K well my friend said that she was talking to my boyfriend and he said that he was planning on kissing me soon. Me and him have talked about it and i told him that i really want to but i am just scared. I have never kissed anyone before and so i am like really nervous but i know that i want him to be my first kiss. i am just scared that i will do something weird or something like that. does anyone have any... umm tips/advice for me? and also, should i wear lipgloss or chapstick or just nothing? or what? cause im afraid lipgloss would make my lips too gooey! and if i didnt have anything on then i dont want my lips to be all chappy or anything! so any advice would be greatly appreciated! thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lcrx97 answered Sunday January 28 2007, 7:26 pm: I was in the exact same situation with my boyfriend! Believe me when I tell you this, don't stress about it! I spent the first couple months of my relationship worrying my head off about making the kiss perfect. Use chapstick; not lipgloss because it's too sticky. If your boyfriend has done this before, let him lead you. Trust me - once you get into it, it's going to be fine. It's going to start off a little rocky because it's your first time, but don't stop! Keep on going and it will smooth over as time goes one. Once you've gotten over the "awkward first time," every other time will be great. ;) Don't stress!♥ [ lcrx97's advice column | Ask lcrx97 A Question ]
crissx33 answered Sunday January 28 2007, 5:22 pm: ok i was the same way about this as you are. jsut relax. its nothing that great. dont use lipgloss.. because most guys dont liek it because its sticky. chapstick is the best because it makes your lips smooth and look good. when the kiss happens it happens..dont rush into anything. when you guys do get to the point of kissing. let him be the lead if you dont know how to. whatever he does you do. just tilt your head and make sure your lips touch. if he uses tounge. use yours but dont shove it down his throat. since its your first kiss it might not be a huge long one. so just relax and be calm when it comes =D [ crissx33's advice column | Ask crissx33 A Question ]
Boochie answered Sunday January 28 2007, 4:36 pm: Guys hate lipgloss! Chapstick would be fine. Make sure to chew gum right before also. Nothing is worse then gooey lips with bad breath! LOL. As for tips, i was scared too my first time but when you're kissing, the instinct just comes to you. Trust me, you'll do fine. Go for it girl!!
vivalajam0x answered Sunday January 28 2007, 4:28 pm: Hey,
Aww :) How sweet.
A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone...just so neither of you are embarrassed or anything.
Start with a small kiss, work into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...
As for what you should have on your lips: just lick them-anything else would make for a gooey, sloppy kiss-Ick!
Also, make sure your breath doesn't smell. Mints are better than gum before the kiss!
Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
askxbrooke answered Sunday January 28 2007, 4:21 pm: aww well i think if your ready it sounds like a very good idea some tips.
001.chap stick is betteer it wont be gooey like your afraid off
002.if he closes his eyes do it too
003. stand close to him
004. just relax
005. brush ur teeth before you go out bring lots of mints!
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