I'm a 15-year-old aspiring journalist. I'm also really into singing, acting, debating, musical theatre and playing the piano. I was raised an Orthodox Jew, but I consider myself somewhat of a Deist (belief in God as a distant figure who isn't involved in personal life). I learn from my mistakes and give advice based on what life has taught me and general knowledge.
E-mail: berniegh@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: January 13, 2007
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how can you tell if a guy likes you ..? (link)
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they treat you differently.
they always stare at you (and there's nothing on your face).
they joke around about what would happen if you guys were a couple.
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okay so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 2 weeks..and we're going to the movies on friday and he told my friend he wants to kiss me but i dont know how to kiss...and im rly nervous...help!! (link)
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just follow what he does. you'll be fine.
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hi im just wondering if theres anyways that will make a hicky go away faster. i usually dont have this problem cuz my boyfriend never does it but he did it once by accident usually he just kisses it lightly. anyway thats not the point. just wanted to know thanks:) (link)
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Cocoa butter should work. Or maybe that's stretch marks...
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why is it that when a girl has sex with a few guys she known as a whore but a guy can have sex with like 50 different girls and not even be thought as a whore but to other guys a hero? (link)
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It's called the double standard. It dates back to biblical times when women could only marry one man so all would know who the father of her baby was (pre-DNA tests).
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what does this mean..
Did she actually give him head
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Did she actually give him a blow job
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is there anything guys like that isn't too dirty while making out? and about how long should you do it/make out for? thanks (: (link)
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suck on his bottom lip when you're pulling away.
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how do you show when you like a girl? (link)
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flirt. if she flirts back, ask her out!
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Hi, i am a 19 year old guy and just last night my girlfriend of 1 year and 3 months decided we needed to break up. she said that she had problems and just couldnt be in a relationship any more. she said that she does still love me and i belive her. the problem is that i dont think she has any problems and i wasnt to be with her more than anything in the world! How do i prove to her that we can make our relationship work and that we can be happy again. she said that she still wanted to be with me but didnt think she could be right now. what can i do? (link)
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don't act all pathetic and sad. that won't work. girls HATE seeing guys cry. chances are, there's a lot of emotional stuff going on w/her. give her a few days, or a week. maybe she just wants to be single and wants a break. basically, what i'm trying to say is give her time. then approach her if she seems interested, but don't if she's starting to date other guys.
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My friends really make me mad! They say that if I bring my boyfriend to the dance that there not going to go. Thing is, I really like him a lot and we have been dating for like 4 months now. Should I let what they say affect my decision or not. Im so confused and I feel like crying!! Nothing even happened between them. They just do not like him. I asked them why and they said they dont know why but they just dont like him. (link)
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My friends and sister are like that too with one of my friends (who there's a little something more with). If he's worth it, stay with him. If he's not an amazing boyfriend who loves you and would do anything in the world for you, it's not worth the gried that your friends give you.
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(FYI I'ma guy) My friend (lets call her T) called me and said that she could probably come over as we talked about a cuopple days before. I walked her back to my house and we talked pretty much the whole time. We can just talk for hours on end about nothing, I love that. It was just towards the end of our visit that I kissed her.. It didn't seem to affect her, but then I started to get physical after we stopped playing this slapping game :P. We ended up having oral sex among other things... After everything happend we just put on our clothes and I walked her back home like nothing happend. The thing is I'm confused, and I don't know how to greet her from now on. I kinda feel like a man whore. Was that kind of like a one night stand? Or the start of a bigger relationship? Help please =/ (link)
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Oh God....wow. Does it seem like she likes you? If it doesn't, then yeah, it was just a one-time thing. If she does like you, then ask her out.
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okay so tonight i went out with a guy that i know pretty well. we both like each other and we have french kissed once as friends. so this was kind of our second date i guess. anyway we were at a friends house with a few people. they said if we wanted to chill alone there was a guest room in the house so we both knew why we were going in there. so we of course started to make out and then we got under the covers and he took his shirt off and then i took off my bra etc. so i took my jeans off so i was completely naked then. he was too and he was saying how far have you gone and i said i've given a guy a hand job sorta before. and he said hes kinda at the same experience level as me. and then he said i mean would you give head i mean you dont have to and i said i wasn't ready yet. and of course i try to give him a hand job and he says it would be easier if my hand was wet so i did. and he said you know it might be easier if you wet it with you mouth because my mouth was so dry for some reason. so i did and then it still didnt work so we both went into the bathroom butt naked and i gave him a hand job. and then he goes pee and he says so do you want to go back outside. and i said yeah. i just feel so violated but i feel like it is my fault. and i feel like such as ho/slut. (link)
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You're not a slut. It's this guy's fault. He's like most high school guys, only out there to hook up. Don't worry.
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Female. 13.
Well, I like two guys. Both of them like me back. I like one [andy] more than the other [sid]. Well, Andy is 17 [yeah yeah i know] and Sid is in my grade. So, Sid asks me out today, and I say no because I like Andy more. But after I thought about it I really do like Sid a lot. Now, I feel like a complete idiot. I gave Sid a hug, and he said it's okay and stuff like that but i just feel like a witch! :[ At the same time though I h don't wanna go out with him. It's superrr weird. I really don't know what I want.
[more about andy]
He's really nice and likes me a lot. He even spraypainted my name on his board. But, we aren't like going out or anything. I know he seems too old for me and all but I really like him.
I'm so confused.
Seriously, what the heck should I do? (link)
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Andy's too old for you. I'll tell you that now. Four years is too much for teenagers. It isn't right of him to like you.
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I don't understand this...I'm already in the 9th grade...and ALL of my friends have boyfriends! What do guys look for in a girl? Because, to me, it looks like I don't have it. I'm NOT a pushover, I don't dress slutty, and I'm not flirty. Let's also say that "I'm not easy to "get to"". I don't know. I'm a VERY good student....and I get good grades....but this seems like somewhat of a turn off for guys. And those guys that are nerdy (but cute) too, still don't PAY attention to me! It's like I'm invisible...It's just not fair. ;_; (link)
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Trust me. You'll find a guy who's worth it who likes smart girls. I know I did.
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Ok well i'm a 14/f and i've never been asked out by a guy before...
I know that i'm only 14 and shouldn't be worrying about this but my question here is "what if A guy asks me out? How should I react?"
I'm a shy person and there was one time in 5th grade when a guy said he liked me, but he was more on the popular side... soo i kinda liked him too and said yeah, i like you too. Then he started laughing and ran towards his friends, pointing at me and saying "she fell for it!!"
to make this shorter- the next time a guy asks me out... how can I be sure its a joke, or for real?? and how should i respond to both a joke and if its real? since i'm really shy.
THANX! (link)
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Oh God, I used to be in the same position as you. I actually got out of it when I was 14. If the guy behaves like he likes you-really likes you, not stupid like what some immature guys are known to do. But if he seems geniunely attracted to you and he asks you out, it's probably for real.
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i hooked up with this guy on sunday like four or five times. since we didn't have school yesterday, I didn't see him until today. the horrible thing is, we didn't even talk, look at eachother, or even ackknowledge eachother! it was so awkward and I felt really really bad. maybe he just used me to hook up with him. i dont know. i really want to talk to him though. should i comfront him or wait for him to comfront me? what should i say? i have no clue since this is the first time it has happened to me. this day has been so bad because of it. (link)
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Pretend it never happened. It'll be better for both of you.
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so i am getting worried about prom. its in a few months but i dont have many guy friends, and even if i do..how do i make them want to take ME out of all their girl friends to the prom??? i dont want to go w/ someone it would be awkward with, though. so how do i start this? (link)
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If you have a really close guy friend who's likely to stay single, ask him. Also, feel free to ask people who don't go to your school.
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Heyy everyone! :D
im Hailey (link)
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I actually spoke to a guy about it today. Guys usually like it. They like to protect girls and if they like a girl and the girl tells them that they like them, they're over the moon. I also know a guy who, when an ugly girl walked up to him and handed him her phone number, decided that she was really hot.
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[so its the same story as the last one]
I like this guy named ryan,but i think he only likes me as a friend(i think).is there any techniques i can do to flirt with him so he will LIKE me LIKE me? (link)
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If you have boobs, wear a low cut shirt. That ALWAYS works. Start to dress...not really slutty, but a little nicer. Make yourself look pretty with makeup (not too much though. Natural looking should suffice). When flirting with him, laugh a lot and don't be afraid to touch his arm. Look him in the eyes and make sure you always look like you really enjoy being in his company. That should work. Come back to me if it doesn't.
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ok, so here's my problem.... My name's Nikki and I'm in a relationship with a guy, lets call him john. Me and "john" have been dating for the last couple of months, and i really like him, but the other day, i was at my cousins birthday and he had invited some of his other friends over and there was this one guy there that i started to like, lets call him kyle. but anyway, i dont wanna break up with "john" bcuz he gave me some stuff for christmas and it's really special to me and if we break up, then he'll want it back and he broke up with his old girlfriend to get with me and i dont want to leave him alone, but "john" lives in connecticut and i live in texas, while "kyle" lives in the same zip code as me. and i really like "kyle" and i want to get w/ him, but i'm not sure if i should. and i just kno that john will be really upset and hate me for the rest of my life and we'll probably never talk again, and I might move over the summer and i dont want to miss my chance to get with "kyle". before you send your advice, keep in mind that I DONT WANT TO CHEAT ON ANYONE! please help me.....
~Nikki~ (link)
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Long distance relationships usually don't work. They're really hard to work out. If you don't love John, break up with him. Since you live so far away, you have permission to do it over the phone. Then get with Kyle.
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My boyfriend of almost two years dumped me a week ago. We haven’t spoken since. I was sort of expecting it so all he said was “I can’t do this anymore. I’ve had one foot out the door for months.” I didn’t want to cry in front of him or get angry, so I just told him he could leave, and he pretty much ran out.
Now, I know I want him back. I know I miss him. I feel like most of our problems existed entirely in his head, but I do accept that it is over and there is no way we are getting back together. I’m a little confused though. I wish I’d listened to more of his explanation so I knew just what he was thinking (and that he doesn’t hate me, have no respect for me or think I’m a total idiot... all those nice things you are supposed to reassure someone of when you dump them.)
Should I e-mail him and ask for his reasons? Just to put my mind at ease. I’m not sure he could actually say anything that would make it easier... Or should I just let it go and keep on not speaking to him at all? (link)
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Let it go. Don't speak to him and ignore him. It'll make everything a lot easier. Maybe even try looking at other guys. Not dating, but just looking. Being single is a lot of fun. Just have a good time with it.
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