Ok so im 12/f and so is my bff. Well she was recently at a Jewish sleepover camp over the weekend (Jan 12-14) and when she got back she called me up and told me some really crazy news. She said that she met this guy there and they started making out and he ended up sleeping in her bed w/ her. Now we are 12 and in 6th grade. Are town does not take things like that calmly. she obviously hasnt told her parents or anyone but her friends. i was just thinking it sounds so fake but my friend would not lie like that to me. besides there is no reason to its not like any of us had done anything like that to make her feel like she had to make it up. I'm starting to wonder if she made it up, which would make me mad, but then again i'd rather have had her make it up bcuz no i think shes a slut. Any advise on how u think i should handle it? was it slutty or am i just over being paranoid?
thanks in advance
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If she brings it up over and over again, chances are she's lying, or she's really happy about the whole thing.
No, she's not a slut, as long as they did nothing but kiss.
Make sure she knows that she should watch what she does, because if there's another one of these Jewish sleepover camps, you don't want her to do anything more than what she did. I mean, she's 12 years old, she's still a kid herself-she doesn't want to have kids, right?
You're not paranoid, hun, your just being a good friend!
askxbrooke answered Sunday January 28 2007, 4:17 pm: well its not slutty, i mean maybe it wasnt a good choice of her to do. but you shouldnt juge her by one move she has made i mean im surey ou know how that feels its a bit harsh. talking to her would be the best way to cope with it when i was at that age i was doing much more than that! so i dont think its slutty! good luck if u want more advice go to my page [ askxbrooke's advice column | Ask askxbrooke A Question ]
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