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i hooked up with this guy on sunday like four or five times. since we didn't have school yesterday, I didn't see him until today. the horrible thing is, we didn't even talk, look at eachother, or even ackknowledge eachother! it was so awkward and I felt really really bad. maybe he just used me to hook up with him. i dont know. i really want to talk to him though. should i comfront him or wait for him to comfront me? what should i say? i have no clue since this is the first time it has happened to me. this day has been so bad because of it.
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Sometimes when people hook up things will be weird the next day, especially if you guys were friends to begin with. Most of the time a hook up will ruin the friendship you guys once had. While other times, it may start up feelings and one (or both people) will start liking this person as more than a friend. A) He might have feelings for you, as of now. That could be the reason he didn't talk or look at you when you seen him. B) He could have used you and just wanted a night of fun, and that could be the reason why he didn't acknowledged you. C) He could simply be uncomfortable around you now, since you guys hooked up. I suggest saying "Hi" to him and trying to start a conversation up. If you want, you could ask him if what you did the other night made anything different between you and him. Then just take the conversation from there and see where it goes.
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don't ignore him, say hi and the normal things even if you do feel awkward! If he doesn't say anything back or he's horrible to you then he's not worth the hassle! but if he does, tell him what an absolute bastard he is and that no girl that you can get into contact with will ever go near him!
don't think its you thats the problem though-some men just don't have feelings and think with their nobs!
im sorry if this is the case, cuz no1 should have to feel like you probs do at the mo x
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Start with 'Hi'.
Seriously. Awkwardness only gets more awkward until someone refuses to let it keep growing.
Do yourself a favor and decide that first thing you do when you see him tomorrow is say "Hey you!" in a friendly, clear voice, then don't worry about this anymore this evening. You can't possibly know what he might be thinking. He could be desperately in love with you and just too shy to say anything or he could be ashamed, or he could have just been using you. Right now nothing you worry about is going to bring you any closer to the truth, so let it go.
See where it goes from hello. If nothing else, it will let him know that no matter what he is thinking, you are a confident and secure female. Even if you never speak of it agian. You will have proven to him, and everyone else, that you are prefectly cool with everything.
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Pretend it never happened. It'll be better for both of you.
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