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Natally

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Okay. i just broke up with my man coz it was waaaaaaaay too serious a relationship. i'm 17 him 18 me a virgin him a well a slut. he was always wanting serious conversations and we started fighting coz i'd joke aroud too much and 'hurt his feelings' so yeah. i dumped him. now i want a guy that is fun and stuff but i have no way to meet one! i'm out of school with a full time - 6days a week- job so i barely even have time for my friends. it sux! how can i meet a fun guy??? i know i'll be fine in july coz it's my 18th so i can actually go night clubbing. but what do i do in the meantime? does anyone know a place where heaps of guys hang out? plz help i rate!

well i know guys hang out at the mall. um, you could try at sport parks they're filled with guys! but umm... even if theres a guy at your work, hang with him (that is if you like any of them) and see what he's like. but yea just wait and your Mr. Right will come along soon!
:)

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(16/F)
i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.

just talk to him truthfully. tell him nicly that you would like to spend some more time with ur girlz but he still means everything to you. just make sure that he still knows you want him, and maybe have some of his friends and yours spend a day together so your still with your gurls and him.
good luck!
hope i helped!
xoxo

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My moms bff called me up the other day and said her nephew was moving in with her and she wants to hook us up! I mean I'm really excited because I havent had a boyfriend in over a year. But my ex and I are in love but he is with someone right now...ok I mean im really scared because you know im scared by dating him i might mess things up with my ex and what not...just i really dont know what to do?? what should i do? go for it and date her nephew or stay single and wait for my ex?

well even though theres still things goin on with u and ur ex... since he's with another grl go ahead and date the nephew... it wont hurt. And plus its good to try out with new ppl!
h.i.h.
xoxo

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My twin and I need help finding something to get our boyfriends for valetines day!! we need HELP!! If you have any Ideas PLease Post Them!! Will Rate HIGH if i like them :) Thanks!

depending on what they like, maybe some chocolate with a cute stuffed animal. or a cd with candy on the front, maybe even make him a scrap book of you being together, with like those cadny hearts that say stuff on them lol
h.i.h.
xonat

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heyy! i wentout this this guy who was basicly my 1st real boyfriend..we broke up about a year ago, but though crushes and boyfriends have come and gone since then, i cant keep him off my mind! is it just a "1st love" kinda thing? i need help!

well if you still have a thing for him talk to him about it. He'll understand. And if you're luck, he'll still feel the same way too.
xoxo

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every time i go out wit some one they just feel bad for me wat should i do? help i rate high

maybe act alittle different, tell them not to feel sorry for you if you dont like it. Maybe talk to them and, buy your own stuff... dont have them pay for you, but mainly acting different would help, becuase it might be from that that they get a hint you might need help.
h.i.h.
xoxo

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this i guy i like is touching me a lot lately not like i'm complaining but he today he touched me in the stomach and he was hugging me today once again. we are cuddling a lot does this mean anything? he knows i like him and he likes me too.

well if you two arent going out and your positive that he likes you back then ask him out! even if he doesnt say yes, try anyway :D
natalie

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what is a good way to ask a heavy metal guy to a prom?! and when should i ask him cuz our prom is in may.

maybe during lunch or after school, and ask him cooly, not that he thinks that it will be soft, but dont worry everyone including the hard core guys have a soft side.

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ok, first of all, let me tell you that i just want to know what y'all think about this - please tell me honestly if you think this guy likes me or not. i usually see answers that 'since i don't know you both, i don't know', but please tell me your gut feeling.

i'm a senior and there's this guy who sits behind me in one of my classes (he's also a senior). i really like him and he can probably tell, but everyday when there's a break in the class or something we end up talking. not just like, 'can you help me with this worksheet' but more personal things. also, when i go through the halls i glance over and he's usually looking at me. from your viewpoint, do you think he likes me?

i would say he does :D so maybe try asking him or have a friend ask him if he likes u. i do believe he does though. Good Luck grl!
Nat:.

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my n my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months... im 13/f and well valentines day is coming up.. and i have no idea what to get him... hes sorta a prep, he plays football, and umm idk hes just like a normal 13 year old guy.. please help!!

hurm... well he likes fball.. you could get him a fball like one of those miniatures. or some candy that he likes (or the sweet hearts and make a book of how much u love him with those, that would be cute :)) ortake a pic of u to and make it into this craft frame with candy around it that he can eat.
Gook Luck hun!
Natally:.

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ive never kissed b4 except when i was like 4. whats it like and how exactly do you do it??

i would just wait for the right guy to come your way and if he wants to kiss you and you really like him then just go with the flow.

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There's two guys i like very much...one is really sweet and has his heart in the right place and means very well, but he's over protective and though we are going out he barely talks to me and flirts with other girls. The other guy is about 4 years older then me, he's 17 and im only 13, but we like each other very much and he doesn't care about age. He's everything a girl could dream of. what should i do with my boy friend? i don't want to brake up he's just too nice and i don't want to brake up with him. How do i brake up with him?

well definatly bring it easy on him if u care about the guy. but maybe say that things are getting alittle still and maybe we should move on. just something that wont break his heart.
Good Luck!

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i like this kid but the thing is that i have never talked to him and hes a year younger than me and i just think that he is nice and all that but i really like him..what should i do?please dont say go up to him and talk to him because im really shy around new people..

have a friend that knows him introduce you... and maybe you can start hanging with him.
Good Luck hun.

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I am the worst at reading guys. I probably couldn't detect when a guy was flirting with me if my life depended on it. Does anybody have some basics I should know about?

well guys stare at you or when they start to talk to you more... maybe try to help you with something.. compliments... stuff like that.

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okay so im going out with this boy and im kinda the one givng all the giving...he is just taking! its driving me crazy but i really like him what should i do?

maybe stop giving him so much... or talk to him about it.

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ok here is the thing i want to have a long relationship but then again i dont. if any one has been in this place b-4 plz help. i just dont kno wat to do thanks.

ive been there before but the best thing to look for is a long relation ship.

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