Hello every one my name is Alyssa. I can help with basically any question. But I really like it when people give feedback. I am really into horses and I do barrel racing, wetern pleasure, showmanship, polebending, and more. I also do gymanstics and soccer. I have also tryed about every sport out their too. I have 5 people in my family my mom my dad my sister and my brother. I have 3 dogs 1 cat 2 rabbits i have 3 horses that are my show horses then the whole family we have a total of 11. You can always ask me any question. Even if I don't know what to say I will try to help. Or I will dig up some info on it to answer your question. So feel free to drop one in the inbox or email or what ever any time. Good luck in the future to every body.
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My boyfriend, well currently ex, cheated on me a few months back. We were dating for over 1.5 years, almost 2 so when I found out about it, I broke up with him.
I really wasn't planning on getting back together with him because I was really hurt. Besides the cheating however, I thought he was amazing.
Yesterday he came over to get me back. When we first started dating, I used to make him these cute little signs but I always thought he just threw them away. Well he kept them ALL! :D He made then into a book type thing and showed it to me when he came over. There was at least a 100 of them!
I thought it was the cutest thing ever! So it made me think about taking him back. What do you guys think? Does everyone deserve a second chance?
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With the type of relationship you had with him before. Yes I would give him another chace! BUt be aware they do it once they might do it again! So...... watch out and if he does do not get back with him! I had a guy cheat on me about 7 times then I finally figured out ooo I am so stupid why did I ever get back with him after he did it to me the second time. He said every time he was going to change and guess what! He never has. SO yes ive him another try. Hope every ting works out all right! Hope this helps. Good Luck in the future!
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Well here is the thing I like a girl in my grade and i have for like 4 months without telling her ( i was nervous) but she liked me for like 2 years i feel like im playin hard to get but i think im right for her, but here is the thing she is moving to Florida soon and i live in Massachusetts i really want to go out with her PLZ HELPP SOON!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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It's simple just go up to her and say hey look.... I was wondering if by any chance you would go out with me? Most girls like it if the guy asks them out. Say we can wright and stuff and also we can try it but if the long distence thing dosen't work out then well we can breake up but yeah somthing on the line of that. Tell her your feelings it will make her feel special and also you nerver know where it could lead you to some day. My aunt and uncle were jr.high bf and gf. Then my aunt moved and they had a long distence relationship for over 5 years. Also know they are married and have 6! kids!!!! # are theres and 3 are adopted. But they are really perfect for each other. hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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Hey, may 29, this kid Mark asked me out. I love him so much, and a week later he dumped me. I loved this kid alot.
July 15, this kid Felix asked me out. I said yes, he was cute. I forgot all about Mark. I seemed to love him. I just spoke to Mark, and he seemed to like me again. Gosh, now i like BOTH of them.
The problem is, Felix really likes me, and i feel so bad if i would dump him for Mark. Mark on the other hand dumps every girl after a week or two.
Felix said, he would commit succide if i broke up with him. I know he ment it. Last night he said he had a pocket knife to his throat, because he had no one to live for. But then he relized he loved me. So, he put it down.
HELP! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I CRY ALL THE TIME (link)
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Honey, you need to go with what your heart says. in my opinion the kid Felix I don't know about you being with him. I don't like the sound of suiside. I had a friend that commited and now that she is gone I want her here more than anything. But what I wished I would have done was to tell some one like a person in the offive at school a parent or somthing like that. Trust me if he is telling the truth I would get him help then brake up with him and then go and get hooked up with the kid mark but still be friends with felix. I would say it is not a good reson to stay with a guy just because you don't want them to commit succide. Then you could get into a life long thing always wondering is he gonna kill himself because I did somthing wrong? OR yeah somthing along that line but I would go with your heart and get him HELP. you need to do it befor e you loose someone you really cared about! Hope this helps. Good lUck in the future.
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Theres this guy i really like and i found out that he likes me too! but unfortunatly i am moving at the end of this month. he is on vacation for another week and then he's comming back. he told me he wants to hang out before i leave and i'm not sure what that's going to lead to..(nothing TOO serious, I'm sure!) if he asks though, should i go out with him? i've been in a long distance relationship before, it didnt work out only because i haven't seen that guy in 5 years. I know i would see this guy all the time though because all my family is here and we will vist A LOT. im soooo confused. Help!!!! (link)
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Well i have had one long term relationship and he ended up cheating on me! So if he is into you enough he wont if he is a nice guy he wont cheat. If you really really like each other than go out theres only one way to find out what would happen. Also some guys may like you and show it but in the long run not want to make a commitment and have a girl friend. So you might wanna make sure he does that stuff or you may already know! Well hope this helps.
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hey... well my boyfriend jordan and i have been going out for a month now. but my problem is that he invited me to go to the community pool with his family tomorrow. but, i don`t want to go. i am veerrryyy self-concious when my stomach is showing, because i`m quite chubby for my age. i don`t want to lie to him, but i also don`t want to be in a bathing suit around other people. so, i`m scared to go because i`m afraid he`ll be embarassed to be seen with me. what should i do??
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Well as rood as this may sound a month isnt that long and also it kind of sounds like hes using you hate to breake it to you! But anyways who cares what people think if he cares alot about you he wont think anything of it wear a skirt and shirt over it to not draw attention then before you get into the pool take it off and dont draw attention to it the more relaxed you will be the more fun you will have! So shake it off and GO PLAY! I dont have the best body either but thats what I do. Hope this helps. Sorry if it seemed rood to you. And please rate me.
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I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months, I honestly do love her. Whenever I tell her I love you she says I know like it's not a big deal or something, now whenver I tell her I love you she says I think you love me for the wrong reason, it hurts me when she says things like that, not once has she told me she loves me back. Am I just wasting my time? What should i do to respond to her when she tells me I love her for the wrong reason?
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Well if she is saying it then you either need to talk to her and tell her how you feel or if you dont feel like doing that then right her a letter or email or somthing of that sort. You can't force someone to say that they love you but if it has been 8 months then i would say if she dosent seem to respond to the letter or if you talk to her there might be another guy she is intrested in. I hate to tell you but that is some of the ways us girls give hints that were getting less intrested. Hope I helped. Good Luck
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Ok. so here's the deal..... My boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago on the last day of school. I think the reason why was because I was kinda being a jerk that day because my mom made me REALLY mad the night before. Well anyway.... I WANT HIM BACK! He was the sweetest guy that I had ever met. He might have thrown some little fits here and there since he's used to getting his way, but most of the time he was very affectionate. His birthday is coming up in a couple of days and I want to ask him back out as a present. The only thing is, I'm not sure if he'll take me back and how I'm gonna ask him. Any suggestions? (link)
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Well i have an idea if his birthday is comming p then maybe send him a card through the mail and do not put a retearn address say you are very sorry and you want to know if he would forgive you and go back out with him. I know one time I had the same issue over the whole summer he came back to me on the first day of school and wanted to go back out with me by then I had found another guy who we have been going out for quit the some time now. Also you can make him want you by ashowing him how good of a person you really are just say your sorry but dont over do it on a web site one time there was a poll and the guys biggest complaint about girls was that they bega nd say there sorry to many times once twice or even maybe three will be the winning one or maybe he was becomming un intrested and was just waiting for a reson but hopefully thats not the case! Good Luck. Hope I helped!
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ok well i am a 17 year old male, and of course my problem involves a girl. i have a major crush on this girl, i mean the whole nine yards. sweaty palms, loss of words, clumsiness, you name it (which is wierd because i NEVER have problems with girls). the cool thing is that i think she has a crush on me too. the thing is, my best friend (17/M) also likes this girl a lot, although she doesnt like him. i need to know what to do in this situation, because it is driving me insane. i will provide feedback. Thank you so much! (link)
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Awwwwwwwwww thats so cute. But anyways if you like this girl(which it sounds like you do) then you need to go talk to your other friend and see if he would mind if you asked her out. But you know a girl likes you by the body language. Or if you wanna do somthing by going a little bit slower and not jumping to going out then if your school has an end of the year dance or somthing like that invite her to go to it girls LOVE it when a guy comes to them and we dont have to go to the guy. I hope i helped. Good luck!
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I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do? (link)
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Hunny if you like this guy you need to stay with him you could call him and stuff like that but you dont want to mess somthing up over a trip. Ok say another girl likes himand is just waiting for yo uto breake up with him then you no wha he coud be gone and you may not have another chance with him!
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Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do (link)
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Well if you guys are that commited to each other maybe you can show your "love" for each other in a different way like if he wants to have somthing saying like "shes mine" then maybe try a promise ring but not a huge deal of one just an inside thing. But yes you are way to YOUNG don't be in a hurry to grow up! You guys keep going out and stuff but you will both change a large percent of divorces come from the cuples geting married to young and they change fall out of love and breake peoples hearts and have a terable time getting over it. I deffinitally think you need to tell him yeah you like him alot but say om sorry but i think were too young for that big of a commitment. Hope I helped
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okay so my boyfriend is a little younger than me and hes not a virgin .. and hes cheated in the past .. but i just found out about all this today from his bestfriend .. so what should i do? .. i really dont like the fact that hes not a virgin .. and he just turned 14 .. so HELP !!
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Well if your not comfertable with that maybe try confronting him about it. If thats all he wants a girl for is to use her than i would say give him the boot! Find out from the aactuall sorce not the scorses friend you never know if they switched things up or not. I had somthing similar happen to me one time except my boyfriends bro tryed to get us to breake up because he liked me. But anyways if you truly like him talk to him about it or go with your heart as I like to put it. I can't make the decision for you but i can try and help There are plenty of guys that will respect you for you and that are vergins don't go out with any body to just "go out" with them. Hope I helped and Good Luck
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