Hi, Shauna here,im a cute 14 year old girl, i like goin to tha beach n hangin out with my friends, i also like chatting on the computer n watchin tv.... i kno, ima vegitable (lol). i love to give ppl advise so if u need any im avalible!
Gender: Female
Location: baton rouge, LA
Age: 14
AIM: tahitisweetie175
Member Since: July 19, 2004
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Last Update: July 23, 2004
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i have a great guy friend but hes not cute. i think he likes me but im having a shallow moment and dont want to go out with him bc hes not cute. is that just horrible? (link)
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Well MEGAN! jus dont pay ne attention to him like u dont kno n if tell u jus tell him u jus wanna be friends n hope it he understands, hope i helped! BYEEEE MEGAN! XoXoXo
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i like several guys. one of them being a guy named steven. we are really good friends and just yesterday he asked me about one of my friends erica. he was like is she single? i told him yes but i am now wishing i told him no. He is a redneck (my type)and we have a lot in common. too bad he likes erica. i dont really think erica would be very good for him b/c she likes bad boyz and that he is not. how to i get the point across to him that erica is not his type and that i am better for him??
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well kinna give him tha slip that u lkike him, like drop him hint n see if he returns ne of them, n show him u can be his kinna girl n i hope it all works out!
XoXo- Shauna
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i love my friend from down the street. WE shared so many things together, ive known him since i was 2. He grabs my one day and tells me he loves me and kisses me softly. I really thought he meant it. The next day my total flirt best friend comes and steals him away. I know he still likes me but it was so hard seeing them flirting. He may like her. I am hurting so much inside knowing that there could be someone else besides me for him. What should i do? i really love this guy. (link)
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well talk to him tell him how ur feelin, and tell ur best friend too and that u dont appreciate her flurting with him in front of u n that its really upsetting u, i hope i helped and i hope everything turns out ok!
XoXo- Shauna
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Okay im gonna give you two guys and you decide which you like best okay? PEYTON:sweet,kinda best friend,hot,kinda talk to,wants 2 keep relationship secret,football playa,beatiful eyes, charming,shy,can protect me,and sweet! ADAM best friend, hot, always, talk 2, sensitive,wants to tell every1 about relationship,baseball playa charming,and sweet! Plz answer as soon as possible!! .
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Adam definatly! ne guy who wouldnt want a relationship out there is jus not worth it! lol XoXoXo
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I have AIDS and i dont really know how to deal with it right now....I am only (14) and i got it frum sleeping with ONE dude....Now that it is getting out even though i dont want it to people look at me different now and i have trouble getting a boyfriend (not someone to sleep with but jus someone to date) and i get really really depressed over it....sometimes i dont even think it is worth livin....Please give me sume advice on what u would do....
xoxoxo.....SheLbY (link)
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Hi Shelby! im so sry u have AID and i dont think ppl should treat u different but with ur guy problems dont worry, what id say is if they cant except what i have then they dont deserve me, like if they cant except that u have AIDs then their not worth ur time ya kno, so jus keep lookin n dont say ur not worth livin for b/c everyone has some purpose in life so dont give up and i hope i helped! XoXoXo
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hi my name is moragan but is pronounced morgan and im 16. all the guys at my school keep saying they want more "again" but i dont understand waht that means can u please tell me what taht means. please!!!!!!! (link)
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well r they sayin it like callin u that, like by ur name and if so id say theyre jus sayin it b/c thats how most ppl would say ur name n their jus puttin it as a word but it not like that then write me again n tell me the situations there sayin it in! hope i helped! XoXoXo
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Many people have been saying that proactiv works to clear up acne but proactiv is from the infomercial, and I'm really scared to try it. Do they have it available in stores? About how much will it cost? (link)
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no they dont have it in stores, u have to order on tv or the internet and it and it costs about 40 bucks. XoXoXo
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I'm 11 and I'm a girl (lol)My friend Madison is going out with this guy and I like him (a lot) but I can't flirt or anything cause I feel bad. And I don't want Madison to know that I like him because she won't be exactly happy.I really like him and I don't know what to do. Plz help.....:( (link)
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Well dont ruin the relationship with ur friend madison so either wait until they brake up or move on b/c there r plenty of other fish in tha sea so i hope it all works out n hope i helped! XoXoXo
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i really want to make out but i dont know how and then wheni wit a guy i feel like if i make out with him he is goin to think i suck enev if its my frist time idk what to do i dont know how to do it what should i do ?? i dont want to feel stupid when i doing it???=(
please help?!! (link)
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i wouldnt worry too much about it b/c when ur ready then ull kno it and if ur not then just wait a little while longer or untill ur ready so i hope i helped and Good Luck! XoXoXo
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okay katy...im 15 and im a female...so a few months ago i met this kid...and i was with him for quite a while and i really liked him so much...i might have evne loved him...but he was with another girl the whole time we were together and cheateed on me...and lied to me about it and everything...even when she called him i ansswered and he didnt care...and shit like he said they were done...but he cheated on me...and i was so devistated and i am so depressed since hes gone...i want to get over hnim but everytime i see something or hear something it reminds me of him...and when i see him on occasion i cry for like ever...i dont kno what to do to get myself over this kid...i mean can u help me because he has a g/f that hes been with for a while and loving him is pretty pointless....cuz he wont be with me...plus hes comin to my school nxt year and i need to be over him...HELP ME PLEASE...and another thing...sometime i call him just to talk too...and i think i should tell him how i feel...do you?? help!
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def. tell him how u feel and that u didnt appreciate being cheated on b/c neone who would do that is just a jerk, so b/4 skool starts try to find someone new and forget about this guy, i mean its obviously not worth crying over if he cheated on u, its more worth slapping the day lights outta him or kickin him wear tha sun dont shine...(lol) so jus try to move on and i hope everything works out and i hope i helped! XoXoXo
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ok well i met this boy chris at the begining of the year...and we bacame good friends...we liked each other but i had a boyfriend so nothin ever went beyond friends...well a couple weeks later me and my boyfriend broke up and me and chris grew closer...then a week later he asked me out...well we went out and everything was good but then we broke up and i cant remember why but n e ways...me and him became even closer after we broke up and we were best friends all year...well we were friends with benifits gess you can say...but then a couple weeks before school let out for summer break he started going out with this girl tasha...tasha is my friend and she has liked him for so long. well im still in love with chris and i just cant stop...he means everything to me....now hes always with tasha and barely talks to me....i dont know what to do...what should i do plezz help me....i cry everytime i think of him.. (link)
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well if ur love with him than id say wait till they brake up to move n on him b/c u dont really wanna lose a friendship over him, and u dont really need to do that... move on and find someone new b/c ull never kno whats out there till uve looked so dont give up and let me kno how it all turns out! hope i helped! XoXoXo
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i like this guy so much ever since october 30th 2002 and like its been abt 2 years now .. and i dont know wut to do . i went out wif him 6times before .. buh hes wif one of my friends now . buh like were more like enemy's now . i mean im her friend and i want her to be happy buh i dont think she wants that for me cuz i cut myself and like she does too . but at least she's happy i mean i told * dan * how i feel and still . he still sayz i love paulina and shyt ! and i hate it i mean .. wow i kryed so much over him iono wut to do anymore !!
plzz help me !!
xOXo maYa xOXox (link)
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WOW! first of all dont destroy ur body jus b/c of a guy. second of all if he doesnt like u then its his lose... there are plenty of other fish in the sea so dont give up sweetie, keep lookin and i hope it all works out! XoXoXo
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Just recently I went on vacay to see my moms friend that she had made recently on a college course. So we went down to see her friend and her family b/c my mom wanted to introduce me. So of course she has a son a year older than me and I'm head over heels, you dig? So anyway we had an awsome time almost everything in the world tells me he liked me back, so I gave him my home # and my sn. We live miles and miles apart and i just left a couple weeks ago. He hasnt called or been online and I've been missing him so much. I'm starting to wonder if this is a sign if he doesn't like me at all... or i d k. But I can't go ahead and call him b/c I dont want to look desperate if he wanted to talk he would have called or went online. But hes a great guy I'd never give up liking him so... at this point idk what to do b/c i d k if i will even get to see him ne time soon... and I just cant take it ne more... its more than i can handle. (link)
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Go ahead and call him, u wont look desperate b/c lots of gurls call guys first, but dont give up. he could be busy or at a camp or sumthin so dont jus asume he doesnt like u. but about the distance im n tha same position so all i can say is if u do talk to him then try to keep it up n talk to the internet too... and if u have really awsome parents maybe theyll take u to c him one day.... hope it all works out. XoXoXo
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ok my name is ashley and i am 14. i have a boyfriend and i like him and all but recently he sent me a pic of him and i really dont like his face. he has a nice body and everything. but he lives in indiana and comes out every weekend to his dads. i know u all r thinking im shallow and ur prolly rite and everything but i just cant help it!he is nice and says i am super precios an dsweet but im not sure if he says that to other ppl bc of where he lives. neway i dont kow what to do. i dont wanna eb a bitch and break up with him but i also dont want the situation to come up where i have to kiss him and i cant stand his face!i really need help. for my advice i really dont want ppl to tell me im shallow and to not care if he is ugly bc i know all that but as a person that i am i cant get over that nd i know that is horrible!i really need advice!thanks! (link)
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Hey Ashley, id say if ur not happy with his looks then dump him, n i hope no one thinks im mean for saying this but its true... y be unhappy when u dont have to be. and if it helps i dont think ur shallow, a girls got to be happy with her mans looks (lol) so i hope i helped and tell me how it all turns out for ya hun!
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Hey, My name is Anna and I'm 14! This is my situation, .last Christmas I met this guy named Colin. I was at my friends house and we were just playing basketball and he came and introduced hisself blah blah blah. The thing is that he lives in New Hampshire and I live in Florida. My first impression of him was that he was ugly and I would probably never talk to him again in my life. But that didn't happen, I stayed another day at my friends hosue and we hung out most of the day. He told my friend Kati that he liked me. We kept in touch over the computer and over the phone. We ended up going out and having a long distance relationship. But then we broke up. Anyhoo, he just visited a couple weeks ago and I spent two days with him at his house alone with his friend Jon. While I was there I hung out in his room and we watched movies and went swimming and stuff. We cuddled and just had a great time. While I was close to him I was asking him if he thought he was in love. He said he thinks he is (with me) but the location thing came up again. Well I don't need to tell you about the whole day but after he left I couldn't stop thinking about him, I've had dreams about him. I seriously thought I was in love until I heard from his friends what he's really like. One of his friends told me what he said about this girl Sarah. He was swimming and the water was cold right so he made a comment that in the cold water his dick gets hard then when he went into the warm water it wasn't anymore. Then when Sarah came out in her bikini it was hard again. When I found this out I was sooo mad..Other than the fact that he likes this girl. (Supossedly) Well..I'm really confused because we got into a little fight over the interent and I told him how upset and hurt I was..he just said he was pissed and that IT WAS A JOKE! Well I appoligized to him and I kinda got a reality check that maybe I'm not in love..Well..why am I having dreams that I want to marry this guy? And I'm scared to call him too. I just don't know how to sort out my feelings. He was the first guy I made out with. And he tells me I'm gogerous and everything but he tells every girl that I heard. And I still don't think he feels the same way so I don't know if I should jsut give up, move on, or tell him about my true feelings. Also whenever I talk to him on the internet he never really says anything other than what's up or what did you do today stuff like that. He never tells me to call him either and he never calls me so I don't know how to read him. And if I wore to tell him about how I feel I wouldn't know how to do it. It's so different while he's in New Hampshire and I'm here. We both have different lives and we loose touch and it's like we're just friends not even close friends. But I just can't get my mind off of him and when he is down I get so excited and I don't want to get my heart broken but I might have already. Plus my mom is superly overpretective so I'm not around guys that much at all and well she let me go over to his hosue with out supervision and I don't know if this is crazy or not but I'm thinking it might be fate. That we were meant to be together. It all makes sense kinda? but I just can't put the pieces together. Maybe you can help me with that. Well, Thank you sooo soo much for helping me out. I'm soo soo sorry that it was so long. Hope you have a great day or night whichever it is when you read this lol. (link)
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Hi Anna, i have the exact same problem, i like a guy that lives in Texas but i live in Louisiana, n we're about 13 hours away from each other he came here once for a thingy n we met n he said he liked me n i told him i liked him n blah blah but i too dont kno if REALLY he feels the same way, so were kinda n tha same boat. and we talk on the internet and phone alot so it kinda makes things better.... but hes the same way when i c him and when were apart so i dont really understand about the whole 2 personalities or nething but all i can say is keep n touch with him, n dont be afraid to tell him how u feel. if u dont then u will never know what yall could have been... and about ur dreams of marrying him, i belive that dreams are the keys to our realities but some may call it just a dream. id say go with ur gut feeling, if u want to tell him how ur feeling than go ahead, i would b/c i wouldnt want to go living life not knowing what we could have been... so good luck and i hope everything works out!
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there is this girl that i love more than anything in the whole world, and i know we love each other. but she has a boyfriend that she cares bout. i dont like anybody else but her. but i figure if i wait too long i will be hurt even more. what the heck do i do (link)
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tell her how u feel and hope she may feel the same way, but if not and she loves her own boyfriend then its ok, there are plenty of other fish in the sea but dont give up. hop ei could of helped! and feel free to come to me personally with any questions u may have!
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My b/f wants to make out but i don't think im ready.. plus i don't know how... what if i screw up. plus he has a HUGE nose what happens if it gets in the way.. im sooo confused. plus i think i'll feel dirty after. like how could i even look at any of my cousins the same knowing i made out. they look up to me and i have always had the good girl image! AHHH! plus im only turnin 14 and my friends pressure me cuz in highschool everyones made out!and i will be made fun of if i don't know how! (link)
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thats not true not everyone in high school has made out and if u get made fun of then there just a bunch of jerks anywayz. u'll kno when ur ready but if not and ur b/f is pressuring u then u need to dump him or tell him ur just not ready! hope i could of helped and if u need any other advise dont be afraid to come to me personally.
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im 14 almost 15 and i have never had like a real boyfriend should i be worried that im going to go to prom alone because i think about it a lot (link)
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NO! dont be afraid to go to prom alone, you could get a couple of ur frends that are going alone too and hang with them, but dont give up yet, ask around.. im sure theres someone who would go with you, i mean its prom, not everyone will have a date so dont be afraid to go alone or without a date! need any other advise dont be afraid to come to me personally on my advise column page, hope i could help and i hope u find someone!
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I like this kid ALOT but he likes my BEST FRIEND and sometimes it makes me feel kinda weird. i wanna go out with him badly and he has called me pretty and nice and fun to hang around with but nothing else!! i envy my best friend. I dont no what to do whether i should ask him out or keep it the way things are?
Ps. She doesnt like him but he like hers and i like him but he doesnt like me and he noes that i like him!
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i went thru the same thing once , i completly was jelous of my friend but the ony thing u can really do n those situations is wait for him to come around, hope i could help n plz feel comfortible to come to me personally with any questions u might have!
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ok..i have a boyfriend right now but theres this kid that really likes me and it gets really annoying cause hes always saying how much he likes me and even though i have a boyfriend he still asks me out and stuff and it makes me feel really bad what do i do?! help!! (link)
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well tell the kid the truth.... but let him down easy and if he doesnt go away... call the cops... no not really (lol), if he doesnt stop then tell him to stop asking u out n u dont like him n that way.
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