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Ok so my dad started dating this chick and after a couple months she moved in well to make a long story short she moved out and her son was still living with us and is still but they were broke up so..after a while and other stuff i had end up having sex with her son multipule times and me and him are like i dont know what you'd consiter us. But i really love him like alot and i cant stand not being around him but the problem is that he says he has feelings for me but then its like he goes out on the weekends and hooks up with all these chicks and i thinking like is he just using me bcuz im conveniant because i live with him or does he really care about me. Like i asked him i was like are you just using me hes like no and then hes like why are you using me or something...i was like ehh no. But the thing is like when i mention bout the other girls hes like naw your different. I have no clue because i love him but i just dont know what to do because he gets with alot of girls but its not like i cant just not talk to him i mean he lives with me and i love this boy like none other. And its like when im around him and things are going to happen i cant stop myself to say anything i just go for it because i fell so strongly bout him if that makes any sence.Then when i hear hes been talking to some chicks it breaks my heart thinking hes probably trying to fuck them.
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Oh wow!
Break it off. Stop doing it with him. if he wants you he'll have to committ to you. its as simple as that. no im just kidding i realize that its so much more than that you're in love. we'll you'll just have to go off and break the rule two wrongs dont make a right. go off and flirt with guys. find one that wont cheat on you. if that doesnt work, at least it will show the son guy that you are good enough for other guys and that if he doesn thold on tight he's going to loose an awsome girl.
hope this helps good luck
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That must hurt a lot.
Honestly though, the guy seems like a jerk and there is a very good chance that he might be using you. He does have one thing right though, he said you're different and you are. You don't have to take this bull from him, you deserve to be with someone who treats you with as much as love and respect as you give him.
You need to talk to him and tell him you're not putting up with him partying like crazy anymore. Ask him to decide between you and his crazy sexedup lifestyle. He might choose you but there's a probability that he won't and if that's the case, you should move on and find someone deserving.
Good luck.
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I'm assuming that by "hooking up" you mean doing sexual things with. If you don't mean that and he's just hanging out with other girls, suck it up. He can have other friends. If I was right and he's actually getting intimate with other girls you need to set an ultimatum for him. You don't want to be with him if he's lying to you and doesn't really care about you, do you? It'll just be more heartache in the end. The ultimatum is this: you're either going to be with me or you're not - stop hooking up with other girls or I'm not going to be intimate in any way with you anymore. You need to follow through with that too. If you find out he hooked up with another girl, there's no way he cares about you as much as he claims to and you need to move on and not give in to the urges you may have to have sex with him, or anything for that matter. You can still be friendly with him, just take away the sex. I know this kind of thing is hard to do when you like someone as much as you like him, but the pain you feel from not being with him is going to be much less than the pain you would feel if you stayed with him. Good luck.
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tell him that it hurts you when he goes off with other girls and personally i think that if he carries on with those girls then hes just a player and hes saying stuff to you that he doesnt meen but if you trust him enough and no that he loves you and if you dont mind him with those girls then carry on the relationship if you like
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hi honey.
he may be trying to get with you because your convenient but if he really lvoes you then ask him to stop hanging around these other girls. if he doesnt and you feel like you cant trust him then it nay break the realationship-trust me i know- but if you know that you cant trust him then the realationship isnt worth it/ my bf and i broke up less then a week ago and it still hurts to breathe. youll be fine honey but if he is trying to get with other girls he really isnt worth it.
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