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ok if i tell u my age and then the age of my boyfriend you will think im a whore or sumthin gay like that.......please dont think that..........ok well im 14 and my boyfriend is 19.....i told my cousin about him and she said not to worry because she used to date older guys such as that too.....she is very trust worthy and thats y i told her......she went and told my sister(they have always been close so i dont blame her for sayin anything).....ok thats fine i really dont care....but then i found out my lil cuz knows ....(sorry if this getts confusin)...she told her mom who told my otha aunt who told my otha aunt...who then told my mom.....i have no right to be mad because im doing wrong in this....but i cant trust my family anymore .....this always happens to me....they always rat me out......and sometimes i wont even tell anybody and my friends will tell my family........who should i trust.....im mad at my family but i shouldnt be.......how can i trust my family?
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Ok don't worry so much. I did the same thing when I was 14 and now I realize why it was scary for my family to find out- Most guys that old who date someone over 3 years older always seem to want one thing- I am definitly not saying that's the case here because I know it wasn't with me- But as a family, they are just worried about you and your desicion making- just make sure you keep things non- suspicious between you two and everything will go great! And whenever you feel as though you can't trust your family, remember to tell yourself that the last thing they want to do is hurt you or see you hurt. it sounds like they are just concerned which is what families do best. Have a wonderful day!
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just them knowing isnt wrong...also over last summer..im 14..and i dated a guy that 18 for a little while..and my mom finally found out.and she just said "u better know what your doing". dating a older guy is whorish. you can trust them by not letting them suspect anything between u and your guy and talking to your cousin about why she told your sister and stuff. i dont know. i hope i helped!
always-jamie
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