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I keep having dreams about my ex-boyfriend.I have never seen my present boyfrend in my dreams.The more I have dreams about my ex the more I wanna get back with him.What should I do? (link)
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Well, I think that you should try to trust your instinct but try to remember why ya'll broke up in the first place and should tell you something right there.
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me and my bf are ok together (slight kissing dilema but that's not too bad) but we've run outta places to go on dates! we've been to the cinema, to town but there's no where else to go. there's no bowling places near us and we live on the other side of town from each other. any ideas of places we could go? im an almost 13 year old girl and i live in the UK. (link)
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uh...I'm not sure what all is in the UK, but I'm sure if you found a nice park or something that it would be simplicity, and just what you guys want. If you don't like that idear, then I'm sure you could find a place like a restaraunt or a hot hang out around you by looking it up on the internet. Hope I've helped.
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well i've decided to take the plung and kiss my bf! ahhhhh i'm scared! anyways, i need a plan. bearing in mind that i'll have to do it in school time (lunch or break) or on the way home from school. any ideas??? I WILL RATE U FOR THIS! (link)
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hum...well I defanitly wouldn't do it at school (especially if it's your first kiss - or his first kiss). As far as what to do, just kinda hint around that you guys should for a few days before you do it. At the moment you think is right, just look him in the eye (and kinda give him a smile) and say something sly (like you know you want to kiss me right now) and go for it gurl!! Hope it goes well!
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Hey...
This is an awkward question...but when do you start to shave"down there..?" Everyone says its not necessary but ..I am joining swim team this year as a freshman..and idk.....thanks.....(oh and im 14 gonna be 15 in october)
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If its just for swimming, I guess you can just shave what shows in your suit. It really isn't necessary, but if you feel more comfortable this way than that is better than just ignoring it and feeling bad about yourself. As far as the "age range", it's whenever you decide you want to.
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Ive been dateing this guy for three yrs and One month, Im 19/f weve always knew were gonna get married and all that stuff,but I wanna propose to him, is that wrong or somewhat stupid?
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It's totaly normal, I mean some people get skeptical about girl asking guy, but why change the individual when you could change what people think and how they are stuck in there old fashion ways. In other words, go for it! I hope I've helped.
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okay i asked a question earlier bout my girl friend cheatin on me well i went over to her house to talk and she wasnt there i went u to her room to see if she and saw her fuc**** with the same guy she looked at me and was suprised i ran out the door upset as i could be then to make matters worse that guy came out and said "guess the better guy won" and that was fighting words so i went up to him and said ur right u can have her and tuned around to leave and the guy sucker punched me so i turned around and knocked the sh** out of him.
did i do the right thing?
P.S thanks 4 helping me with my problem u dont know how much it helped (link)
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If you feel no regrets, it doesn't matter if other people feel it's the right thing. So in the end I personaly think you did the right thing. I hope I've helped some.
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my boyfriend is leaving for a year and a half. Should i wait for him or see other people? PS im 15 1/2
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If you feel like you love him and you can't live with out him, then it's probably best to wait until finding a "replacement". Other wise, you should try meeting new people and seeing new places, just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to be tied down. Hope I've helped.
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Here's a story. This boy(ron) met a girl (Becky). they became friends. Ron dated a girl who always gave him crap, so becky would always be there for him to talk to. eventualy ron broke up with his girlfriend and was completely single. He realized that he had strong feelings for becka and viceversa. But something happend and she got scared, so she tried to push him away, but he wouldnt give up on her, so he still wanted to be friends. But beyond both of there own control, they realized they were in love, but the concept of love scared and confused her to the point where she just tried to forget about them. she knew what she felt, but it was a new feeling. a genuine feeling. she didnt want to hurt ron, but she did-again. She told him that she doesnt know how to love him.-----What should he do? What should she do? What is the next step they have to take? allthough love is a little scary at times, they both know that they are right for each other no matter what anybody says. so, what should they do? should they just forget it and let each other fall into the arms of someone else? i dont think so. but you tell me what you think......"NanonymousA"
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This sounds like a guy and me (his name is cliffton). Hummm.......well it seems this "girl" needs some time to get things figured out on who she likes and who she needs. Both of you guys need to take a breather and remember that love is an action not a word. Hope I've helped.
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My boy friend andi i have been going out for a little over a month now and i dont think we are quit on the same page i mean he s a complete punk and he is bbie polar im just kinda a different of personalities i want to be punk because i could just be my self and not worry what other people think but i dont want him to think imm turning punk to copie him what do i do? (link)
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You can be yourself without having to turn punk. You can be a mixture of punk/hip hop/prep. whatever you like all in the same day. It doesn't matter what your socail group is, if you like what you like then that is your style, who knows maybe someone might like your style. Hope I've helped you out a little.
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ok im kinda in a bind here. there r these two guys that like me, and i have feelings for both of them. they both have qualities that i love and it seems like they are equal with positive and negative things. they both have these great qualities:
makes me laugh
football players
tall
tan
great personalities
just everything about them is perfect. how do i know how to choose the right one??
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Good for you girllie! I would ask myself which one I would be so in love with that I would concider marring them one day. If there's both of them then, try holding minni contests, like take them both to the movies and see which one acted more like a gentalman. Hope I've helped!
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ok how do u play hard to get? i want to learn how to play hard to get .. im a girl 14 help! (link)
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Flirt with a guy until you have him craving more. Then totaly ignore him but not to the point where he thinks your mad at him. Still talk to him and stuff but don't flirt anymore. Hope I've helped :)
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i really want a bf does ne 1 have ne advice on how i can get 1 (link)
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Try being your self around guys, that way you'll only have a guy that likes you for you. If your convensed you need one at the moment, then try flirting with guys. Make physical contact, and always look into their eyes. Hope I've helped some.
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ok i reeeally like boys lol. the thing is, all da guyz in my class like these 4 girls (2 r my friends, but all of em r pretty bitchy). i feel like i dont have a chance against them!!! around guyz im like superconfident and funny and sorta loud (*blushes* lol), but i dno if they like that kinda thing (ive only had 1 bf). im pretty and i have a lot of friends, but i dno wat im doin wrong/how 2 get guyz 2 like me (instead of the girlz they normally like)! plz help!
-B.O.Y.L.E.S.S
p.s. im 13 and goin into 8th grade. and o yea, can u give me flirtin tips 2???? i laff a lot and act like i care wat they're sayin and am confident, but is that even flirting? (link)
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Cofident is good! Normally, when your cofident and all like you say, guys feel like they can be more comfortable around you. Your chances are better when you act yourself and guys feel like they can come and trust you. As far as these other girls go, they may only like them for shallow reasons, but in the end they will see how biotchy they really are. As far as getting guys to like you instead of the biotches, just do what your doing, be confident, and yes in a way that is considered flirting. Oh and flirting tips, I suggest doing anything that has physical contact, but kinda disquise it (like reading there palm or something like that lol). Also, try taking your relations with the guys a little farther, try asking them out. Hope I've helped you a little today.
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Well ive been hurt a lot of times with guys, and i dont trust very easily. i dont usually stay with a guy very long anymore bekuz of it. i just met this guy, Cody, and i love everythin about him! hes amazing, ugh i duno what to do though. im scared, i feel like i like him to much that i shouldnt be with him or ill get hurt.... but its like should i trust him or no?? if i do and he hurts me again i dont kno what i would do, but i dont know if i should miss out on this love experiance i could have... i dont kno what to do?!? (link)
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Maybe the problem in the past is that you didn't know how to trust them so you only wanted a guy worth it. It seems to me that you have said this guy is def. worth it! Getting hurt is a part of life and love, it never feels great, but you never know, like you say there could be this great love experience waiting for you. Hope I've helped.
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ok well i really like this guy. i have liked him forever. we've even gone out b4 but things like happened and yeah... anyways the only thing wrong w/ this perfect guy is that hes well... kind of a loser. hes like weird and... well a dork. i dont have a problem w/ this generally but he acts all stupid and shit when i kno hes really not. and hes so shy that if he gets intimidated he acts likea moron. what do i do?! (link)
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You should confront him of his problem. After that, you should warn him of when he is doing it. Make sure to give him his good side too (like you mentioned he's not stupid and stuff like that). Hope I've helped you out at least a little.
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my friend who lives far away from me is cominf to visit me foR A little while and i am worried that she will start liking the guy i like too,and that he will like her back what should i do?? (link)
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If your that worried that she will pick up on your guy, then don't introduce them. If you don't want to do that, then tell her how much he means to you and how pissed you would be if anything got in the way, hopefuly, she'll get the hint! Hope I've helped you out a little.
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ok there is this kid that like really really really likes me. like im not even joking. and we went out but i decided things had changed between us so we broke up. well he still wont leave me alone he always tells me he misses me and it kills him that he cant hold me and shit. and i dont know what to say i dont miss him liek that i dont feel that strongly about him and im starting to like another guy. so should i just deal w/ this kid or tell him to back off?? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I hate when guys get all stalker-ish, especially when you have no feelings for them. I say tell him to back off because oviously if there is something wrong with him that he can't see that he's making you uncomfortable, then he needs to know to back off. Hope I've helped a little.
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ok im 14 and going to be a freshman. i really like this guy still that i went out w/ for 4 months (which is a loooong time for me) at the beging of last year. i broke up w/ him cause i found this other guy who i thought i loved he ended up screwing me over, but anyway i hurt this guy a lot when i broke up w/ him. we couldnt even talk to each other for like 3 months. now we r really close friends and we have recently admitted we like each other still. but i dont know if i should go out w/ him because... well... im afraid im going to hurt him again. i have a problem w/ comitment i guess. (link)
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I say just go for it. If your afraid of comitment, all the more reason to challenge yourself. You can't live every minute in fear because what you have done in the past. If you still like this guy, then don't hold back. Hope I've helped some.
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How do I get over a guy?!? I thought I didn't like him, so I pushed him away. Now everytime I talk to him, I think I want to be with him. idk what to do. (link)
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Try talking to him. Your probably like this because you are scared of commitment. If things go well in the future as friends, then maybe you should think about going furthur in your relationship. Whatever you do, take it slow. Hope I helped some.
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I was dating a guy for 9 months and we had sex...we broke up yesturday and he allready has another g/f. Should I regret doing that? To me it seems as if he doesn't even care what had happened between us b/c he's allready dating another girl...I'm just confused. (link)
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If you loved him and you were completely ready when you had sex then you shouldn't regret it. He might be dating another girl for the rebound. Whatever he's doing, you shouldn't regret the past, you should look forward to the future.
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