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Well , me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year . &+ He says he loves me and stuff, &+ He got a condom . He wants to have sex, and his birthdays coming up... But idk what to do? Im still kinda intimidated by us having sex. Its not like im scared . It's just im nervous to. Idk what to do or how to do it? Help ! (link)
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Well we all got nervous at first. thats normall. but is all up to you dont let no one pressure u. Wen the time comes you will know and you wont be nervous.. just think about it first. because if you said that ur nervous maybe you are doubtin if to do it or not. But if you are ready is easy just let him help you out go with the flow he will treat you like a lady and help you in every step dont be scared to ask him. Is your first time you not gona be a pro at it. you'll need time.
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im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we've almost been together a year and for our anniversary i want to get matching necklaces. Like half a heart for him and the other half for me and it have a saying on it. Or any other his and her necklaces. i've been trying to look around on the internet but most of it is all girly. Does anybody know any good websites to go to for that?
Thanks a bunch! (link)
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You should go and visit the store claires it has many accessories for boys n girl am sure you will find it there. Cause i did.
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i have been talking to this boy this whole summer and now im hearing from some girl that he said i was just a summer fling. i dont know what to think because through the school year we never talked but he had a girlfriend that whole year anyways. now he keeps asking me to be his girlfriend and i just say im not sure yet. im not sure if i should still talk to him or let him go? (link)
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HI!!
In my opinion you should test him.........
try to see if he realy likes you because maybe that girl who told you that could be jelouse of you because he is askin you out..........
so dont let her get in between you too........
If he keeps askin you to be his girlfriend that means that he likes you and if you like him to then go ahead an accept........ if it wus true that he just want it you as a summer fling.... dont worry you'll get over him before the milk in the fridge finishes.....lOL..........
But if you are scared that migth happen test him make your self hard to get make him do challenges so he could prove him self to you!!!
So GuD luk With that!!!!!!!!!!!!!
n if you need help 4rm me of any kind send me a message and i will give you ideas of how he can prove he realy likes you...
Chusmaleidy12 =D
15/f
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im 14/f
if it matters?
well here goes...(sorry it's so long)
i've liked this guy since about january
he lead me on
he flirted ALOT!
so natrually i flirted back and began to like him
this continued for a few months and during those few months i had my friend ask him out for me a couple times and he said no...
which got me real confused
i didnt understand why he would flirt so much
but not date me
my best guy friend told him if he didnt like me that he should stop leading me on
but he didnt
so it kept on
close to the end of the year
there was a field trip for all the good kids at school(my parents didnt let me go)
so my best guy friend,the flirt,and me stayed at school with everyone else who couldnt go
there was alot of hugging and flirting going on
a game of truth or dare started up and i got dared
to kiss the flirt and well i did it that day we started going out than i thought everything was going good and he dumped me a week later
well the last day of school came along and that day he kissed me good bye but little did i know i would be seeing him again...
my friend invited him to her pool party
he showed up
we hugged
we flirted
we kissed
ALOT!!!
i saw him a week later and only got one hug
it was like nothing ever happend
could someone please tell me what to do im usually pretty good about all of this crap but im so confused.Thanx in advance (link)
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HEy!!!!!
its Ok to be confused......... what he is doing is not very smart of his part either..... i think he is trying to make you want him...... you know flirt with you,, make out with you and then leaves you.... i think he does that to make you wunt him just gets you excited and then just dump you......... Also he is doing that because he knows that the next time you'll see him you'll flirt and then hook up... he is just using you.... the next time you see if him you see him again just talk to him but dont flirt with him... ignore him try to reverse the game and insted of him playing hard and making you wunt him you'll be on the lead you be the one making him want you and making him want to be with you again and again.... dont follow his game or it will be game over for you and he'll do dis everytime he sees you..... you'll be his punshing bag...
So GUD LUK!!!!!!!!!
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ok im 14 my boifriend is 16 which means he will be 18 when im 16 can he go to jail cause im under age and should i break up with him till i get older (link)
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I think that it all depends on the state that you live in .like one of the adviser said.... i think that in florida if u are 16 you could be with some one who is 26 or younger...... but i still dont kown if it counts for havin sex too............. rigth now just stay with him if you realy love him just wait until you turn 16 maybe the law will change you'll never know.....
so good luck!!!
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okay. i'll make this as short as i can. 16/f. i want to break up with my boyfriend of 3 months. he has no respect for me, he cheated on me and all he ever wants to do is makeout. he's also really pushy on sex. the only inhibition that is keeping me away from breaking up with him..is the fact that i'll feel really crappy after i do so. i've broken up with him before and i've taken him back. i can't take the crappy feeling of jealousy and heartache after breaking up with him..i don't think i can. what can i do? he's my agee (link)
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if a guy dnt hav respect for you. you shuldnt hav respect for him. because he cheates on you and treats you like that because he knows that he intimedates you n oyu dnt wunt 2 break up with him. so if you show him that you dnt wunt him dnt more n dat you dnt care. u wuldnt feel bad. n he knows that if he cheat again you wont take him back. so good luck
if need more help just send me a inbox.
chusmaleidy12.
again good luck.
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hi! so this boy im talking to lately...
i like him a lot. i dont love him but i do like him.
and hes really great at giving compliments. and he always tells me he loves me.
but i cant say that back because i dont love him i just like him. and he knows that.
but what do i say back to compliments?
ive just been saying the same thing back just kinda different.
any advice is great.
thanks so much!
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just open your heart 2 him .is alrigth if you dnt love him but a guy always wunt to feel that some appriciated him. you as his gf shuld do that just tell him how great or sexy he looks today. how you love his hair style. just be honest to him he will understand you.
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So one of my best friends has a boyfriend, and i like him alot. not just a crush. i like him ATON, i almost want to cry when i see them together, and i almost for sure know he doesnt like me that way. but i just cant help but like him. should i tell him i like him? should i tell her? or should i just keep it a secret from everybody?
this isnt something i cant get over, i like him too much for that.
P.S were kinda friends.me and him i mean. (link)
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ok. you should ask ur self if you guys hook up. n you break up. dat friendship that u hand before is not goin to be da same. n abut his gf. if you tell her she migth no care n may try to push you away 4rm him so defenetly dnt tell her if you want 2 kip been friends with him. but i think you shuld tel him he is your friend n he shuld understand your feelings for him. if he is a real friend he will take it for consideration. if not that his problem may be he is a man enough to handle you. so don't worry.
P.S. keep trying never give up on him.
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well i really like this guy (not dating him) and when i'm alone or even doing something with friends i get the feeling that he's actually with me. like he knows what im doing right now and like he sees stuff that i see and it feels like he also knows when im flirting whith other guys so i try making him 'jealous' even though he's not even there. is that normal? and what does it mean? (link)
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it means that yuo loved him and that you can get him out of ur mind you want him to be with u 24/7. trust me am a girl and i hav gone through dat with my crush. wat i did is that i went up 2 him and told him how i feel. he laugh at first but he understood my feelings for him.
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Ok..I'm torn between two girls..I like both of em, but I'm not sure which one to get over..One I met a couple of days ago and everything just sorta clicked between me and her. The other one I met last year and she is like my best friend...So which one should I get over and which one should I ask out... Thanks in advance. (link)
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LOok im a girl and i had pass through that. so you should ask out your best friend because she is the one who knows you best and i'm sure u are going to last long with the other girl may be she is not wat she appearce to but your best friend you know her for a long time so go ahead and pick the one that makes you feel special and loved. Lol katy. luv xoxo.
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okay, first off i am 15. the guy i like is 19. we really get along greatly, we talk on the phone for hours and never run out of things to say. we even finish each other's sentences sometimes. a lot of people have been saying he just "wants some" but, mostly everyone knows i'm not that way, including him. i really like him but i dont want to be called a whore for dating him considering everyone says college boys only want one thing. another thing i worry about is my parents. what they would think if i told them. what should i do about people talking about me? please help me. :( (link)
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Just don't listen to them maybe they are jelous of you but if he really wants something tell him that you are not ready to do it jet if he ingnores of or he just stopo talking that mean everybody was rigth about him. But if he says that ok that mean that he could wait and that he wants you not your sex. ok
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ok well i really like this guy named tacquin and i just found out he has a girlfriend and he has had one for three weeks now and last weekend i had sex with him and i just realized that he had a girlfriend and i dont know what to think is it a bad think please help me:'( (link)
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No is not a bad thing because you didn't know.he is the one that should be sad or should be ashamed of him self. But you don't worried if she finds out about it just be like he didn't told me he had a girl friend and i'm not physic. Ok so don't worried.
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Okay, I know this is one of the wierdest questions that anyone will ask, but I need an answer...
... Okay, so, when you are making out with someone, do you keep your tounge in their mouth or do you sometimes put it back in yours??
I know, that's a wicked stupid question but I'm really confused and I'm to shy to ask someone like my friends or something.
So, someone please help? :] (link)
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you don't stay there with the tongue you put it inside his mouth and then like in 15 second you take it out if he pulls it with his tongue you live it there ok.
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15/f and i'm gay. So me and this girl went out for a while and I'm just so shy around her like when we kiss and stuff, and I like to take things slow and she really likes to mess around. So we broke up because I'm to "shy". Everytime we talk you can tell we still like each other and she always says that she wishes I wasn't as shy. I want to get back with her but I have to become more relaxed with her. How can I be more comfortable doing things with her other than kissing? (link)
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you just try to be ur self. I am shy too an dwhat i do is that i try to dop stuff fun and interesting that maybe it could catch thge attention. If you want to something else than kissing her try to ask her what u could do that she likes ok
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My best friend and I haven't been doing so well. It first started when I started trusting this guy that her boyfriend hated. The problem is me and this guy have become close friends now. And Ive like liked him for months. Sometimes I can't stop thinking about him. The problem is im too afraid to tell him how I feel for three reasons:
1.) I dont want my friend to get really mad when she finds our I actually do like like him.
2.) Im afraid everyone will bug me and say "We Knew It!!" (Ill explain after)
3.)Im afraid he'll stop being my friend and ignore me...
We flirt ALL the time. I should say about 14 times a school day or so. He usually starts it though because i cant because of my friend. He has called me "My Love" before and once said we were going out to make a guy jealous. But there was a rumor a week or so ago saying he liked my other best friend and that really tore me up. We still flirt and sometimes he'll ask me if I like him and ill say no cause im too shy and ill ask him and he says no. So I dont know if he meant the no or not like i didnt mean mine. Im too afraid to tell im cause right now he is one of the only people who seem to even care about me right now (even as a friend). What should I do? (link)
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Tell him how you feel it will make you feel better if he doesn't want to be your friend that means that he just wanted to have a moment with you . About ur friend she will understand,if she doesn't understand that mean that she is not your true friend because true friend understands and accept their friend not even if that friend, boy friend is in between. so take care and talk to her. Also talk to that boy you like ok. And all those pepole that start talking crap just ignore them thats your life and you should live itthe way you want it to live it. holla, lots of luv, take care.
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