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advice

My best friend and I are both girls and I'm 14 and she's 13. We have experimented 3 times and we've liked it each time(nothing below the belt). On one day she says she wants a boyfriend really bad,then other days she says that she wishes she could be with me and life would be so much easier and i'm the only one who listens to her seriously and cares and truly understands.I feels she very insecure about her liking for me because she feels God won't love us becuase she's sinning and that her parents will not except her anymore. Her parents barely except her now and they really don't take her seriously and they really don't trust her with the simpliest things. I wonder if she really wants to be with me because she would believe that our love for each other can't stop God from loving us and our love can conquer over her parents. Also on some days she made a strong statement that she wants to find her partner in life thats a man. She would only go for woman if they were the last human species on earth. I thought that was harsh and cold blooded because every time we experimented we never thought about any males while we were being affectionate to each other. I know for sure i'm bisexual and i'm comfortable with that, but the way my best friend talks it seems like she's confused big time about herself. I'm wondering if i should talk to her about it or she just needs to figure it out on her own. I'm ready to talk to her about it, but i want a second option on what I should do.

i think you should give her time and respect what ever her feelings are. im also a christian and know thats a sin so if it were me i would just want some time to think thourgh. good luck hope i helped

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Hey!

I dont know if i like a person or if i dont what should i do?

try hanging out with him more and see how you feel. youll know if you like him once you get to know him
hope i helped!*brookie*

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how do you ask a guy to be your boyfirned? i mean im old fashioned and i dont think me, being a girl, should ask him, because hes a guy. i mean i dont wanna screw it up because i like him ALOT, i think about him all the time, but my friend, whos like his best friend, he just said that i should either ask him out or not like him at all, which is making alot of sense, but im too scared. how should i do it?

talk to your friends to ask him if he likes you. and also just notice how he acts around you. if hes always looking at you or making an effort to talk to you or flirt with you maybe thats a hint! hope it works out

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Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers.

i just think hes too shy to come talk to you in person... if he didnt wanna talk to you then he would ingore you online. so i say just make the first move!!

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I like this guy who's quite weird. People calls him a nerd. He seems so quiet, aloof, shy but incredibly smart. I didn't get to talk to him often, but when he talks to me, i notice that his voice goes soft. Other times when we were discussing a project in a group, he either seems bored, brash, flustered or really egoistical. He seldom talks to people in class in the past, but recently he seems happier. He seems to dislike me at first, either ignoring me or giving sarcastic coments just like he does most people, but now he seems to talk to me a bit. Then the other day he suddently comes around and calls my name and calls me his sweetheart. What does that mean? Does he like me or was he just joking?

yeah i think he likes you from all that... if he singles you out and treats you better than everyone else then i think he likes you

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Hey everyone,

Ok heres the problem...my neighbor is the hottest thing, hes a redneck about 15. And i really like him. We were friends when we were younger but his parents got divorced and now he comes down here on the weekends. There was never anything like sexual tension between us until now. But the pathedic part about this I havn't talked to him. i am super nervous and afraid. Of what? I guess rejection. What should I do? I wanna see where we could go? Please help...
BTW: 14 in April : Female

spend more time with him and flirt so that he can get the message that you like him. hope i helped!

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Okay.My boyfriend told one of my best friends that he doesnt like me anymore so she can tell me. When I got online she told me and I was really mad. I was mad because all of my friends were telling me to break up with him because he didnt treat me right. He didnt know how to be a boyfriend and plus he was prude. He always told me that he loved me and he would never break up with me but look now he told her he didnt like me
anymore. Im so mad at my self that I didnt listen to my friends before. I didnt want to belive them. Now I`m hurt and I dont know what to do. I dont wanna talk to him and let him know I`m sad or anything. So .. do you think he ever liked me or that he just said he did? Im so confused and hurt. Please help! I rate 5's!

boys are such jerks. if he feels like this fine his lose but dont let it get you down. and if he cant even tell you to your face hes breaking up with you or give you an explanation hes not worth it. your too good for him. hope i helped!
*brookie*

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There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?

aww! he probably likes you but is just too nervous to talk to you in person- its so much easier to talk on aim because you dont have to worry about how you look. i say you make the first move- dont be shy- because if he didnt like you he wouldnt talk to you on aim- so take a breath walk up to him and say hey but be sure you have some ice breaker like any gossip or something haha good luck hope i helped!
*bRoOkIe*

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what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do?

dont worry about it cause u arent a sophomore so you dont have to deal with them just keep going with your guy and sont worry about them

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ok i have a dance this week and my crush is gonna be there and i like him soooooo much like love him but he doenst like me only b/c he dosnt kno me and so i was wondering what should i do to make him like do a double take when he sees me? something really good... like hair too!

do this thing with you hair- where its half up half down and the up part- heres what u do..
take a hair tie see how many times you need to wrap it around your hair for it to stay
then on the last one pull just the middle and top of your pony tail thourgh but pull it towards the bottom so the other part is sticking out and it's kinda like upside down or after you get out of the shower towl dry it then flip your head over and take some mousse and scrunch it but just putting your hands that are covered in mousee on the tips and squishing it to you scalp. good luck! have fun at your dance.. much luv *_bRoOkIe_*

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I have a boyfriend, and we kiss and make out, but he never says he loves me and he never really payz attention to me when we are wit his friends. On weekends he sayz we can hang out, but then sometimes he ditchez me. Does he really love me or is he using me?

xGLAM0URx

i think he is just using u i know u dont wanna hear it but if he loves you he would stop his entire world to be with you hope i helped >brookie

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Hey,
Ok here is the info. There is this guy named Josh and last year me and him were ...... like kinda close friends and he asked me who i like so well i told him that it was him well then we started like not talking as much and well he went out with my best friend (well at the time) so i was really upset and i didn't talk to either one of them until the end of the year i stared talking to Amanda (my best friend) and now my new best friend (Kristina) and Josh are hanging out and so i don't know what to do can u help me??



~Carissa~

tell your best friends you like them. tell me how it goes from there and ill give u some more advice! haha *brookie* i.m. me if u need to-- texassoccerbabe9

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I've known my boyfriend for a little over a month, and I was just wondering, do you think it's possible to be in love in that short amount of time? Or do you think that it really takes more to be in love?

if it's love its love- look at cory and tapanga from boy meets world! haha but really i think you really can be in love- but just be careful- its a great feeling- but dont get to caught up in it for a while just in case you get hurt... best of luck to you two! much love >>brookie

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my friend jessica is going out with some guy that is 27 and shes only 12(shes been sleeping with him too)!!! my friends and i keep telling her that its considered rape and that he probably wants her just cuz of her body and just wants her for pleasure, cuz what would a guy that old want with her? we tried to explain it to her a lot, but she wont listen...what should we do?

tell someone older like your parents! this is extremly serious and you need to tell them! not only is that illegal but a 27 year old man cannot just want a 12 year old girl and be normal! something is seriously wrong with him (im not saying that your friend cant get any guys i dont even know her) but thats just messed up! please help your friend! i dont think she understands what she is getting into! much love and hope i helped >brookie

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I never know what to say when im talking to my crush. Sometimes, its akward because i would have nothing to say then it would turn out to be dead scilence. I get kinda scared about what he thinks of me because hes an outgoing guy and i only wish to be outgoing enough to fit up to his standerds. How do i bring up a good conversation without it being akward, and what if i cant think of a topic to bring up what should i do?

wow you totally described how i used to be! ok well i used to be soooo shy! but when i would talk to my crush- just start off being intersting! if theres anything funny thats happened to you or anything like that blurt it allll out- even if it is simple- thats how people talk! but if you have something in common- PERFECT starter! like my old crush- we were on the same soccer club and math class- hope i helped

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I have a really hot boyfiend thats cute,funny,nice and caring but I have the biggest feeling that he's cheating on me and I don't wanna be hurt what should I do?

ASK him! it will help! and if you think he's lying- you will be able to tell. hope i've helped much love- brookie-

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I have a boyfriend and he's really sweet, but he dosen't live near me really.There's this other guy who goes to my church & today I told him I liked him & he likes me.I'm going to tell my b/f that I really don't feel a connection between us but I feel really bad about it.And when I found out he liked me, he wrote my name in a heart on his arm...& now I'm going to break up with him!¿!
What's wrong with me!¿!Plus my friend told me to trust my gut not my heart because your gut is a gift from God. But I'm having Second thoughts.Did I do the right thing¿¿¿

i would go with the guy from your church- in the end dont you want to be happy? and your heart will tell you who you can be happy with! thats what life is about- we work hard but its all just to be happy!!! much love

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I dont know what catagoy this would fall under but, any way, here goes.
Lately I have been feeling depressed. I'm not sure why, but I'm bored with everything that was once exciting in my life. My friends, my crushes, my school work. My first term was excelent, but now all of my grades have dropped. I am so lost and I dont know what to do. I feel like I want to run away and start over new. I really need some support or help. Thanks .

i know excatly how you feel. it's tough- and but one way to help you (this wont slove the problem but will help you til things get better) but try and find something that you can go and do to help you forget about whats really going on. maybe like watching wrestling (thats what i do) or watching football even though this season is over or reading (not much fun) or a movie or even music or singing. it doesnt help you with your problem but it helps keep you from going insane- hope ive helped

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Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves..

maybe he is just so nervous around you that he dosent know what else to do! try taking the first step and see how it goes... tell me if it works! hope i've helped!
much

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hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO

take a risk! go for it gurl you liked him forever and who knows? maybe hes your guy!! so i would go for it.. and if things dont work then they dont and hopefully you can still be friends... hope i've helped! =)

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