hey everybody! =) my name is heather i am seventeen years old.i am 1 of three children &also the youngest. i am from tampa florida but i now live in peterborough new hampshire! i love to hangout with friends. reading and writing are things that i also love to do. they expand your horizons. i also give advice. i think that i am pretty good at it. i have been through alot in my life from running away to drugs & drinking also teenage pregnancy. so if you have a question and wanna ask go ahead and drop me 1 in my inbox and i will be sure to hit you up with an answer. i love to help people, sometimes its the littles things that help people. my favorite quote is " friends together last forever, friends apart get lost at the heart" i find that to be very tru and over the years i've learned for myself that it is. so i hope that i can help you. xOxOxO heather! =*
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is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.
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no it is not abnormal to date someone shorter than you or a year younger that you. some people date younger guys or girls all shapes hight & size so it's not a big deal.
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i'm going back out with my boyfriend after he cheated on me. but i know he won't do it again! a lot of people tell me that i'm stupid.... "once a cheater always a cheater!" but i love him so much and know he won't do it again! WHAT DO I DO?! (link)
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i wouldn't say that you are stupid because you seem like a smart girl. some guys who cheat once are likely to cheat again but some actually do turn around and don't do it again. but my advice to you is trust your instinct. i hope things work out.
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I like this guy, and we get along great, but me and his best friend just do not get along! I want to eventually date him, but i'm afraid that his friends may influence him otherwise... what should I do? (link)
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jealous? well thats the way that it seems because otherwise you would think that he would be happy for his boy. right? i say that you should ignore his friend and go for the guy. and maybe try and talk to his friend about his attitude towards you. maybe that might help. =*
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I'm just wondering, but what do guys find attractive in a girl? If you're a guy please just tell me the truth. It can be looks, personality, whatever, but please be specific. If you're a girl, tell me what you think or what guys have mentioned to you!
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i am a girl but i am pretty sure that guys look for these things.
1.pretty face
2.booty (with a awesome body)
3.smart
4.outgoing
5.attitude
6.well dressed
7.can you hang out with the fellas?
8. knowing stuff about sports
9.passioate about something
10.putting a smile on his face
if you need anything more drop me a message in my inbox and i will be glad to give you a few more. hope that this helps.
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I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?
13/F
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i wouldnt say that their is an age limit on love but when you say the words "i love you" you should actually mean it and it should come from your heart! just saying "i love you" dosen't truly mean that you are in love. but if you are this young have you thought that it might scare him off???i hope this helps..
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Hey, ok so i recently just got a boyfriend and i love him! but i feel like he likes me more in a sexual way than he does emotionally. should i do something? (link)
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if you love him& he loves/likes you then he won't rudh you into anything. don't let him push you into anything you don't want or you are not ready for. take things slow and when you both feel that yall are ready emotionally than maybe you both can deal with the situation.
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I've been single for almost two years because all the guys like the "Popular girls" I really want a bf and cant seem to get one..can anyone help me ?
Ill rate 5's all the way♥
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if all the guys lyke pouplar guys than i wouldn't worry about him. i would go for someone who is worth my my tyme! if he hasen't shown any interst in you yet my guess it he probably won't! you should look for a guy who is worth your tyme and likes you for you! hope that helps.
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Me and my boyfriend were just talking and stuff (we've been together for a lil over a month) we went out before in the summer and that lasted almost 4 months but anyways he told me im the only girl he ever loved n stuff and how much i mean to him and he told my best friend one of his wishes and its nothing gross or anything but idk is this a weird wish for a guy to want?
he wants to marry me when we are older... like 6-7 years from now.
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no, i wouldn't say that is weird. he is commited to you & only you. so you wont have to worry about anyone else! hope that helps.
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Okay so this guy i liked called me the the other day and we talked sort of but it was kinda those quite conversations, i want to call him but i dont have anything to talk about. Should i call him and if so what should i say (link)
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if you like him you sohuld just go for it. what are you waiting for? pick up the phone and call him ask him how his day was. what he's been up too. maybe ask him if he would like to hangout and do something. nobody ever fell in love without doing anything right?
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I saw my bf at the mall with another guy kissing him! Not just kissing but making out! What should i do? Should i confront him?!
HELP me please!
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wow! that's a difficult situation espically since it is another guy! maybe you should invite him over and try and talk to him but don't accuse him of anything (maybe that guy came on to him you never know.) maybe he had given the guy mixed signals and the other guy thought that he wanted him. or since in this day in age girls makeout with girls (since they are curious) maybe thats what they were doing and saw nothing wrong with it. i hope that everything works out for you!
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hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's (link)
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there is nothing worng with that. maybe you are being more careful and selective about who you choose to date have you first kiss with and so on. it is easy to get you heart broken so it is good to be choosey. you know? thats how it was for me and it worked out wonderful! hope that helped.
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if love was a question would you answer it? even if it made you feel sad, or mad, or dissapointed or insecure? (link)
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yes. you should because love comes in all different way anf it may hurt you uspset you and you may have many emotions towards love but in the end it will all work out for the best. you just gotta listen to your heart! hope that helps
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I like this boy a lot. I want to tell people, but I don't want everyone to know. When someone knows something in my school they tell everyone and I don't want that to happen. So should I tell no one and keep it to myself or have everyone know? (link)
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well i think that you should only tell the people that you can trust and know that thay will not say anything to anyone!! maybe you should tell the boy that you like him if you are willing to get it out in the open and if yall don't become boyfriend and girlfriend than atleast yall can be friends right? well good luck hope that helped
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hey. i just met a girl about a week ago and weve only had one conversation but it was PERFECT. i knew that she was definetly the one. but heres the thing. i always act weird! ALWAYS. like sometimes im myself and confident and others im shy...and sometimes i talk to people trying to impress them. i have always done this and i hate it. what can i do to stop trying to impress people??
PS-please give real answers. what do i mean real? i mean no "just be yourself"/"dont think about it" crap. (link)
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hey boo,
what's up? well i am not going to give you a reply like "be yourself" or "think about it" i am going to say...you should just try to carry on a random conversation. it's normal to act "weird" around someone that you like. thats what i do. just i just act goofy to cover it up. you should always be confident in yourself don't short yourself of what you are. but part of it is being yourself but you already know that. stop feeling like you have to impress other people! be true to yourself....=* thats the bet way to go! xoxoxox
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hey heather i give up im tryin to b positive bout all this but it aint workin 4 me and all i can think about is the son i never saw and how im always gettin played and its all to kuch 4 me to handle and now i cant c my daughter on thnksgiving because i gotta work which means i cant go to indiana now and its jus evrything and im jus so tempted to do sumtin stupid but i hav no1 to ever talk to wen i got a prob cept 4 u and we hardly ever talk ne more so i dont knowi mean u were the only one to make me smile today and i dont know ne more im jus so hurt+confused bout evrything i dont no......................cept i give up
love ya
cory b (link)
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hey boo,
i know how you feel when it comes to certain things. life sux sometimes. but giving up on life isnt the way togo. i know how it feel to loose a kid whe i was 4 1/2 months preg. back in 2004 i had a miscarriage it sux and it is really hard to deal with. as for getting played i know you will find you a good girl who dosen't wanna play games and that will fill your life with happiness. well when you get your next day off talk to your babies moms and see if you gan go see your daughter. they grow up so fast. well if you need someone to talk to then i am here if you cant reack me on the internet call me on my cell the number is (813)367-6642 don't hesitate to call...iight?=*
xoxoxoxox,
heather
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what is a way that you could be understanding if your boyfriend makes out with another girl while your going out. like how can you be a pacifist..saying like "well i trust him and i know he still loves me" or something idk (thats why im asking)
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i don't really see how you could be understanding about something like that! either way you look at it he cheated on you and thats not something appeptable in a relationship. you know? but if you want to try to be understandin then i would say sit him down and talk to him about what happened. ask him how he could do it? why he did it? but in all reality most guys if they cheat once then they'll do it again! but good luck with you man girl =*
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I have a good guy friend, and we are good friends. I like him more than just a friend now and I think he may feel the same way. But i am not certain. Should i tell him how i feel or keep it to myself. And if i should tell him..how should i break it to him..like where..when..how..all those. thanks (link)
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if you like him let it be known! tell him the truth maybe he feels the same way you do. if you don't say something then some other girl might get your man. tell him when you feel the time is right and when you are at a place that you feel comfortable that might help to. i hope that it helped i also hope that you get your man girl! =*
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Ok so like..Im really shy around guys. I have no clue why. I mean if Im with them for mor than like 30 minutes then Im KIND Of fine. It depends, Some days im not, some days I'am. Anyways, well there's this boy in my Algebra class (I DONT AND NEVER WILL..keep that in mind, k.) && well I barely know the dude and so therefore I'am shy. And the first day I was in his group, soo shy, and he said I was a bitch. BECAUSE, I was being shy && didnt know the RIGHT thing to say back to him...But im really not a bitch..Im soo freggin nice =( lol..So what can I do to not be shy?! ANYTHING..please..please...
I'll rate HIGH =) promise
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well maybe you should go up to him ask him a randon question and strike up a conversation like that. if the both of you start to talking and get to know each other then maybe he will understand you and know why you were so shy at first "because he didn't know you" and he will think wait a minunet maybe i was to quick to judge her. just try to be you around him =* hope that helped
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ok this is a commonly asked question but please answer..how do you talk to someone you think is cute and you've never talked to them before?? also that you only have 1 or 2 classes with them or even if you just pass them in the hallway?? like how do you strike up a conversation that is not completly random sounding and embaressing?? please i need some help. thanx
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well just ask that person a randon question and start the conversation from there. maybe that might work. thats what i've always done. it's worked for me hope it works for you.
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Do you think its wrong to be bisexual? (link)
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i don't think that it is wrong to be bisexual. if thats who you are and it makes you happy do what you do. follow you heart and keep it real =*
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