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why do guys find the need to have a skinny girl? it gets me mad when a guy is attracted to some skinny girl when he could have great chemistry and a great relationship with a different girl who is overweight?

sam with girls i guess. but guys seem to have a more 'strict criteria' (link)
i am a girl and i hate to say it but my most dislike of a guy is them bein over weight, its a total turnoff for me, it makes me feel bad but its so hard for me bcuz im skinny and i expect to be with a skinny guy, but if i did lik a guy thats wasnt skinny i would go out with him, but likin a guy that is overweight would be really weird for me just bcuz its so much of a turn off for me...


I've had a girlfriend for about 5½ yrs now and I really love her and all and I want to move our realonship up a bit and I don't know how. I was thinking about making love to her when it was the right time for her but im just afraid she won't be happy with my size. Were both virgins and I really don't want to hurt her. Do you think moving our realonship up a bit is worth a shot?
Also do you think 11 inches will really hurt a girl badly, especially if shes a virgin?

Please Be Nice I Rate 5's (link)
dang, lol!! umm yea it will hurt her, but it usally hrts your first tiem around anyway. i think uit will be fine, i mean its not like you could shrink it down to a smaller size and a lot of girls would love it to be that size, but i say talk to her and ask her wat she thinks..


ok well im 14/f n i dont consider my self as " ugly" but i still didnt have my first kiss but im not like some girls out there who are like freaked out bcuz they aint sure how to kiss. im ready n all but i want to kiss soon hehe. i dotn wanna b like 17 n still didnt kiss so my question is it better to tell the guy that you are about to kiss that you never kissed b4 or just go with the flow.srri its kinda long. (link)
your time will come, i mean i got my first kiss wen i was 14 so its not that bad, its its good waiting for the right guy, when i got my first kiss, it was like fireworks it ment so much to me. but i think if your ready, start to hang out with some guys you like get to know them. and one of them might like you and you guys can like go out and then you will get your first kiss, or i mean play truth or dare if your like really desprete, not saying that you are. but don worry. i bet when school starts and all, you will meet some guys and you will get your first kiss.

hope i helped!!


ok well this is the same person as the one when i wrote about my friend telling me my boyfriend doesnt like me anymore cuz he otl dher and its tru and i dont kno if i should dump him or wait for him and that might take a while cause my friend wasnt suppose ot say anything and id ont wanna get her introuble. please help and dont tell me to just talk to him cause hes nto the kinda person i can. hes a jerk and i should of never went out with him in the first place (link)
i think you should dump him and go out with somoneelse. if hes a jerk then i wouldnt waste my time with him anymore. there is probably someone else out there that is a lot better for you


i recently went on vacation with my family and a few cousins whom i hadnt talked to in a long time to california. me and one of my cousins started getting somewhat close, and i am ashamed to say i like him. eh. any help? (link)
that kind of weird. but i guess at least its your cousin and not ur brother or sister. i just think that maybe you should lay off your cousin and go for somone thats not you cousin


ok so here it is.....
i really like this guy and i have known him for about a year know. He likes one of my friends and he always tells me how much he likes her. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up and move on or stick in there and hold on to him??
please help me
Thankx* (link)
i dont want to sound mean, but i think the best thing to do is move on and find a guy that like you and not your best friend. there probably a way better guy out there that really likes you


ohk so i have liked this guy already for about a year. he says he likes me too but i dont think he does cuz one day he acts like it and the next day he dont. he keeps getting my hopes up and it hurts cuz i noe he's just messing me. he also keeps flirting with one of my best friends, and with everyone else he also tells them every single thing he says to me. so i am hurting so bad. what should i do ? (link)
you should move on to a different guy. he will probably treat you a lot better and it will make you feel a lot better


Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???

And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high

Gomesy (link)
no way i think somtimes it makes the guys feel better cuz they dont have to make the first move i think its great i asked a guy out and it was great it didnt last but umm lol it still was great good luck


i like this guy alot. we went out last summer but broke up for a stupid reason. Well, my dad found out some stuff that me and him did, and told austin(my ex) not to talk to me again. So of course he hasn't. We see each other all the time and i miss him alot. He has a girlfriend, but i still want him back. A couple of weeks ago my friend asked him if he would ever go back out wtih me and he was like "umm .. i gotta get to class" so then the next day she asked again and he said "umm ... i got a girlfriend right now" ... he didnt say yes or no. But the other day when someone asked if he liked this other girl, he said no about her. nd there is one of his friends, B.j, and we all go to the same church. B.j likes me and i think i like him too. But not as much as i do austin. Well B.j was telling everyone he likes me adn taht i was hott and he wanted to go out with me, then he found out i didnt like him, so he got mad and said he didnt want to go out with me. Last ngiht at churhc, he wouldnt even talk to me. I am so confused. Ohh and about the austin thing, my dad told him to never talk to me again or look at me or even come near me, so when he sees me he avoids me, but he still looks at me alot. My dad told me yesterday i could start talkin to him again, but im too shy to. So my questions are .. What all should i do? and should i tell both of them i like them or not? and do you think austin still likes me? any help is welcome!!!! (link)
i think that first off you should talk to austin and tell him that you like him and try and really talk to him and explain your whole dad issue and when you feel like its a good time you can ask him if he likes you


Does anyone think that sex makes a relationship, or that it makes a relationship better? Why or why not? (link)
it could make a relstionship if u both really love each other and think its the right time.. it could hurt a relationship if its not the right time or if u dont feel comfortable enough to do it or sommin lik that
*~brit~*


Is it okay to fall for someone if they complement you and make you feel amazing when ever your feeling down and make you laugh all the time?


What if they were 6 years older than you?
Please help... (link)
thats kinda weird but its not ur fault for fallin for a guy that is six years older then you.. i mean if he makes u feel so good then y does it matter how old he is.. atleast hes not lik 20 years older then you


hey ok heres my problem. my boyfriend thinks im too shy too kiss or do anything!!! im not evenshy in the least bit! is there anyway i can tell him im not too shy to do that kind of stuff without sounding slutty? (link)
u wont sound slutty if u just talk to him.. be lik im not to shy to do that kind of stuff and i want to cuz im ready...


if you have read the previous post, you'd know how pathethic my love life is (20m never had gf). Anyway, where can i meet a nice girl? And how do i get to know her?

(any nice girl out there?) (link)
aww thats really sad. wat ill say is that i lik guys who act themselve and i lik guys and dont act all perveish and i lik guys who treat my good. maybe u should try that it will help and if it doesnt then maybe ur tryin for the wrong girls


hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:( (link)
ok first i think gay guys r awesome and most girls do just 4 some reason we think there so much fun to hang out wit. so just find a couple of girls friends and they would probly love to hang out wit u i mean i have a gay friend and i could care less that hes gay



im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?


o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp ! (link)
u shouldnt be shy aroung guys there just guys if lik u see a cute guy u should go up to him and talk to him because u never no if they might like u.


If your bf or gf got you a limo for a surprise for like 3 months of going out and it was a boxy kind of limo.. would you care? (link)
that would be soo sweet its just showin how much u lik him


My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing? (link)
try and talk to him calmly and tell him u hate when u to fight and u really love him and u want to tay together.


okay so my friend alex(we'll say) she knew this guy we'll say his name is tyler. okay so alex met tyler at her old school and when i asked her if she knew ne hotties she gave me his sn. so i i.med him one day and we've been talkin online for the past 9 months or so. and i really have grown to love him! i think that i might even be falling for him. and i really wanna meet him face to face one day. but i have no clue how i would explain him to my parents! bcuz when i first got aim i wasn't suppsoed to talk to n e one i didn't knoe! and now i might even go meet him?? idk so please help me asap! (link)
tell then u new him from a friend and u will bring a friend along wit u to talk to him


okay so i was really really close friend with my x we'll call him t.j so i was really close to tj b4 we went out then one day he asked me out and of course i said yes! and we went out for like 3 weeks (not that long) but i was then end of the school year and i didn't want a bf over the summer so i broke up with him. but now when i look back i really miss all the things he used to say and do for me! i really miss him alot now!! and i want him back! but everytime i try to call him the line is always busy cuz his sis talks alot on the phone! so wut do i do? (link)
i think u should talk to him in person tell him how u really feel i bet he likes u still to.




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