone thinks of the age gap, and whether it's worth pursuing or not.....?
thanks.
i had this problem aswell but i couldnt go out wiht him because it was illegal but in your case seeing as its not i think you should give it a shot try speaking with him and see maybe he likes you aswell adn i dont think age matters love is love and that doesnt change
first of all sorry this is so long!!!
i really like boys to answer this cause they know how other boys are thinking cause boys are a soo weird sometimes :-)
well i really really like this guy and uhm lets call him D :-) so i am a new kid in this school (i kinda really hate) but never mind that! uhm so i really often looked at D but not because i liked him or something just because he was interesting and always so funny and hyper so i think he took it like she loves me or something! and then once he talked to me and well then i started to like him but i was really shocked and answered weird when he asked me something and he was like: why are you so mean to me? so than he asked me if we should be friends or something and then he got interrupted and than my busstop (this whole conversation was on the bus :-) came so i never answered that question! then i kinda ignored him even if i loved him and then he told me he loves me and i was so shocked i was like: uhm 2 bad! or something AAHH i felt really bad than so i called him about 3 weeks later because im just shy with boys! and i said im sorry and all he said was like: uhuh or yeah and since than he always ignored me and sometimes he looks at me but only when im not looking (but hes not smyling or anything)and i dont know what to do anymore! i wanna talk to him but im scared that he wont answer again and everything! and by the way does he still like me? what is he thinking? cause i know he really loved me once you could see it the way he smiled at me....... and is he like over me now or something? hes always ignoring me and that hurts! but i really love him! what is he thinking????
firtly you shouldnt have replied by saying to bad like you did when he said he loved you if you loved him you should have said i think the best thing to do is to talk to him start up a conversation tell him you think hes avoiding you and then tell him what you said was a mistake and that your just shy and you love him a lot!!
Hello. Well my boyfriend dumped me, we went out for 3 months. And he stares at me in class and i try not to give him the satisfaction of glaring back at him..But i still love him..Last week my friend was talking to him and shes like "Well everyone has a girlfriend except you..so maybe you and Ana..." (Im Ana) and before she could finish he straight away goes "No" and then she goes "But.." and hes like "NO". And my friend thinks that he still likes me but is too ashamed to tell anyone..i need help because ive been really sad lately. I cant ask him straight up if he likes me or not because im scared and i dont want to face embarrasment.
Thanks, Ana
i really advise you to go up to him when hes alone and so are you and ask how hes been and calmly ask him why he left you and what went wrong and ask him if he still has any feeling for you or not and tell him to be honest and straight forward