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I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou
i know exactly how you feel
hey i sit with you in the morning i have brown hair umm im stupid ugly annoying i have french with you WHO AM I..O YEAH i have this freind that never comes to school and shes guna fail wat should i do...
aww you arent stupid or uglyor annoying!!! well you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about her not coming to school and stuff, because thats a really bad choice. maybe if you talk to her about it she'll hopfully think about what shes doing and change it, but i don tthink it will work. all i know is that we need to talk to her and smack some sense into her. hope i helped. au revior
always-jamie
So there's this boy who's Catholic (Or Christian.. I forgot) and he likes me, but would it be wrong for him to date me because I'm not very religious??
no it wouldnt. as long as you like him you guys shouldnt let religion break you 2 apart. it wouldnt be wrong, trust me. hope i helped.
always-jamie
I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do?
just talk to him. ask him something or ask him about the homework besides whats he gonna do? just talk to him and see where things lead, they may end up good!
always~jamie
I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her?
ok the note thing is stupid. ask her out on valentines day that would be the cutest thing in the whole wide world!
always-jamie
I asked this girl out once before and she turned me down for another guy, but she said that she really liked me she just wanted to see if there was anything between them. They just broke up recently. I still like her. Should i give it a try?
go for it!
I have been talking ot a junior for 3 weeks. Im a freshman and we both go to the same school. He told me that he likes me and i said i liek him to i really do though but i kinda dont anymore. I dont know if i should give hima chance or what. I usuallyalways lead guys on becuause i liek them at one point then the other i dont. what should i do.
are you courtney?
I am a 17/m and i have problems talking to girls. There i admited it. Now i need help. Please give me some advice.
P.S. I will rate good for HELPFUL advice
you should just go up to them and talk to them like you do with your friends it really isnt any different. if theres a girl you like just go up to her and say hi and shit maybe crack a joke, be comfortable. thats all i gotta say. hope something works out.
always- jamie
do you think it is weird that a 17 year old is going out with a 13 year old, even if they love eachother more than anything in the world?
no ..nothings wrong with that at all.
ok this might be stupid but im going to ask anyways..me and my boyfriend have only been together for 8 days..but i know its love..its hard to explain but we've known eachother for awhile and last night i relized i was in love with him.hes my entire world..could this be love?
no sorry.its probally just one of those relationships where u break in 2 weeks or so.or if it's just your first relationship. thats pretty stupid.how can u actually love some one with in 8 days?
hey i have a boyfriend but at the movies i fell asleep on another boy behind mii boyfriends back .. is that slutty .. what do i do ?
haha no thats not slutty are u insain?
Okay, first of all, I'm 15 and a freshman in high school.
So, last year in eighth grade, this new guy came to our school and joined band (which I am in), playing the trumpet. Him being new, all the girls but me immediately jumped all over him, wanting to date him because he knows nothing of their past. Well, I decided that I wasn't going to do that. I quietly said, "Hey, what's up?" one day in the instrument room and gave him my Yahoo! IM screen name (after we talked for a while). I didn't realize that I liked him then.
Well, a few weeks after his arrival I started liking him. He's cute, sweet, and has abs to die for. And he's my age (always a plus).
Well, he didn't ask me out, and I was way too shy to ask him out. So, I lived with unrequited(sp?) love until close to the end of the year.
One day, before a band performance, we were riding around picking up various band members with our director. It was then that he told me that he'd liked me since he met me.
Well, I was sitting with my best friend one day after school, waiting for our ride, eating ice cream that we just bought from the store, when lo and behold, here comes Tyler (that's his name). Well, I decide that since I only live a block away from the school, I'll let Megan go home and I'll stay and talk to Tyler. So Tyler and I share the rest of the ice cream and start talking. Innocent things at first, and then it gets deeper. I told him more about my life than even my best friend Megan knows. And he told me all about his.
Well, somehow, we ended up making out on the picnic table. And then we got up and made out by the brick wall. Then the next day, we made out in front of the band room. Then he came to my house and we made out. And then we made out one last time by the gym. We never spoke of it again.
Now, close to a year later, I can't stop thinking about this! We never dated, even though we both wanted to. It was too close to summer and we both thought we were moving. It turns out that neither of us did, but we still haven't dated. Now I have a different boyfriend, and it's killing me that I can't stop thinking about Tyler! And Tyler and I are now close friends! What do I do about this? I still like him, but I don't know if he feels the same way! :(
just my opinion you should break up with your boyfriend if tyler is who you want to be with. then ask tyler out. i dont know, i hope i helped.
always-jamie
i really extremely am i love with my boyfriend...but I just dont know how to deal with it!! i cry out of happiness...and just being with him makes butterflies in my stomach..i try to concentrate on other things ...but all i can think about is him!!
thats cute..what advice are u asking for? just my thought it will be over one day and you'll cry and move on..it happens to everyone.
So Im really starting to develop a thing for a friend of mine, but it gets even worse than that. Im 18m shes 15f its not a huge difference but still. She also has a boyfriend putting me in an even tougher situation. Im also pretty sure she doesnt even think of me in anykind of romantic sense, even if she didnt have a bf. I really dont know what kind of advice to even ask for mostly im jsut venting and seeing what kind of comments/advice im gonna get.
you should let her know how you feel. maybe she feels the same way and probally just also thinks he wouldnt out and with me and stuff. let her know, it will make a difference. hope i helped someway.
always-jamie
ok if i tell u my age and then the age of my boyfriend you will think im a whore or sumthin gay like that.......please dont think that..........ok well im 14 and my boyfriend is 19.....i told my cousin about him and she said not to worry because she used to date older guys such as that too.....she is very trust worthy and thats y i told her......she went and told my sister(they have always been close so i dont blame her for sayin anything).....ok thats fine i really dont care....but then i found out my lil cuz knows ....(sorry if this getts confusin)...she told her mom who told my otha aunt who told my otha aunt...who then told my mom.....i have no right to be mad because im doing wrong in this....but i cant trust my family anymore .....this always happens to me....they always rat me out......and sometimes i wont even tell anybody and my friends will tell my family........who should i trust.....im mad at my family but i shouldnt be.......how can i trust my family?
just them knowing isnt wrong...also over last summer..im 14..and i dated a guy that 18 for a little while..and my mom finally found out.and she just said "u better know what your doing". dating a older guy is whorish. you can trust them by not letting them suspect anything between u and your guy and talking to your cousin about why she told your sister and stuff. i dont know. i hope i helped!
always-jamie
why are people shallow and stupid, and why would someone ask you who you like on here...seriously...such bullshit. that person should be tarred and feathered.
Stephen. the crazy kid in French.
lol i agree...either they have nothing better to do than ask a dumbass question and not say who its from or their just a dumbass lol. i love that crazy kid in french lol!