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why am i so paranoid?
when i want to talk to the guy i like, i always have to write it on Word first. i get so nervous that he'll laugh at why i say and then i don't know what else to say. then when i talk to him he barely talks or answers but thats besides the point. i feel like if i say too much of something he'll get annoyed and block me. why am i like this and how can i stop?
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Hey. You're not paranoid. Every girl goes through this when they like a guy so it's completely understandable. You also probably got into the habit of writing things on Word so now you feel that if you stop you won't know what to do or say. Don't feel bad if the guy doesn't say much because people don't really talk much on aim anyway. They say little things like "hey" or "whats up" or "nm". Especially guys who don't talk much anyways. Just think of it this way if you really want to stop writing things on Word. They're a person just like you among billions of other people and your just having a cute little conversation. There are things that will be much harder in life. Not that I'm saying this isn't hard (believe me I know it is) but this will make you feel better. Just set your mind to typing what you want to say just as if this guy was your best friend or your mom, dad, or a family member. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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There is nothing wrong with what you do. Word rocks. It's got grammer functions and dictionaries (thats my fave part, I cannot spell what so ever).
It's okay to be nervous, because he's a guy you like! Of course you don't want him to laugh at you or think you're stupid, so it's natural to worry and obsess over it.
If he doesnt respond, it doesnt really matter, you're still talking to him, and he still reads it, so it's not like he isn't listening to what you're saying. He's probably just busy and guys dont really hold up great conversations very often.
I'm sure he wont get annoyed and block you. If you talk about relevant stuff and if his like (are you using like msn?) status or whatever is set to away or something then don't bother him, but don't feel afriad to talk to him, even if you are the only one holding up the conversation. Whats the worst he can do? Block you? Well thats not very likely and even if he does who cares he's a jerk who doesnt want to talk to awesome you!
So why are you like that? It's not that big of a deal, you're just nervous which as I said is perfectly natural, and you just want to seem perfect to your guy, but if you start dating him or whatever, then you'll be able to show your true feelings, but sometime si even get that way with people I know well, so don't worry it's fine, and as you get to know him it will be easier.
Other than that, it's probably not something that you can really fix, but if you really want to get over it, just try talking to him more and more about things that are more complicated and he has to answer you. Then he will have to answer you with more than a yes or no.
Good luck, and I hope I helped you to figure out why you're like that. Lots of love,
Angie91
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well its just you prolly like the boys a lot, i mean its normal and prepareing yourself is a good thing! too stop even though your nervous dont think about it just like IM him or go up to him ect.
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