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please help me =[ ..
okay, first off i am 15. the guy i like is 19. we really get along greatly, we talk on the phone for hours and never run out of things to say. we even finish each other's sentences sometimes. a lot of people have been saying he just "wants some" but, mostly everyone knows i'm not that way, including him. i really like him but i dont want to be called a whore for dating him considering everyone says college boys only want one thing. another thing i worry about is my parents. what they would think if i told them. what should i do about people talking about me? please help me. :(
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i've been in the same situation..i'm 15 and dating a 19 yr.old in college! At first i didn't think my parents would like the whole age thing..but then i took the chance of telling them about him. when i told them they first didn't agree with it because he's in college and i'm in high school and most college boys party and end up having sex with a bunch of girls so they didn't want him to break my heart and me have to go through all the pain...but i just asked them to meet him and see how they liked him and come to find out my parents LOVE him they wouldn't want me to be with any other guy. yea sure people are gonna be saying stuff and thinking that all he wants is to get in your pants...but all that doesn't matter if u really like/love him and know deep down that ya'lls relationship isn't about that, then u should go for it..just follow your heart, and make sure that you trust him and know that he won't break your heart..and in the end it could turn out to be the most amazing relationship. i hope i help u!
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That's sweet, to me age ain't nothing but a number. If he treats you right and respects you for that, then it shouldn't matter what people say,you like him, not everyone else has to.If you are worried about what your parents will say, don't. If he treats you right like the way you say he does, then you wouldn't be asking yourself this question. & when it's time to talk about him to your parents or to bring him home make sure he's up for it. If he's not, then he's trying to hide something. Make sure he has good manners too , so I say go for it, and Good Luck ;).
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first off, it's only 4 years difference. that's practically like a freshman dating a senior which is normal. it doesn't matter what people say about you, your true friends will stick by your side and be there for you all the way through no matter what choice you make. plus, this sounds like a great match so don't loose hope. :) hope i helped!
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Really it doesn't matter what other people think sweetie. I could be the responsible adult here and tell you that he is waaay to old for you, and for you to just find someone your own age, but it's not going to change the feelings you have for him. Stop worrying about what everyone is saying. If they are calling you a whore and you are not doing anything even close to that, then don't sweat it! YOU know who you are and where you stand. Don't let anyone tell you any different. ge ain't nothing but a number so just take things slow and be careful. Hope it helps;
-Adorkable
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Just don't listen to them maybe they are jelous of you but if he really wants something tell him that you are not ready to do it jet if he ingnores of or he just stopo talking that mean everybody was rigth about him. But if he says that ok that mean that he could wait and that he wants you not your sex. ok
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