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the names Brooke.


iv gone trough it all, i know how you feel garnentee.


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i have been told several times im good at advice, and if you feel that no one understands you, i wont give up, i will try my best.


so please! ask me anything ;]




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hey well there is dis guy named john he is really cute and he is lik one of my best friends i realy like him and he knows, he treats me like a princess but i dont know if he likes me he used to go out with my friend but now she wanted to get me and him together but i was absent from school for about a week and my best friend in da whole world roxy told me dat my other friend broke up with john but know he is going out with someone else. what do i do do you think he like me he plays with my hair and talks to me all the time he is one of the only people who tell me how pretty my hair is well what do you think sorry it was so long thanks in advance. P.S sometimes i cry cuz school is almost over and im afraid i might not see him in the same school next year im only 13 and in the 7th grade

aw well honestly i think the boy likes you. no matter if he has a girlfriend or not. You dont just play with a girls hair because you guys are best friends. there has to be SOMETHING there. try and talk to him and ask "do you like me, or are you just leading me on i really like you so i want to know the truth" try something like that. if you want more ask on my coulum :]

-askxbrooke

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when i want to talk to the guy i like, i always have to write it on Word first. i get so nervous that he'll laugh at why i say and then i don't know what else to say. then when i talk to him he barely talks or answers but thats besides the point. i feel like if i say too much of something he'll get annoyed and block me. why am i like this and how can i stop?

well its just you prolly like the boys a lot, i mean its normal and prepareing yourself is a good thing! too stop even though your nervous dont think about it just like IM him or go up to him ect.

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15/f
This guy used to like me about three years ago. I was ridiculously stupid and immature back then, so I didn't act on it. I even thought it was gross that he liked me. But after I rejected him, I started liking him. And I haven't stopped since.

My interest in guys went way down, and I started questioning whether I was straight or not. But now I'm starting to realize that I think it's just been because I've liked him all of these years. I haven't had any classes with him since he liked me, and I haven't even talked to him since. I'm also A LOT different and more reserved now than I was then, so I don't even think he'll like what I am now. I don't even like what I am now, which is not attractive to guys, I know.

What do I do to either a) get him off of my mind, or b) get him to notice me?
I only see him pass me in the halls and such.

Thanks so much to whoever read this whole thing. I'll rate 5 to whoever answers.

hey! you sound like this is a rough time for you. boys defffff. suck sometimes but for you a) you can start to talk to other guys b)talk to him write him a note wave to him walk up to him at his locker be yourself the one he used to know


oh & im sure your beautiful! dont say that your not good looking a woman is beautiful no matter what.


hope i helped if you ever need help just ask me

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what are the best ways to become closer to guy friends? and what are some things guys look for in a girl to just hang out with?

well there is a couple things you can do, first get really close like you can do this by iof you and your friends are goiung to the movies be like i want you to go with us you should! or be like my mom said we can go to friendlys shed pick you up wanna come? or like casually do it dont be like OMG I WANT YOU TO COME OVER it never works lol but i hope i helped ;[

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so i pretty much just have some questions; any help would be awesome. is second base supposed to feel good for the girl? if i'm moving my hands around and go "down there" but don't want to do anything more then just touch and kiss, will he get the wrong idea? should i stay away from there altogether until i want to go farthur? is it better to unhook your bra or go over, and if he can't do it should i?

thanks for the help, i now its alot of questions!

Yes second meaning touching the girl is supposed to enjoy it it is personmal preferance. He shouldnt get the wrong Idea he should accept your choice and if he doesnt, leave him. You dont have to stay away there is nothing wrong with experimentong with your partner without going to far. well you dont wanna unhook your bra if ur at the movvies but its not so hard to go under it


hope i answered your questions ;] if you have more just ask

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Okay, I'm fourteen, a girl, and in desperate need of some advice. There's this guy I like (he's two years older than me, if that makes any difference) and he goes to a different school than I do. So, I only see him once a week at karate--sometimes not even that! Now, I found out that he likes practically everything I like. He seems a little nervous when he talks to me though, and I find him occasionally looking at me. But if I look at him, he quickly turns away.
Now here's the problem. I convinced him to try out for his school's play, since he never did before, and he tried out. Not so bad, right? My friend's friend knows more about him though, so I asked her about him. She said he was in all of the previous plays, that he's never had a grilfriend, and that he's a loser! That's horrible! But, did he really lie to me? We're friends, why would he do that? It's just...some people say he likes me, and it's just...no one I know is like him. And the signs are there...so...does he like me?

thats terrible what your friend said! thats not nice at all. dont worry about what anyone else thinks of him unless he lied to you if he lied to you than that is a different story. It sounds like he likes you. If you like him hun, dont be afraid to show it ;] hope i helped!

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My boyfriend got me a neclace for Christmas. I got him a neclace for Christmas too. He told me on the phone he got me a Teddy bear for Valentines Day. I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO GET HIM!!! he has a new watch and I cant just get him another neclace! Guys or girls, what do the guys want? what can I get him for Valentines day?

well a lot of boys like cute little things if you dont want something expensive then burn a cd and decorate the outside or the case, or try getting a teddy bear or evern go to bild a bear and make one they have sounds that say i love you and tehre not that expensize!



hope i helped ;]

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I Am 16 And I Have A Boyfriend And I Love Him ALOT!!! Lately It Seems Like All I Can Think About IS Doing Stuff With Other Guys! However When I Am With My Boyfriend Or Talking To Him...I Dont Have That Problem! So What Exactly Is Going On Here...

This is completely normal! its a teenage mind working correctly! how can you help but wonder about other guys sexualy theres nothing wropng with it your just thinking so dont think its cheating!


-hope i helped!

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i saw a question earlier about girls getting together with boys through friends from different schools. i have a friend who i can meet people through, but i would like to know how to talk to them and about what??


THANK YOU SO MUCHHH!

well its easy just have your friend and you & the boys hang out one day at a common place like movies bowling ect. then seeing its a group of people it will be easy to talk cause its not just one on one make a compoliment or say in the movie be like omg! did you see that!


hope i helped ;]

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I've never really done this advice and answer thing, but I've always wanted to and really need some advice from an outsider because it feels I can never talk to anyone about my problems.. Its just me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months and we are very serious. Its just that he acts very immature sometimes and hurts my feelings a lot. I cry sometimes as well. He doesn't really let me spend time with my girlfriends and I understand becuase he wants to be with me, I would probably be mad too. But its just, I really think that I love him. But he thinks of himself too much. His parents don't really like me that much either and they think we hang out too much, and I don't like them much either. But my boyfriend didn't like that I wanted to go hang out with my friends so then he threatens me all the time in going and hanging out with his old friends, so that is just what he did. He went to his ex grilfriends house and then after then went out. I do trust him and I don't really think anything went on, its just that it upset me . We had a big fight over it. But I think everythings alright. I do think he feels the same way about me, but sometimes I think he uses me to do stuff. If u know what I mean, in a sexual way. I usually get really jealous becuase he is a very popular guy and he flirts a lot and kinda talks about girls sometimes to get me jealous. But I think he's doing it on purpose. He's stupid like that. What do you think I should do. I really hope you can help me. Thanks you so much

well not to worry he seems like a typical boy! if you like him enough to deal with that than i guess you go for it but what hes doing isnt nice, talk to him about it, its not right that hes not letting you hang out with your girlfriends i had a boyfriend like that and i lost all my girl friends cause tehy were like "no ur boyfriends more important than us andwere sick of it" it took forever to get them back so i think before it gets outta hand you gotta talk to him about it;]


hopefully i helpedd.
if you need anything else just ask;]

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i no you guys r prolly sick of these questions but please bare with me.
im 13/f,and me & my bf have been together for almost 4 months.although u may think im too young,were madly in love with each other.
i want to do something EXTREMLY special that he will never forget for valentines day.
please help.
also i cant spend more than 20 dollars?
thanks a ton.

burn him a cd with some cute songs on it and make him a big card in the shape of a heart and write all over it ! write a really special note! hope i helped if you want more ideas leave one in my inbox ;]

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14/m

ok so my girlfriend and i have been going out for a couple months and i don't know what to get her for valentine's day. i don't have much cash so it can't be too expensive.

also, don't suggest burning a cd. i did that for her for christmas, and i don't want to look repetitive.

thanks

aw what a nice boy you are ;]


- make a big heart card with a bunch of good times you two have had
-a simple box of chocolates would make her smile
-wrap the box of chocolates in white paper and write all over it with sharpie or something
i hope i helped!

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K well my friend said that she was talking to my boyfriend and he said that he was planning on kissing me soon. Me and him have talked about it and i told him that i really want to but i am just scared. I have never kissed anyone before and so i am like really nervous but i know that i want him to be my first kiss. i am just scared that i will do something weird or something like that. does anyone have any... umm tips/advice for me? and also, should i wear lipgloss or chapstick or just nothing? or what? cause im afraid lipgloss would make my lips too gooey! and if i didnt have anything on then i dont want my lips to be all chappy or anything! so any advice would be greatly appreciated! thanks!

aww well i think if your ready it sounds like a very good idea some tips.

001.chap stick is betteer it wont be gooey like your afraid off
002.if he closes his eyes do it too
003. stand close to him
004. just relax
005. brush ur teeth before you go out bring lots of mints!

heres also a website i found for you! http://links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months. i have no clue what to get him for valentines day. HELLPPP

well get him something simple like maybe a tshirt and choclates something like that and make him a BIG card shaped like a heart and put random like little sutuff you guys have done together good times and stuff. if you want more ideas or a picture of what im talking about IM me brooke 411 xo or just leave me something on my page ;]

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i have a couple of guys that are my best friends. one of them has a girlfriend that i know he loves very much, but he tells me that he loves me too. is this normal for guy/girl friendships? i dont know if he's joking around, or if he really loves me as a good friend or if he loves me more than that.

well, it depends its kinda rude on the guys part to like say he loves you because some people concider that cheating, when he says it next time ask him bel ike "are you jokeing when you say that or is it for real?" he could just be a flirt i mean theres so many possibliltys! if you need anything else ask me on my page ;]

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I reallly want to hook up with my CRUSH(let's call him CUTIE)! I always get jealous when other girls like talk to him. I donn know why. But then I'm starting to like my best friend's EX-BOYFRIEND(lets call him JACK). He's not all cute but then I start to talk to him a lot and I think he likes me. Rumor has it at my school that he's gonna ask me to the dance.If he does I dont wan't CUTIE to feel bad because I love him more. I also don't want Jack to get hurt if I say no to him. My friend is OK that I kinda like him and the same with him. But I just feel so wierd that i like 2 guys at the same time. It kinda makes me feel like a slut at the same time. I don't want to live my life wondering if I picked him what would have happened? Please help me.

welll first of all your not a slut its not your fault these boys are in love with u! ;] lol its completly noraml to like 2 guys at the same time your just confused its also normal to get jealous everyone does and it seems like these boys are a bit jealous too. so my advice too you is to wait it out and talk to them both and then sewe who you like more its a tuff decison but you cant worry about hurting any of them you have to worry about what you want not whats going to please others thats the same with everything in life. hope i helped! if u want more just ask me on my page

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theres this guy i like, his name is george and he knows i like him.
so the other day i asked my friend to ask him that if i was to ask him out wot would he say and he said no. but ever since he found out i liked him he's been acted soo nice to me like hanging out at lunch and that.
so how do i get him to regret wot he said? im not exactly asking how do i get him to like me bcoz i know that you can't make anyone like you.

any advice??

xxxx

well, you are 100% right you cant make anyone like you, but to get him to regret what you said, try talking to him about it ask him "why did you say you would say no to me if you flirt with me all the time
" or something like that i know thats hard, but if u want other suggestiosn ask me on my page! ;]

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