im just your average teen who has been through almost everything. ask nething personal or stupid it doesnt matter.
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Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...??????? (link)
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wow this is crazy. i was in this exact position as u. and *this is creepy* his name was manuel. lol well we broke up last october & we still talk & everything & every once in awhile well still kiss. & to this day i still love him with all my heart. i member hed come over & wed kiss & be all over each other then when hed leave hed be like k im gonna go over to my friends house ( which always was an ex gf)& i always cried but i loved him so much id let him get away with it. & it happened over & over again. now hes moving to florida & to this day i have never said goodbye to him. just the other nite it kicked in that he was leavin & i cried all nite even though im datin this other guy. alot of his friends would tell me that he liks me still & stuff. see manuel was a big player. when he had a gf it was 2 weeks max, but when we were together it was for like 3 months,so everyone knew that he truely loved me. i still am not over him & i really dont know wut to think. all i really know is that we loved each other but bc of *someone* we broke up. idk if i answered ur question but ur not alone. and its gonna take awhile to get over him just surround ur self with friends and get a new bf it does help sum. good luck
kristi
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what does it mean when you ask someone what's their sign?{{try to be descriptive please}} (link)
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when some one asks whats ur sign.. they want to know ur astrological sign thing, like say for instance, im a gemini..this "line" is also one of the cheesiest pick up lines out there. lol so unless this guy is abercromie cute just ignore him. lol
kristi
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There is a guy I like his name is PJ but Im not sure If he likes me.WE hang out together we share snacks we are both afraid to go off the highdive and we always want to sit next to eachother are we better off as friends or should I start flirting more?? (link)
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well just bc u guys have alot in common doesnt mean u shoud go out. try flirting alittle and if he flirts back then maybe he has feelings for u. dont over do it, that way it wont get weird and if nothing happens u 2 will still be good friends. alot of times guys flirt on accident. like when a guy hugs a girl sumtimes its just a firnedly hug but to us girls it likes " omg he likes me" so just be carful and im sure everything will be great!! good luck
kristi
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i'm a girl and i want this guy to be my boyfriend..what do i do?
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well chick u need to get to know him better and hang out with each other in groups first then after awhile ask if he wants to go somewhere together. take it slow with him, dont rush things cuz it may not be meant to be. flirt with him but not obsessivly.good luck!!
kristi
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well i like this guy, we go to church together but that thing is that i told him that i liked him but he doesn't liked me, but even know i know he doesn't like me i can't get over him i have try so badly but i can't and we still friends, but i really love him and i need a advice of how can i get over him (link)
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well ive gone through something like this.
i liked this one guy collin like forever but hes always been on and off with my friend. i just hung out with my friends alot and went out with different guys, then eventually i got over him, now collin and me are best friends. trust me everything will work out for the best...
kristi
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ok i had sex, ok well i tryed to have sex with my boyfriend and i love him so much and he loves me, i mean he said he wasnt mad or anything but it hurt! so i had to make him stop, how many times is this goin to hurt?! kuz i really wana do it with him. he said it wasnt my fault and it was ok but still! i mean come on ,so how long do u think it will hurt before we can do it? plz help lol* thanks (link)
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well the first few times it hurts and gradually the pain goes away. but by havin him finger you by starting with one finger then go up to two then three if u can. that will help ease the pain so it doesnt hurt as much or at all during sex
kristi
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yeah well.. i really like this kid an we are sposta play spin the bottle an 7 minz of heven an the problem is i dunno how to make-out/ french an im scurd cuz i dont want him to think imma loser cuz i dunno how to.. can someone help??
14/f/ny-verry confused
shell (link)
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hey shell well i was pretty nervous my first kiss too, but when we started to kiss everything was just rite, it all just flowed adn idk it kinda seemed like my mouth did all the work fo rme i didnt really think bout it, i just relaxed and made out lol. good luck chick
kristi
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my name is katie i am 14 almost 15 i like this boy named tony and he has hurt me 3 times and everyone tells me that i need to move on but i really cant do it because i like him to much to lose him!!! and i just dont know what to do i mean he is a really sweet kid!!! i mean he has had so much goin on in his life like his dad just die and he just got hit by a car!! and i just dont know what to do because i dont want what to do because i dont want to get hurt anymore but he means the world to me!! please some one help me i need some advice on what to do !!!! thanks if u can help me (link)
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ok well i have sumthing just like this happen to me. i was going out with this guy manuel and we went out for a few months. he was my first for everything & i mean everything*except kissing*
he was the perfect boyfriend and i was absolutely in love with him. but then when we broke up i was totally depressed for like 2 months.. i didnt know wut to do. we were still friends and i guess he still liked me. but i know how ur feeling and he tried to get back with me a fwe times but i was so scared of being hurt again. i had never felt pain like that before and i didnt htink i could make it through another episode of that. so i just told him i couldnt go back out with him and we talked for hours about it. i basically told him wut i just said to u but in detail. the point is if he hurts u once hes bound to do it again, save urself the tears
kristi
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ive been goin out /w this guy 2 weeks exactly. were kissed b 4, and weve held hands god nows how many times, and we went 2 the movies yesterday and he had his hand around me and i have my head on his shoulder. that basically shows you how close we are. i just got out of school for 3 months. i gave him my phone # in his yearbook. i still feel strange about calling him though. and i dont now why. do i call him or wait for him to call me?
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call him. a guy likes a girl who is not afraid of makin a " move " like this. i know it hard that first call and when its ringing ull feel sick, but as soon as u start talkin itll be fine. just ask wut hes doin this summer and just make small talk type stuff. itll be fine after the first call trust me. then after that hell start callin u. hes prbably just feeling the same way soo u mine as well be the first one to call..
luv kristi
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wow! this friday i lost my cell phone..and i went a lil crazi..i was at a teennight place (which is a place where u met ppl and dance and shyt like that) and i was askin every1 if they saw my phone and i asked this one realli hot guy and i was like heyyy do u have my phone..and he was like no and i was like are u sure???...and he was like u can check me and i was like ok so i lifted up his shirt..OMG He has a 6pac.. (link)
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no u r not a slut. trust me ive been in a position like this before, im not sure if this will work but i told my boyfriend the truth. at first he really freaked out and gave me the silent treatment for a few days. but in the end it all worked out. we talked it out, and if he truly cares for u then hell forgive u.but on the other hand, this could be a sign that ur not completely happy with ur current boyfriend
luv kristi
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